Marriage & Divorce - 30 July 2007

I thought living together was all about not being committed. If you want the benefits of commitment, get married!

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2007-07-30 23:43:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 22:51:55 · 4 answers · asked by stranger 7

My boyfriend and I used to share the same home, but I moved out recently. He said he neededsome space. I don't know if I have to believe in that. At first I was devastated, but I have 2 jobs right now and took all the appliances I bought , and moved back to my parents' house. I like my independence, and I think I'm doing well, and I'm good enough, but why doi feel I need his approval to make me feel better about myself?

2007-07-30 22:40:44 · 17 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3

left them, met somebody else and then realised that you were actualy still in love with your husband and made a great mistake? did you go back to your hubby? did he forgive you? was it a mid life crisis? When i say met somebody else I do not mean having an affair but met somebody after the sepaeration....I am going through all this with my wifeand kids although she has not met anyone...yet....her cousin tells me that she still loves me..but she seems so distant....has her childhood caught up with her? abused by both dad and step dad...nosupportfrom her adult relatives....i miss her like mad..help!!!!

2007-07-30 22:40:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 22:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

she didnt care now she wonts to fight my wife how can i tell her no without hurting her fellings

2007-07-30 22:14:16 · 19 answers · asked by automan42005 1

if your mate was invited to a 3-day cruise by a friend.

the friend is married also and is the same gender as your mate. the friend is in town to visit your mate.

keep in mind your mate's friend has even welcome you coming along too if you wanted to.

would you be ok or comfortable with letting your mate go on the cruise? if not, please state why?

2007-07-30 21:31:30 · 14 answers · asked by cs 1

My neighbor is from the Dominican and she doesn't speak English well. She has been beaten by her husband many times before and is scared of him. She cannot get a PFA because the daughter is scared and will not confess to authority. The psycho husband has been sleeping with this girl now 19 since she was 4. What can I do to stop it. Last time I spoke to (Gladis) her daughter was showering with her father?! She needs help and the cops won't do anything because the kid is scared. Please help!

2007-07-30 21:11:03 · 31 answers · asked by robbodabbo2004 4

what do you do if you still love him?

2007-07-30 21:09:15 · 6 answers · asked by anglecakesalfred 2

Are men simpler creatures who are more easily satisfied with less, in contrast to women who are more complex and therefore need more to satisfy them? Or, are women and men equally complex, needy, and faulty, but men are just generally more accepting of women's faults than women are of men's faults? Do women harp, nag, over-analyze, and spend too much time thinking about their man's faults and the ways that he needs to change, and are men more "live and let live"?

2007-07-30 20:55:44 · 10 answers · asked by Bill X 2

From the time you separate to the final divorce.

2007-07-30 20:45:32 · 4 answers · asked by anglecakesalfred 2

2007-07-30 20:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by where are all the good men gone 1

My husband and I have been together for a two years and have been married for a year and a half with a brand new baby boy. My husband had a little girl with another women. She is now 5 1/2 and her mother tells her mean things to say to me.. ( my mom doesn't want to be fat like you *I JUST had our son*) and she acts like a 15 year old but then can't count to 7. I have been able to grin and bare it this long and my husband and I have talks together but things don't seem to help. She still has accidents.. not at night but during the day.. just standing there and then Bam she peed her self... and then laughs about it. It is hard to have a grin on my face when she says "I want my mommy to live with my daddy" and then shoots me this look like "whatcha ya gonna do?" I guess my question is Help me, How do I keep up with the smiles? Please lift my spirts. Oh on a side note.. we are VERY fair in the sence of the baby and she LOVES him so much. Thanks

2007-07-30 20:25:27 · 15 answers · asked by Bunny 2

the children are old enough to understand why it is happening or when they are very young? Would it be harder to deal with if it happened when you grown up (18 +)? At what age is it the easiest to deal/cope with?

So would you (persay) stay in an unhappy marriage until your children where older, or would you divorce when they were babies?

I'm sorry I should of added, I'm not asking a personal question, I have no kids, but my parents divorced when I was 19 and it has hard b/c I was stuck in the middle of it. I just was wondering from others what they thought

2007-07-30 20:00:17 · 13 answers · asked by hungryeyes001 4

I am in love and I am scared! After being hurt sooo many times, I have found who I think is "the one." Doubts and fear take over sometimes and the past comes back at me. He has never done anything to make me not trust him but I still get scared ...any advice?
SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!!

2007-07-30 19:58:09 · 8 answers · asked by All This and Brains Too! 2

The problem is my BF never come close to me. First he'll marry me.Em working,he's enginear.But Em not in the age of marriage. Now he can't live without me. He says we just got married not live together.He is suggesting court marriage.Should I go for that.Em totally confused. But I trust him a lot...
He is at 21 years of age and I am now 19.
Please suggest genuen things. plssss

2007-07-30 19:52:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I pay for her gas, she picks him up, she drives him around, he does not contribute to the relationship. My daughter and I argue everyday, because I don't want her catering to him. I want her to go to school get a job, spend time with her girlfriends. He is causing problems in my daughters and I relationship.

2007-07-30 19:46:31 · 23 answers · asked by SABER411 1

Have you ever cheated? Contacted an ex-lover while in a committed relationship? If you had, why?

2007-07-30 19:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by PRLadyDama 5

Whether you love her more than your mother.

My usual answer would be ' there is a difference in love for a mother and love for a wife. both are different and there can never be a shortage of love for any of them. however my duty definitely comes first towards her i.e.my wife'

And yes am not a mama's boy. My wife has always seemed immature and insecure to me. (two reasons probably, she is an adopted child of her parents and had a failed past relationship)

insights please...

(asking this again)

2007-07-30 19:22:04 · 13 answers · asked by bebe 3

I know this is messed up! I have been having an affair with an older guy, for 6 months! Um I'm married, how do I tell either of them! I know, I know what a whore but my husband is just a dick he is never here he's always out of town working and the other guy is here for me whenever I might need someone to talk to or hang out with!

2007-07-30 19:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 19:15:47 · 15 answers · asked by michele d 1

2007-07-30 19:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by starriiss78 2

I never liked wearing clothing. As a little girl, I would often rip off my cloths and say I was a nudist. My mother had to try very hard to get me to wear clothing, but I still don't feel it's natural.

I'll wear panties and tank top around the house, but my husband is rather shy about his body. It took months of my good influence before he'd even walk around without a shirt on! It's funny, because I'd go out in public topless, it's legal where I'm from, but sometimes I wonder is it odd? Would this bother other people as much as wearing clothing bothers me?

So, would you mind if your spouse stopped getting dressed?

2007-07-30 18:36:41 · 17 answers · asked by qwertatious 4

My boyfriend and baby's daddy is a raging alcholic, and he talks to me like I'm a peice of crap. I feel like he uses me for money, and he doesnt have a job because he can't read or write. He is good with his kids though, but my problem is I hate him so much at times and desperatly want to leave him. For some reason he charms his way back in and I forgive him. I don't know what to do. It sounds stupid right just leave him, but unless youve delt with this its more complicated. He promises to never drink again, and than tells me I'm not his mom I can't tell him what to do. I'm trying to support two children and go to school. He treats me so bad, and yet I still stay...
If anyone has any suggestions on how I can better my situation please let me know. I can't take this any longer.

2007-07-30 18:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are we supposed to give the guy credit for doing what he is supposed to do?
Does he sound like a liberal girlly man. I mean why is that something you would put on a car?
Would a woman put "I love my husband on her car" I do love my wife but why do I need a sticker to say that. All that matters is that my wife knows.

2007-07-30 18:33:11 · 23 answers · asked by Parrot Bay 4

and......I need to sleep, small bed, no space, big ofe and two dogs, it just doesnt work!

2007-07-30 18:32:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has cheated on me with this other guy that she has been seeing. She says she will never talk to him again, yet I see his number on our phone records more than I see that she talked to me. What should I do?

2007-07-30 18:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by nystateofmind8989 2

My boyfriend has been through a divorce. But his soon-to-be ex called him suddently and said she changed her mind.
I love my boyfriend and will not give up over some crazy lady.(it is all her fault to break their marrige)
But I sort of disoriented here, I am afraid of the possibility that she will stop us(me and him) being together.
Is she able to be the threat?

2007-07-30 18:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband drives truck for a living and is almost always on the road. Our anniversary is coming up, and he's really worried that he may not make it home in time. The thing is, I know he's trying like heck to get here in time, but there's a chance things just might not work out. I really don't want him to stress so much about it anymore than he's going to - meaning, I don't want him to worry about my reactions if he can't make it.

All that being said... what can I say to let him know I won't get angry if he can't make it? I tried telling him that already, but I got the impression that he thought I was "doing the girl thing" (act happy on the outside, pouting on the inside). I'm just happy knowing he's trying, you know? I don't know how to word it to make sure he knows I'm sincere. Any suggestions?

2007-07-30 18:20:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a stay at home mom w/ PT jobs. My husband works a 40hour work week.but I do EVERYTHING I mow, weedeat, cook, clean, laundry, budget, grocery shop, take care of the 6 pets, get luches ready, work, pay the bills...ect(I think you get the point). All he does is work and watch our son for maybe 4 hours at a time. So can you explajin to me why I am still waiting for my gym membership, my pedicure, my manicure, my massage, and my break. He made these plans before he ever talked to be so I had to go ask my family for money to pay bills since my husband already gave the money to his brother so they clould go rent a car, drive to dallas texas, stay at a hotel and go to six flags for 2 days. He never even invited me. I don't think he deserves it. YOu know he never once thought where the money is going to come from for day care. Or how I was going to work.(there is more to the story but no more room) Am i just jealous or do I have a good reson to feel unappreciated and forgotton?

2007-07-30 18:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by wonder81084 1