chances of first loves?????

Question

i need percentages of my first love comeing back . even if its the future.. we dated 5 years , he cheated and now is married with his pregnant wife, he says he screwed up and he is miserable. but what do u think the percent is us getting back together in the long run no matter what the circumstances? be nice

Answer 1

You want the truth? And here I will try to be kind.
The man cheated on you, and is now looking to renew that relationship while his WIFE is PREGNANT. Do you really need someone to tell you that if he cheated on you, and wants to now cheat on his pregnant wife, that he's not really a good man to be with? You may get him back, but long term prospects aren't good. He cheats on every major relationship in his life, what's to stop him doing it again? Please take care of yourself, and avoid getting tangled with this man.
There, I hope that that was gentle enough.

Answer 2

Well I say the chances are pretty good.
Why b/c thats kinda what happened to me.Heres a short verison of the story*We are the same age to make the age/time line alittle easier to understand*

. Met this guy when I was 17, in love with each other from the start, knew the first time we kissed that he would be the man I married. Got pregnant with our daughter a few months later. Turned 18, he got scared and ran. 1 year later we try to work things out, but he didn't tell me he was serious with someone else. He got married to her when he was 21. We talked once on an email and he told me that he was miserable and he made the biggest mistake of his life by marrying her but he couldn't leave b/c she was pregnant. I told him that I still loved him then but I wasn't going to break up his marriage. He got a divorce when he was 23, his wife (then) decided she was a lesbian. But we didn't talk, I was engaged and didn't trust him. My fiancee passed away when I wasw 24 . No contact from age 21 to this past december we were both 26. He found me on myspace of all places and we started talking online. I realized and he did to that our feelings we had felt since the beginning almost 10 years earlier hadn't changed. He came in in march he was living out of state, to visit and it was like he had never left and we had always been together. He didn't go back and he never left.We got married a week ago and everyone is like why after all he did to you. People make mistake, people change and grow.
SO to answer your question I think there is a possiblity of him coming back to you.

Answer 3

I know first loves are hard to get over but him being part of your past may be better off staying there...in the past. Because he cheated on you I am sure you've always wondered: what if? What if he hadn't cheated? We were so happy, why'd he do it? Where would we be today? Well the sad facts are that he did, he's married and he's about to be a dad. His mistakes put this relationship where it is right now. He may be unhappily married but he is now connected to her for life. I don't know what the percentages are but hopefully you will move on from this. If it happens, it happens. Don't stop yourself from living waiting around for it. Be happy...life is too short.

Answer 4

I dont know what the percentages are for reuniting.

I would hazard a guess the percentages for him cheating on you, then dumping you again in the future are around 99%

Please, for your happiness and sanity don't let him come back into your life. The longing you feel will go with time, or until you meet someone who is worth your time.

Best wishes, Penny xx

Answer 5

Do you really want to be with a man that would leave his pregnant wife for you? Let alone the fact that you dated for 5 freakin' years, were cheated on and broke up. Hello???? He does not love you.

He sounds like an emotionally stunted confused little man and you? Oh, you sound like a thirteen year old girl that's just to stubborn to wake up to reality. It's jaded.

Respect yourself, forget this guy and find yourself a worthy lover or at least a bed buddy until something sweet comes along.