My husband and I have been having some problems to begin with because he pratically convinced me to lie to our neighbor that I had not hit his car(my neighbor's car), which I did do.My husband was afraid that my neighbor would make me pay for the whole damage.Since I listened to him, I never did tell him and my neighbor still found out because he saw that every measurement and proof was correct with what he suspected.Now that he knows that I was the one he came to talk to me and I had to tell him that I was planning on telling him the truth but my husband convinced me not to tell him.Now the neighbor is a really nice guy and has agreed to pay for the main part of the damage and for me to pay the other part.But my husband betrayed me because I found out that he told my neighbor that he did not know what had happened because I always lied to him and he did not trust me.Since I found that out I have been upset because a husband should never talk bad about his wife with anyone.Then, over..
2007-07-31 17:55:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the weekend I found two pictures of two girls in my husbands wallet.I was pissed and started a pretty bad argument but he keeps telling me that he does not have another woman and that one of the pictures is of his cousin(which is not because his mother says it is not true), and he says that the other picture is just a friend.Now I feel so betrayed by him that I only wish to not be touched by him and don't feel like I really love him that much anymore. We have been seperated for almost one year and we have two small boys and it seems like he did not learn his lesson. Please advice...This really hurts.
2007-07-31 17:58:03 · update #1
Divorce. I would be more upset about the other women, but I would also be mad that he told lies about me. If you have been separated for a year, which one of the women is he living with. How many women has he had since leaving you? You know he has been seeing other women, cause guys don't go with out sex for long.
2007-07-31 18:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-19 21:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by adrienne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what. Me being a man myself, there is no reason for him to have any womans picture in his wallet. If i felt i wanted a girls pic in my wallet, i would at least show my girl the picture and tell her "look at the picture my neice or cousin gave me" To carry another womans picture as a FRIEND is bullshit, I dont care what anyone says. You have 2 kids, your seperated, move on, trust me. Get child support. Dont fall for any bullshit, go to the courts, its always where it ends up anyways
2007-07-31 18:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by tattoo_dragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sound likke a real jerk, and you need to cut him loose
so fast it make his head swim. the fact that he betrayed you
with the neighbors, is just plain wrong when he the one
that want to lie. he has some issues, and the fact that he
has women and lying about it is no good. if you are
still separated time to loose him, and find you a
real man he not one.
2007-07-31 19:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry u r having to go through this. But it seems clear that u are wasting precious time with this person. I can't even call him a man. Please see things for what they r. U deserve soooooo much better . Don't let him try to make a fool out of u . U know better don't u?
2007-07-31 18:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by jusayg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You separated for a reason. Your husband cannot be trusted and has referred to you as the untrustworthy one. Why would you have any other thought than to get away from this guy? It's bound to get worse.
2007-07-31 19:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. Well. There are a few issues going on. One, your husband is a SKANK for telling you to lie to your neighbor. Two, your husband is a SKANK for lying to your neighbor. Three, your husband is a SKANK for telling your neighbor you are a liar. And Four, your husband is a SKANK for lying to you about the pictures in his wallet. Honestly, who the hell carries around a picture of their cousin in their wallet. (Not unless they are kissin' cousins.)
I would dump his SKANK butt and make it final. You deserve better. If you keep taking him back and forgiving, this loser will never quit. Life is too short.
2007-07-31 18:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that lies will always come back to haunt you. It'll come back one way or another. If you still love him, why don't you put some spicy pix of you in his wallet. If your not hot ,then get hot.
2007-07-31 18:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Bone Daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt feel bad about what he did to you and his children then you need to let him go and you need to move on in youre life and no a husband should never talk about his wife to nobody and tell lies on them like that i wouldnt trust him at all
2007-07-31 18:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
seem.s like yiou got a lot of trouble and starting with him is it if he lie about a car he lie a cousin that.s a good one ask him to let you meet them he die from guilt on being brought out in thwe open and no way to lie on it as well in my opion?
2007-07-31 18:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋