The problem is my BF never come close to me. First he'll marry me.Em working,he's enginear.But Em not in the age of marriage. Now he can't live without me. He says we just got married not live together.He is suggesting court marriage.Should I go for that.Em totally confused. But I trust him a lot...
He is at 21 years of age and I am now 19.
Please suggest genuen things. plssss
2007-07-30 19:52:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Definitely say NO! The whole thing sounds suspicious.
He wants to get married, but not live together? I don't think so! Something is not right.
Don't get married!!!
2007-07-30 19:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by missmuffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if u have to ask urself these questions then ur not ready to marry him.. and if u do, out of fear of losing him, or to just make him happy, ur marriage is already doomed.. IF he truely loves u, and u truely love him.. and he is the "one" then waiting a few years wont matter till ur sure and u can have a wedding u want and can be proud of.. if he's the one, then he wont leave u no matter what ur choices are.. but if he says.. either we get married, or else we need to call it quits, then he is already showing signs of someone that doesnt get his way is going to leave u.. marriage is about sacrafice, commitment, patience, communication, respect, and love, and if he isnt showing u that now, why on earth would u believe that he would show u that just cause he signed a piece of paper and u changed ur last name????????????
Wait till ur 25, get ur life together first.. if he's the one, he'll stand by u , if he's not willing to do that, then he wasnt the "one" in the first place..
2007-07-31 03:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you guys are way too young to get married. You both should wait until your noth at least 25 yrs old and have your careers started already. And that goes for having children also. You want more advice? Go to www.blowmeuptom.com If you live in the L.A. area, hes on m-f, 3pm-8pm on 97.1 fm.
2007-07-31 04:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by bludvl27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you terribly confused? Is that why you can't spell?
Think about marriage very very hard - you may fall foul at the signing of the registration stage.
Mind you - if your boyfriend is also your English teacher it could be a life long commitment on his part although he must enjoy a challenge.
Perhaps before you start pondering one of the greater questions in life - start with the simple things - reading, writing, COMMON SENSE!
Please - what do you people really do with your lives?
2007-07-31 03:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simran, court marriage is not possible now, because you are not eligable for marriage. Why to hurry? have patience. You have to live a long life, almost more 60-70 years. Such decisions is not taken in haste. Wait and tell to wait for atleast 3-4 years. It will be appropriate for your health also. Why to worry? you both are loving each other.
2007-07-31 03:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by cnkhadga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure.. marry him.
Then after 2 years of not living together you can get a divorce and take him for half his income for the next 20 years.
2007-07-31 02:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, is he good enough to be a loving, responsible husband who will take care of you for the rest of your life.. and are you able to be a good wife to him and someday have kids. if u really wanted to be married u wouldve agreed to get married by now instead of thinking twice about it.. marriage is a serious thing.. u should finish school first..
2007-07-31 03:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by aznflipgurl808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it is sweet but he isn't affectionate and romantic. You need someone who cares more about you. You are also too young. Wait till you are twenty-five. You could try living together first or just having a relationship and spending time together, depending on your values and desires.
2007-07-31 02:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by wife of Ali Pasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need some time to yourself so you can figure out who "you are"...enjoy being young and single, a lot of girls rush into being in a relationship way too soon and without really wanting to.
2007-07-31 02:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question. There are so many BF, EM and Plssss. What is your question?
2007-07-31 02:57:51 · answer #10 · answered by Boomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋