we had an argument and he denies the child i'm carrying. This baby is his the other 2 children he has is not his but he claims they are he wants a divorce but I'm 7 months pregnant and can't get a job yet any help would be appreciated to get over him.
2007-07-31 23:04:55 · 10 answers · asked by stormieford 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im so sorry. is it possible to move in with your mom or another relative? i know it will be hard to get over him, but focus on your children. they will have so much more love for you then he ever did.
2007-07-31 23:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him or care for him? Just answer the question. Now what do you want to do? Get over him at this point will be kind of hard because he will always be in your mind because of the baby. What I'm about to say is wrong in a way but it can help. Start dating other guys while you're pregnant. He might call you all types of names but go get what you're after. Be careful of crazy *** guys to. If you do decide to date other men try dating out of town guys and don't pick up guys in clubs but in the stores. Make yourself single and don't worry about what others think you must live your life. You can email me or IM me the only thing I can say is enjoy yourself.
2007-08-01 06:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by DEMARCO A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be little rude but i think u should take some law action because the situation is now out of control and afterall marrige is not a joke & y the inocent childern should suffer,the baby whch is his, is his responsibility and he has to take care of his forthcoming baby. By taking leave from his life not means that his responsibility is over I think u should consult with a lawyer,who will guide u better in this case.Good Luck.
2007-08-01 06:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by somalika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real creep who's trying to back out of his responsibilities. You need to talk to an attorney immediately! I'm not kidding. Get out that phone book and call and make an appointment today.
2007-08-01 10:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your situation.....men can be such jerks.......i have found very few really caring men........but honestly if he said that to me and you really believe he means it i would file for divorce and have him support the child.........there is ways to prove the child is his........i have no tolerance for men like that.....i have seen enough abuse and i have been through so much of the way men does women it just overwhelms me.......but you must stay strong and do what is best for your children........and it is not easy to get over anything like this.......i remember things that happened years ago but you just have to learn to deal with it and learn from mistakes.........and things that do happen..........i do hope you have friends, family, or some agency can help you if you need to get another place to live.......the best is wished for you and your children............
2007-08-01 06:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't divorce him until after you have your baby, if you can help it. If he wants a divorce, he will have to pay spousal support for you. Just make sure that your attorney gets it for you. Then when the baby is born, go after him for child support too!!! All you need is a DNA test, and he will have to pay!!!
Don't go to work until you are ready to. He has to pay for you until you go to work. Make him pay until your child is old enough to go to school!!!
2007-08-01 06:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's crazy to think he isnt the father.. but says hes the father of the other 2 when he isnt.. wow i say move out now for ur sake and all ur kids sake.. file for child support and move in with ur mom.. try doing yoga to get ur mind off him.. stuff that there is stuff u can do when ur pregnant but only standing.. or getting out and playing with ur kids.. dont think about him even for a second i know its hard because ur still going think about him alittle bit but just try not to.. dont stay inside and mope around the house eatting ice cream get out with ur friends..
2007-08-01 06:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by (Anonymous) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and try to find a job or ask family to help till you stand up on your own feet.
If this guy doesn't want you the tell him I don't want you either.
Good luck
2007-08-01 06:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by noona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your better off with out him you deserve some one who will take you and your children in believe it or not we are out there,do yourself a big favor and get over him it will take time but you can do it,may God bless you with a fantastic man i pray for you always.
2007-08-01 06:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by illprayforyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to forget about him if he feels that way you can email me and i could help you find things to take your mind off him
2007-08-01 06:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋