she didnt care now she wonts to fight my wife how can i tell her no without hurting her fellings
2007-07-30 22:14:16 · 19 answers · asked by automan42005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe you should hurt her feelings.
how can you be calm about someone wanting to physically assault your wife?
be a man.
2007-07-30 22:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by crimsonsky_bleedingheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and choose your own destiny. Listen loser, it's not their decision it's yours. Do what's right. Don't try to pawn your decision off on some crazy website where nobody knows you or anyone involved. If you can't make your own decisions then lose the girlfriend and stick to your wife and from now on let her tell you what to do.
p.s. if anything happens to your wife and you had prior knowledge then that makes you an accomplice.
2007-07-30 22:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by bigblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell her no without hurting her feelings. You set yourself up for this by hanging out with this younger girl in the first place.
Now, your wife will almost certainly find out. I hope she doesn't divorce you over it. Regardless of whether or not you actually slept with this younger girl, you have now created the appearance of impropriety and made a situation that will cause your wife to lose faith and trust in you.
You'll be hurting both of them.
2007-07-30 22:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by ann81969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about her feelings? She is trying to break up a relationship you have BUILT over YEARS with your WIFE! Tell her bluntly to stay away from you and your family. If you have already had an affair with her, then you are a senseless jerk who is just trying to cover your tracks and make your jerky behavior go away without your wife finding out. If that is the case, I hope she finds out and takes all your stuff.
2007-07-31 02:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe that you would sacrifice your wifes feelings for some little tart!! does it make you feel younger or better about youself because some one younge is after you? i would suggest you tell you wife before this fight occurs. you married your wife for a reason, to love and honor her.now you are taking a risk on losing it all. thats your wife and she has every right to know. and let your wife handle her in her own way. hate to say this but you let this go way to far. i would tell her before she has every reason not to trust you. and dont put youself in that position again.
2007-07-30 23:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by jstagirl1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better tell your wife the truth this could be a long island Lolita on your hands, they could just be idle threats, they might not be, take precaution, tell her one last time, then tell your wife, then get a restraining order, by the way how did this young girl get to see or know about you to fall in love with you? i hope for your sake that you didnt lead her on -
2007-07-30 22:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God who cares about her feelings!!! How do think your wife would feel if she finds out.
Tell her to get lost before your wife finds out and then what ever you do to explain to your wife will not work because you 'll lose her trust and break her heart and nothing and no one can mend it.
You see what guys don't get is that a woman never forgets.
I f you hurt your wife ,the wound will be there for ever no one can fix that .believe me I know.
2007-07-30 22:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by noona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a bit immature to go fight another person. Well how did she fall in Love with you. That the start of it all. If you were screwing around with her then it all ends up the same.
Tell your wife. get the divorce and then get together with your girlfriend
2007-07-30 22:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off the relationship, then tell your wife what happened.
If the girl is crazy enough to want to fight, get a restraining order against her
2007-07-30 22:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Reo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, man? Just hurt her feelings. She doesn't "love" you. She loves something that she "perceives" about you. Your wife loves you. Stay with her. Love her. Put your energy into that....because if you don't....if you give in to this surface love....you will regret leaving your wife when...what you might have in common with this "new young girl" goes away. Trust me....I know.
2007-07-30 22:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Rick F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love and respect your wife and that you wish that she can find someone who'll love and respect her the way you love and respect your wife... and that she deserves someone better than a married man. maybe someday, she wouldn't want to be cheated on by her husband with a younger girl.
2007-07-30 22:21:29 · answer #11 · answered by rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋