Marriage & Divorce - 29 July 2007

2007-07-29 05:22:19 · 23 answers · asked by sonyviki 1

My fiance and I will be married in 3 months and have been together for about 9 years. Recently I feel that we have both been experiencing some cold feet now that things are soo close. There is one issue that we keep circling back to.

I really enjoy spending time with family and friends and he hates to. He tells me that he gets severe anxiety and does not feel comfortable. We don't need to be together 24/7 but it would be nice for him to join me at times. He says that he will sometimes, but that we don't need to be with them so often. Do you think this will ever work out. Are my expectations unreasonable? I just wonder if we can both be happy and have compromise that satisfies us both. We love eachother very much or we wouldn't still be here after this long :)

2007-07-29 05:15:21 · 7 answers · asked by Keely L 1

Is that a really pretty woman who married a rich guy?

2007-07-29 05:15:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Until about 6 or 7 years ago, I always wore pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way for work each day, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity for my pantyhose. Right around the time that my wardrobe transitioning to skirt suits and going bare legged with skirts, I was wearing pantyhose for work only on occasion. One one of those occasions that I was wearing them, I just asked him if he was so curious about the hose, why doesnt he just try them. I then hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. Well long story short, he went absolutely ga ga over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat. Hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again, but I dont want things to get out of hand. At the same time, I don't want to deny it to him because of how much he liked it that one time. How can I achieve a balance here?

2007-07-29 05:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my wife and will not give up on her for anything. But I also love this effasive, indulgent, trusting, chatterbox barometer of life's unplanned happiness(es) who seem to like me. Wtf am I supposed to do?

2007-07-29 05:01:48 · 23 answers · asked by cynic 4

I would like to know others opinions on infertility being grounds for divorce. What does the Bible say about it? Personal beliefs? State laws?

2007-07-29 04:59:54 · 27 answers · asked by jilldaniel_wv 7

2007-07-29 04:59:52 · 10 answers · asked by donna b 1

2007-07-29 04:55:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 04:48:50 · 9 answers · asked by know everything 1

There is this guy who always flirted with me at work. I could tell he was very interested. On my last day there, I didn't say goodbye, so I sent him a text message later that evening telling him goodbye, and that I was sorry that I didn't say it before I left. He did send me one back saying that it was ok, and then he thanked me for helping him with some work. Well after having listened to other people's opinions of him at work (which were not good), I sent him a rude text message the next day. But then I apologized in another text message later on for what I wrote. A few weeks have gone by, and I hadn't sent him anything nor have I heard from him, so last weekend, I sent him a text saying hello, and that I hope he's doing ok. But he never responded which was ok. But I sent him another one yesterday saying hello, but he didn't respond again. Does this mean he's lost interest in me?

2007-07-29 04:46:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 04:32:14 · 14 answers · asked by nupur p 1

my wife and i have decided to split,i need to get away for a few days to clear my head and remove myself from the situation,any ideas where,i'm in yorkshire at the moment,distance and money no object as i need it,HELP

2007-07-29 04:24:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-29 04:22:23 · 34 answers · asked by ifhusain 4

2007-07-29 04:15:38 · 9 answers · asked by hot sauce 3

What is the secret of a sucessful marriage that lasts forever?

2007-07-29 04:14:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been talking to a girl from college that I knew, only met her once briefly before... well she voluntarily gave me her number through Facebook, she said "oh yeah! if you ever want to give me a call you can!" That was on Thursday morning.. I asked her when I should call and she said "i would like for you to call me, you can call me anytime!" She sent me about 7 messages last week while I was on vacation, I replied back and since this weekend she only messaged me once

Is this a good sign? What do I say when I call?

2007-07-29 04:12:56 · 4 answers · asked by aa 1

She does'nt want me to work on a farm. She wants us to live with her mother. She wants things that i can not afford. She forces me to wear the colthes I don't like. I can't vist friends. she even told my boss to fire me. She always wants all my money. She always buys things for herself and uses the change for things for me.

2007-07-29 04:06:53 · 30 answers · asked by rocky r 1

Must have job and do all housework and pay half the bills?

2007-07-29 04:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

My mom is moving out secretly from her husbands home into my home. There is today left, and tomarrow she is moving out. She still is in her husbands home and her nerves are a wreck. She has packed boxes, and also separated stuff secretly. She has to do it while he is at work. Any advice you might give her for her nerves or whatever?

2007-07-29 03:52:36 · 8 answers · asked by tickertock 3

To give a more detailed outlook of this rather disturbing situation it was my then 5 year old daughter who told me mommy had a friend. I read through my then wife's journal and saw she was cheating with an ex bf. We were married almost 4 years and together almost 7. My youngest daughter was 2 at the time. Now 2+ years later she still lives with the "man." He is no man in my book for doing this. My daughters went from living with me one day to living with him the next. There was no transition. My girls tell him they love him, but they don't understand what happened. I feel that my ex has corrupted their minds. I do not approve of cheating in any fashion. How do I tell them about this? When should I? They are now 7 and 5. I don't want them to feel as if this is appropriate behavior.

2007-07-29 03:52:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you really really loved someone and they told you that they wasnt a virgin, would you still marry them?

2007-07-29 03:35:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex is a convicted felon. he went to prison for over a year for child abuse. he went off and married a woman he just met on the internet,. she has children living in the home. i afraid he will start beating the crap out off them like did our boys. what should i do ido??

2007-07-29 03:34:43 · 19 answers · asked by funnylady1 1

this would take another 3 months. I am already seeing a girl who knows about this & is in the same situation. Am i headed the right way?

2007-07-29 03:30:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my hubby had a fight over some silly matter..and i was showing tantrums and he just said that i am shameless and he won't care if he hit me....
i am so hurt...he is the same guy who fell in love with me and married and he said this....i am so hurt...

2007-07-29 03:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by crazyabs 1

we just got married and i have never delt with any kind of sickness by myself

2007-07-29 03:06:22 · 14 answers · asked by just_jess 1

i am 17 years old , i never see my parents showing love for each other!, is it like that with other people?

2007-07-29 03:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by Nakshe 3

...don't go to my husbands granddaughters first birthday party...


i'm wifey # 2...
our daughter is 16 months old and my husbands son has a 1 year old (the party) the party is today and i'm not real into going, ive only been in the family 4 years. our 4 year old is "special needs" and i just don't feel like fielding all the questions and putting up with all the "awww" looks we will inevitably get...the party is at their church and there will be lots of people there, kinda a 60 people...

or should i suck it up, i reeeeelly don't wanna go, do i hafta?

i told him to take our 16 month old and go...he got snotty and said he'd go alone...

2007-07-29 03:04:17 · 3 answers · asked by Y!A addict NURSE SWEETIEGOAT 4

should i propose to him or should i wait until he proposes to me?
i really love him.hes 28,i'm 14.

2007-07-29 02:58:39 · 10 answers · asked by koril_dragonic 1

My sister, who is much younger than I seems to have no need to have much of a relationship with me. She only calls if she absolutely has to and I have found myself practically begging her to visit. Her husband, who is a very nice person often talks to us more than she does. My husband and daughter tell me not to let her get to me but its hard. Our parents have died and I am the only family she has left. Why does'nt she want to have anything to do with me?

2007-07-29 02:55:41 · 6 answers · asked by chchhart 2

Why is it more acceptable if a guy cheats..but a woman , no?

2007-07-29 02:52:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous