Marriage & Divorce - 29 July 2007

It seems to me that women are better at talking about their feelings and stuff that has happened to them. It seems that men find it more difficult. Why is this so?

2007-07-29 22:52:24 · 4 answers · asked by Fluffy ♥ 4

Do all the wise man in the world share the same passion like him?

2007-07-29 22:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by tiahkoh 2

i just wonder how important men in the life of women.. many women cried because of men....

2007-07-29 22:06:22 · 10 answers · asked by memen 1

I don't love my husband, I don't even like him, and it is becoming unbearable to live together. I don't speak to him anymore. He knows something is wrong but hasn't worked it out. I have to small children one aged 6 and one aged 4 and don't want to hurt them so I have stayed for there sake it's been 3 years since I started to feel like this. I just wan't the uneasy feeling to stop I am at breaking point, I want my children to be happy. My other concern is how will I cope financially on my own with 2 small children, I don't work at the moment and have no money but if something dosn't change soon I think I will just lash out. I don't want to hurt anyone.

2007-07-29 22:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 6 years and I love my wife deeply. I cross dress and have tried to tell her before but always bottled it. I am not gay or bi and I have no desire to have surgery. I have made my mind up to tell her but I don't know how to do it. Can anyone advise? Serious answers only please as I don't want to hurt her but I don't want to carry on lying to her either.

2007-07-29 21:24:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

it , what is it?..........

2007-07-29 20:37:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need percentages of my first love comeing back . even if its the future.. we dated 5 years , he cheated and now is married with his pregnant wife, he says he screwed up and he is miserable. but what do u think the percent is us getting back together in the long run no matter what the circumstances? be nice

2007-07-29 20:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by raegrey 2

My husband has asked for a strange b'day present. He wants to have a threesome between his female colleage, me and him. I rejected it outright the first time he asked me (a few months back)..but he has again come back with the request as a bday present.
He has even said that he will not insert himself inside the other woman but will like her to give him a BJ. Basically he just wants her to watch us doing it....dont know what to say? He wants me to touch her?
Should I say ok? Will the colleage agree at all - we dont know. My hubby says she might - as she is quite wild.
Should i agree to this as a one time thing only?? Help!!?

2007-07-29 20:30:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love to buy sexy lingerie for my girl friend. I've about exhausted the sources I'm familiar with. Where do you buy your sexiest, fun lingerie or where do you buy it for your SO?

P.S. She's not plus size or any of that. She has a fabulous body.

2007-07-29 20:28:02 · 2 answers · asked by Net Rider 3

I've been married for 8 years and sometimes I find myself questioning if our relationship is a normal marriage. Sometimes I think the media (movies, books, etc.) is constantly feeding me romantic notations that "normal" people don't really do. So, I want to ask a few questions. This is for people in a long term relationship. Please answer honestly!
Here they are:
Does your spouse spontaneously flirt with you or give you a kiss?
When was the last time you got a nice long romantic body massage?
Can you approach your spouse about ANY subject without having awkwardness?
When was the last time your spouse surprised you? And what was it?
When was the last time you had spontaneous mid-day sex?
When did you last have a meaningful conversation with your spouse?
What do you think is the best quality that your spouse has?
What is your biggest pet peeve about your spouse?
I'm looking forward to hearing what other people's relationships are like. Thanks for answering!

2007-07-29 20:07:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My b/f lied about phoning his ex. I found out that he lied and he said that he didn't tell me that he phoned her because he knows I would be hurt. He says that the only reason he talks to her is because she is the mother of his 2 children (teenagers). I explained to him that if he is with me he shouldn't be there for her. I do not want him to fall out with her, I am not jealous of her and I want him. Is he right to always be there for his ex? They have both had other long relationships since their divorce and it seems that they talk about their new relationships to each other. Is this normal? I couldn't imagine phoning my ex about my b/f and talking about him behind his back! I am sure that my b/f would not like this and I am certain that my ex's g/f wouldn't like it either. What does everyone think on this please? xx

2007-07-29 20:06:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently heard that a family member of mine is really depressed because her husband told her that he didn't love her anymore. She said he had been acting weird a few days ago 'till she finally asked him what was wrong and he said he didn't love her anymore. Could it be that he just stopped loving her for no reason or something else could've been going on?

2007-07-29 19:51:41 · 11 answers · asked by Cardiophobia <3 5

I found a few such text on my husband's cell. should i confront him or wait to discover more shocking facts n info b4 i take action?

2007-07-29 19:49:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband feels that he's unapreciated ! I tell him I love him all the time and how much I respect and apreciate him, I cook clean never say no to sex and take good care of the children I really don't know what else to do ..advice please.

2007-07-29 19:30:50 · 15 answers · asked by thecoldfire72 2

relationship. to suddenly get motivated and lose 100 pounds in a matter of 3 months??

2007-07-29 19:10:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i are seperated for the second time. i was living with him and told me last month that he filled for divorce becasue he was tired of everything. not giving a real explaination i packed up and moved back into my mothers house. the truth came out that he did not file for divorce and he only said that because he is tired of my mother interfereing in our marraige. now iam staying in my mother house i will not move back in with him. my mother got mad and tried to jump on my because she heard me talking to my husband on the phone that i pay for in my room! iam thinking about letting my husband file for divorce because it seems my mom is not going to get off of my back until we are divorced. it all started when my husband would not give her his income tax check to bail my brother out of jail last year and from that day on my mother has been nothing but trouble in my marriage. now i c y my huband wants seperation. should we file or not. this is hell!

2007-07-29 19:08:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

seem like everytime i try she come up with a excuse!

2007-07-29 18:52:30 · 16 answers · asked by cory d 1

our is 2.6 year old marriage. we are staying with my parents. 2 days back my wife had some hot talk with my parents ans she left the house and took our 6 month old son. now she told me very clear that i have to chosse only one. whether wife and son or my parents, she is not ready to come back. kindly advice?

2007-07-29 18:47:18 · 20 answers · asked by sumit k 3

2007-07-29 18:43:07 · 17 answers · asked by toysmom 2

It is so sad though. My grandfather was a wonderful man and her mom and adopted dad told her that her father died in WWII

The only reason I know this is because the housekeeper mentioned to my great aunt about how this little girl was crying and screaming and looking through her adopted dads office that she didn't believe her date died in the war. My aunt asked what family was this and it was her family.

My grandma is very insistent on the fact that I don't find her. She is afraid she would come take away my mom's inheritence.

How wrong would it be if I found her but just didn't tell her who I was? I really wish she would have looked for my grandfather but why would she have when she thought he was dead.

2007-07-29 18:39:58 · 6 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6

I was married for 6 years. I had a hard time losing weight I had gained (mostly because my husband wanted 2 eat out, order pizza & sit at B&N whenever we had free time together), then yearly, would bring up my weight . he even had called me a fat ***** a few times. I wanted a divorce, but wasn't sure if it was reason enough 2 go back on my vows. I didn't want 2 just end it, but was sick of being put down & feeling like **** all the time. Well, this past February, on his own, he told me my life was F*d up, I was a sad person &the only reason he stayed with me is cuz he felt sorry 4 me THEN told me that if I wasn't going 2 ask (practically beg him) 2 stay, that I would have 2 file.

I moved out, got a new job and filed. My divorce doesn't finalize until Sept, but already I met someone who is genuinely interested in me and wants to be with me. I was kinda looking forward to singlehood, but he's everything I had been hoping for. Is it too soon to get attached if I'm really happy w/ him?

2007-07-29 18:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 22 yrs old and have a 4 yr old from a previous relationship. My boyfriend is 24 with no kids and really wants a baby. I am in my last yr of college and I make about $60,000 a yr. Hes finished with school. We began planning our wedding and he agreed that he would wait till i was done with school and married before we had a baby.I can afford to have another child. But my boyfriend wants nothing to do with my 3yr old son. He doesnt come over when he is up, he doesnt go out with us, I think he tries to put it out his head that I have a son. I have spoken to him about this a million times and he said that he isnt ready to be a step father, he wants to be a father first. He's a good man to me. He treats me very good and we have a lot of fun together. But when ever I spend time with my son, he makes me feel guilty about him not having a baby. I love my son and I love my boyfriend. Its easy to say just leave him or talk to him. I've tried both! I dont know what to do!

2007-07-29 18:28:24 · 41 answers · asked by BeautifulStar 1

2007-07-29 18:23:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are great, one of the best a man could ask for, but unfortunately they didn't achieve much in their lifetime and now my mom is 49 and dad is 59 and they don't have their own house, and don't have college degrees either. I am 22 years old and my wife is 21, we've been married for 2 years now and we were living in the same house as my parents and we were helping out in the house with bills. My wife and parents get along perfect, thats not the question, but now i feel as if i want my own life with my wife, and she's been complaining lately too, so what do i do? How can i leave my loving parent by themselves, they cant afford it, or be fine by themselves, they are too dependent on me, for my mom dont drive or else how can i have my own life? sometimes i feel that god took something so simple away from me, the fact that i can't even have my own life with my wife without happen to worry about my parents like my kids, Wow this is a situation alot of people don't face.
What do i do

2007-07-29 18:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by manofsteel_returns 2

Sometimes at bedtime my wife will provoke me. Then she convinces me that if I let her hogtie me, then she will reciprocate. sometimes she does, but sometimes she does not. Either way she then rolls over and goes to sleep, leaving me bound until the following day. I do love her and want to make her happy, but more often then not I have to submit to her wishes if I want to have the opportunity to... well you know. And she like to be on top. How can I correct this?

2007-07-29 18:00:28 · 13 answers · asked by What to do? 1

My husband and I went on vacation last year. We went to meet some of his relatives that he has never met. His mom was adopted and his biological Grandfather died at the age of 45. So we got to meet his grandfather's sister. Well the problem is that on the adoption papers said that he was 100% Italian. Well his great Aunt kept talking about being Indian. So finally I asked where does the Italian fit in. She looked at me puzzed and said "oh, there isn't any Italian."

His grandfather lied on the adoption papers and lied to the women he got pregnant and the sad thing is that we can't ask him why he lied.

My husband's mom's adoptive parents researched and brought his mom up Italian. They wanted her to at least know her own heritage. So she brought my husband up Italian! Now they find out they aren't. So my husband is going through this Identity crisis and he has been kind of depressed about the whole thing. He says, one day I woke up Italian and went to bed Indian

2007-07-29 16:57:13 · 6 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6

my husband left my house a couple of days ago to get drunk n party with his brothers, he has done it to me many times i got fed up and so i broke up with him after all he is a drunk. we have 2 boys 1 and the other is only 7 months, how can i overcome this i have no friends n my family just throws things in my face telling me i told you so,
would it take a long time anyone with experince...

2007-07-29 16:26:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my partner (we're not legally married) for almost 10 years. I have a 12 year old daughter from a prior relationship and he is VERY critical of her. Over the yrs, I have heard 1000 promises that he'll "do better." He never follows thru and seems to delight in seeing her cry. 5 years ago he cheated on me...I agreed to forgive if he would FINALLY begin to act like a dad to her. (I am an AWESOME step-mom to HIS 10 yr. old child). I found myself pregnant (oops) and had a beautiful baby boy 2 1/2 yrs ago...and now also have an 8 month old boy...filling my own emptiness probably...it definately wasn't a "love" based decision...but I will NOT regret my boys!

My dilema is this...he STILL treats my daughter horribly, yet DOTES on his sons. I am filled with disgust...and feel sooo trapped. He and I do nothing together-he works ALL the time or is sleeping. I feel like I'd be a horrible mom to rob my 2 yr old of seeing him daily- and yet my daughter is sooo unhappy. So am I....

2007-07-29 16:20:47 · 19 answers · asked by jaymie 1

2007-07-29 16:18:28 · 20 answers · asked by Clementine 2

my dad accusing my mom of cheating on him 5 yrs ago. He has been building up some supporting facts about his accusation. No proofs though. He made a whole list and showed it to me. At first I thought it was stupid but then I started to pay attention to my moms responses&reactions. It's the smallest things she does that gives me doubt about her. My dad doesn't have any proof so the only thing he can come up with to proove his side is a lie detector test. Yes, it's not accurate but what else is there? When my dad told her about the lie detector test, she said no because she doesn't have to proove herself. But after she found out that it's not accurate, she said yes. My mom is upset at me because I don't believe her. I told her I don't believe her or my dad because that's like taking sides. She thinks I favor my dad more. They need marriage counseling but my mom is good at talking/dramatic can get herself out of anything and my dad is traditional person who doesn't believe in counseling.

2007-07-29 16:01:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous