Until about 6 or 7 years ago, I always wore pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way for work each day, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity for my pantyhose. Right around the time that my wardrobe transitioning to skirt suits and going bare legged with skirts, I was wearing pantyhose for work only on occasion. One one of those occasions that I was wearing them, I just asked him if he was so curious about the hose, why doesnt he just try them. I then hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. Well long story short, he went absolutely ga ga over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat. Hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again, but I dont want things to get out of hand. At the same time, I don't want to deny it to him because of how much he liked it that one time. How can I achieve a balance here?
2007-07-29 05:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not a big deal.I heard a lot of men wear them for support or because they feel good.If he asks to try on your bra,then I would worry.
2007-07-29 06:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know how well you just hit my exact reason for divorce.
My husband told me he'd do just about anything for me - so in fun I asked him, "would you wear nylons?"
He said, "YES! I'm glad you said that cuz I've always had a fetish with nylons"
One thing led to another and he started wearing high heals with his nylons around the house - then sexy lingerie and then full blown womans outfits....then the makeup and wigs.
He turned into a crossdresser.
I let him play with his woman's clothes because it was something he liked - then he wanted to have dressup dates - the only time he wanted to have sex was while he was dressed as a woman.....I had enough. I married a lesbian trapped in a man's body!
I couldn't kiss lipstick!!!!
I wanted a man to be married to - not THIS!
We dropped down to friends and then finally we went our separate ways.
Nylons are what a man should admire on a woman - not himself. He may just fall in love with himself and you'll turn into just friends - at least you can shop together....hahaha.
Ask him if he would go farther if given the opportunity and you'll know from there.
2007-07-29 12:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him wear them to bed--when no one else will have the chance of seeing him. However, I'm inclined to think that this is some type of obsession and that if you allow this that his "deviant" behavior may progress. I think there's more to his curiousity than meets the eye. Good luck.
2007-07-29 12:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by hello molly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crack that whip girl, he is only allowed to wear them when you say so. If he is caught with them any other time, he will suffer severe submissive consequences.
2007-07-29 12:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Humor him. There are a lot of weirder fetishes out there.
2007-07-29 12:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Amy W 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good lord, tell him to buy his own panty hose if that trips his trigger, what harm is there in that?
2007-07-29 12:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Remind him that he's a man not a woman.
2007-07-29 12:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him exactly what you said here.
2007-07-29 12:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Summer B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋