Marriage & Divorce - 29 July 2007

I live in north carolina and my wife and i are going to be getting divorced and i was just wondering if i could get out of my lease at my duplex due to the extreme emotional distress of living here and also if i would be able to get out of my cell phone contract as well?

2007-07-29 12:33:00 · 4 answers · asked by Brandon O 1

2007-07-29 12:26:14 · 30 answers · asked by OzarkOasis 1

Okay, my husband grew up a Church of Christ and I grew up as a non denominational. Recently, my husband got back into his church. After 20 years, he goes back. Today my daughter went with him and she said that the preacher said, at the end of the surmon that, "It's a shame that all these other denominations, such as Catholic, Baptist, Methodist... can bring people in when they're not really Christians, or believers and our own chuch, which is the ONE TRUE CHURCH with the real truth can't rally people in." It's just that sort of sermon that made me stop going with my husband years ago. When my husband is going he constantly says that I'm a "non believer" and he tries to force his beliefs on me. Now, he's trying to do the same to my kids. My kids have a church that they love... Also, my mother in law was out of the picture for a while and it's her that is telling my husband that he needs to, "get back with the church". How do I handle this? She's tried to cause trouble in my marriage.

2007-07-29 12:00:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that he had a child (which i knew was happening) HOWEVER he named the boy a name that we would have named OUR baby..one we picked out when and if the time came. Now I'm a bit depressed for some reason. Is this normal ?? I'm doing great till now. DO you think that is a little bit spiteful ? Asshole ? Or should I just TRY not to think about it ? IT is very hard for me.

2007-07-29 11:56:26 · 9 answers · asked by Tropical 1

So my Fiance is stationed in California. And he says to me one day on the phone," I am a reformed whore." Does this mean he is finding difficult to not have sexual intercourse with other girls?

2007-07-29 11:50:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been living with my boyfriend in his house for almost 5 yrs. We have not been getting along and he says he wants me to leave or he will have the cops escort me out. Does anyone know the laws on this in the State of New Hampshire?? My mom says that she doesnt think that he can just have me removed since we have been together so long???

2007-07-29 11:47:52 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2

give him up to me for adoption or want to keep him to continue to collect her welfare checks?

He is such a sweet baby and I just love him, and she is a lowlife breeder who has kids to collect monthly monies from the govt.

Do these types of mothers give their babies up easily? Even if they are a paycheck?

I want this little boy to come home with me and my husband and we adopt him hypothetically.

2007-07-29 11:36:57 · 8 answers · asked by KB 1

What does it make you feel like if your spouse decides to not wear their wedding ring? What if they take it off for a day or two? What if they take it off for good? What if they take it off for a good excuse, ie cut finger, and after it's healed then they don't wear again?

2007-07-29 11:33:08 · 20 answers · asked by pookiedolphin 1

He left on wednesday. His ex called on monday and wants to get back together for the kids but he loves me and is unsure if he wants it or not. He loves his children but she has been cold to him since he left me. wouldnt it be better for us as a couple to be good role models for the children rather than go back into a marriage that already did no work.Alot of nasty things come out in their divorce. But he is going to counceling with her for at least 1 session tommorow. I have at this point lost my everything. He asked me to wait in case after this first session, it isnt what he wants

2007-07-29 11:17:25 · 19 answers · asked by Theresa C 1

I am engaged but I am not as happy as I thought I'd be. Part is my family is not giving there blessing and another is the way my soon to be husband doesn't understand my sensitivity the way I need him to. They say opposite attract well he has a bold aggressive type of personality and I am soft and sensitive more passive. We get along well and we love each other but we have been dealing with money problems and that weighs on my head like no other. Everything is in my name cars phones and ect. we have debt and reciving help with it soon Am I staying with him because of the debt? Why am I so sensitive about money and he gets upset when I talk about it? Also he has a daughter he is getting cousty of she was in a abusive situation with her mother. Then as we got engaged his aunt dropped off her kids a left we took in the 7 year old girl. I feel overwhelmed but not about the girls its about my man. I feel like we are not one, we need that! I feel lost and sad I don't want to lose him

2007-07-29 10:58:09 · 29 answers · asked by Bubba 1

2007-07-29 10:55:50 · 8 answers · asked by karim 1

2007-07-29 09:42:20 · 19 answers · asked by duh 2

My hubby is an ex drug user from many years ago. I got suspicious he started again because of the way he has been acting. He confessed that he had but he is stopping for good. I don't believe him and I don't believe the amount of time he claims. I know it has been longer. Would or could you forgive this? I am so against crap like that in your body and want no part of it!

2007-07-29 09:41:12 · 24 answers · asked by Samantha 3

I've been married 6 years tomorrow. My husband is 38, I am 25. I consider myself to be attractive (i guess,) I'm about 5'7, big green eyes, red hair, and about a size 8...i know i know, 8 is the new 14 and i am obese by modern standards...whatever.
The point is, we are insanely mismatched when it comes to sex. We are great in bed...wild actually...but the problem is getting him there.
if i could i would be having sex every second of every day but he is a once a week...sometimes even once every two weeks guy, and its driving me bonkers!
I've tried walking around in my lingerie, i've tried walking around naked, i've tried subtle, i've tried obvious, i've even tried "get the hell up and F**K me!!!" but nothing works!
its on his time or not at all. I've even thought about just turning him down for a while so I can shift the power, so to speak, in my favour...but I cant, by the time he is in the mood I am so insanely craving it that I cant.
So, Help! I am running out of ideas!

2007-07-29 09:40:59 · 31 answers · asked by smith 2

my husband and i have been together for a year. yesterday i looked at his web history and noticed that he was on a sex site and he was seeking women,couple(m&F),lesbian,and group sex. im already mad bc hes on the site and i want a divorce ,and is it possible that hes gay

2007-07-29 09:35:19 · 16 answers · asked by jazzy360 1

2007-07-29 09:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by lulu 1

My fiancei and I are going on a cruise in October and want to get married the day before we leave on the ship. We want to find someone to perform the wedding on the beach. It will just be the two of us.

2007-07-29 09:15:23 · 2 answers · asked by thumper050564 1

Im so hurt.

2007-07-29 09:15:19 · 11 answers · asked by Shannon 1

I am currently in a relationship now but when I was in a lesbian relationship I messed around with my boss and he was engaged at the time and because of us having sex he lost his job but we still remained friends but now he's married and I'm with a guy now but things don't seem to be going my way with the person I'm in a relationship with and recently I saw my ex boss a few days ago and we went to have lunch together and we started to have those old feelings again and he wanted to have sex with me but I denied him that but It's really been on my mind to do this cause I really care about him alot and he asked me to be his mistress and I'm considering do this cause I'm not happy at home and we were together it feel right like we belong together he's 43 and I'm 29 what should i do

2007-07-29 09:05:12 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Michigan 1

Two days ago my girlfriend gave the news she is pregnant. I had always told her that I never had the desire to be a father. Obviously the birth control method she was using was not so effective and she became pregnant. She told me she will have the baby, I'd never ask her to have an abortion. I have rejected her and the child, I told her that I love her very much, but I'm not willing to raise that child or to give her any child support. I think she is the one who wants the child, not me. I made this very clear to her. She called me cold harted and insensitive. I love her very much, but I don't think I'll be a good father. We were planning to move in together. Everything was going right until she got pregnant. She asked me if I was going to be part of that child's life, and I think I'm willing to visit him once in awhile. I wish this wouldn't be happening right now. I know this will be very difficult for her, but a future with me is a future without children.

2007-07-29 09:03:00 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife’s only sexual experience has been with me. Is it to expected that she will, eventually, desire to be with another man? We’ve been together for 10 years (married for 7). I have been open and honest with her about my concerns. She shuns such conversations. I have been putting forth a great effort at keeping the sex spicy. But I wonder if through my exposing her to porno, fueled or introduced a desire to be with another man, rather than strengthen our bond.

Anyone have any thoughts or experience in this area?

2007-07-29 09:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

or you may get alone but she dont get alone with you...thanks just seeing how many women get alone or not with there mother n laws...thanks... as for me my mother n law never even met me or talk to me but 1 time and shes so rude and mean! plus shes not from america thank you god i love usa lol...

2007-07-29 08:47:30 · 22 answers · asked by mommy 3

I have been in this relationship for about 2 yrs and some months now we have a two year old daughter together and i'm ready to get married we are engaged already but i'm wantig to be the wife now and he said he's not ready yet first of all he said he never wanted to get married but he said there's something about me and everytime i mention the M word we argue and I only have given myself until May of 2008 and If i'm not married by then i will leave him cause maybe he not the one for me what should i do

2007-07-29 08:23:21 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Michigan 1

My husband and I are going away for our anniversary, and I am looking for ideas for a romantic gift waiting for us when we get to the hotel.

I know a lot of hotels offer chocolate covered strawberries and champagne, but my husband doesn't like either, so anyother ideas that I can request the hotel to do?

Thanks

2007-07-29 08:12:21 · 4 answers · asked by Reba 6

I am married with kids, can my husband say that my name can not be put on the deed? don't I have the right to have my name on it? heading for Divorce, and I think he's trying to trick me!

2007-07-29 08:09:35 · 18 answers · asked by l 2

My husband will get frustrated in coversations that we have, just two days ago he got frustrated and was saying "F" this and that. And he will say F*** You. When i ask him to stop talking to me like this he says no. Then like two days later he's all over me telling me he loves me wanting to make love.

Now I want to know, why doesn't he care when i ask him to stop cursing at me? AND how can he come to me fliritng wanting sex. I'm extreemly confused, one mintue i'm being flirted with and he tells me he loves me and the next is saying **** you and telling me to shut up. Please help me to understand what is going on.

2007-07-29 08:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

My boyfriend is going to jail for possibly two years. We have been together for seven, he has cheated on me so many times and he hangs out all night. We no longer live together because of our fighting, eventhough I think he just wants his space. We have a four yr old son and I have helped in raising his other children. I do know that now he needs me more than anything but he still hangs out all night and treats me as a baby mother instead of a spouse of seven yrs. I am fed up with trying to give my all to him and I just feel that I cant make him happy. My question is should I leave him or should I stick by his side through this time. There are two sides to every story and I am sure that he can come up with complaints about me as well, but I am just tired of this. Would I be wrong to leave him now ? Should I be a strong woman and take care of my man while he is away and pray for a change? I have not talked to him in four days and I know he already feels like I dont have his back?

2007-07-29 07:26:37 · 31 answers · asked by jwilliamsinvestments 1

Ok, here's the deal. I have been with/living with my boyfriend for four years. He has cheated 8-9 times that I am aware of. The last time he was caught, in April, I left for a bit and he begged me to come home and said it would never happen again.
His two oldest kids live with us and since April everything has been good until this past Friday. Last week he took his kids to their mom's to spend a month. Friday he tells me that his friend will be in his hometown so he wants to go see him. I simply asked that he call me when he got there. He said ok.
So by next morning no phone call so I get into his e-mail and find a note telling some girl he will meet her and get a room in a hotel about 2 hours from here, if they hookup. The e-mail also kind of sounded like a blow-off because he told her he lost her number. So anyway I went down by where he works and he was there, said he went out by himself and then went to his job and was on his way home-2:00 in the afternoon. What do I believe?

2007-07-29 07:10:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 06:57:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do love my partner, but I find that I get a kick out of having initmate relations with someone else, especially if they too are married or in a relation. What is strange is that when I try to perform with my partner, it takes time for me to reach orgasm, and more often than not, it doesn't happen. However, with other women, I find that I come earlier than I want to. This may be entirley psychological and this is a sick and dirty habit I want to get rid of. Has anyone been in a similar situation and what tools did you use to stop this horrbible betrayal? Regards

2007-07-29 06:53:55 · 27 answers · asked by Hasan 1