Marriage & Divorce - 30 July 2007

Seriously, I wanted to believe that the common stigma associated with marriage was all a myth, but now I'm living it. I really do love my wife, but what the hell prompts her to be so damn annoying? Why does this happen so much in marriages?

2007-07-30 13:33:14 · 15 answers · asked by i_is_tiger_woods 1

How long can the order be in effect? for myself and my children? husband is away in the Millitary, another state, and is threatening me, I am scared of him, and need to be safe.

2007-07-30 13:29:40 · 13 answers · asked by l 2

I want to work out our problems but he seems to want to give up. I love him and he loves me. Lately, since the word divorce has come into the relationship, he does not show me any affection. He used to always hug and kiss me. But now I do it and its only then he does it back. He is confused. He says that it is too late for change. I have changed the way I treat him, and he the same. But he just does not want to see the outcome. He is giving up. Then he told me last night that he will stay with me and that we will see what happens. Maybe he will go or maybe he will stay. He does not know yet. What should I do until then? I have a daughter, she is not his, she is 9. We told her last night that we might get a divorce. She took it well. Is there anything that I can do to help my husband make up his mind? Im hurt and confused myself.

2007-07-30 13:25:25 · 35 answers · asked by DDee 1

Why are so many women so uptight and against having 3-somes with their husbands..My husband and i have 3-somes all the time with men and women and its really fun..Dont these women realize that a 3-some is every mans fantasy..My husband said if a wife ask her husband if he has ever had that fantasy and if he tells her no then he is lying..He is only telling her what he knows she wants to hear not the truth..My husband said if a man has never had this fantasy he is either gay or lying to his wife and he says most women are in denial or just plain naive and i totally agree with him.

2007-07-30 13:19:41 · 9 answers · asked by ginger d 1

I'm 29 and he is 34. We were having a conversation the other day and he stated that it would be ok if I was pregnant. I told him, Ist i am not married, 2nd we leave in separate homes, 3rd i am going back to graduate school. His response is that can be fixed by moving in together and hiring someone to take care of the baby. When I asked him about marriage, he says he does not want to do it again and he is only 90 percent committed to me. He says marriage is just a paper to sign but i do not know how to answer him back. I am extremely in love and hurting so much. I have asked him if there is anything i can do, he says its his problem. But i do not believe it.
Every time I ask him to discuss this further, he is always busy and does not have time.... . Help, I am in pain and cant stop crying.

2007-07-30 13:13:04 · 18 answers · asked by E C 2

When you're in a MARRIAGE / DIVORCE section of Yahoo Q and A, why would you waste your time and everybody else's by leaving a negative comment or something stupid like "sicko"? I hate to break it to you, but SEX is a part of marriage! So if you're offended by topics of sex between married ADULTS, then do everybody a favor and move on. If you're not mature enough to handle the question, then don't bother answering! Chances are it doesn't apply to you anyway.

2007-07-30 12:45:22 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-07-30 12:37:31 · 27 answers · asked by dodgerider86 1

I have been married for a year and we are expecting a baby early next year. My husband is loving and supportive, but completely lazy when he comes home. He leaves his pants and socks all over the floor. Smokes in the house although Im pregnant and leaves the butts in glass of water all around the house. He leaves coke cans everywhere, never picking them up, Leaves the glasses on the night stand completely covering it. Never picks up after the dogs unless I yell. We have argued about this more than 5 times. Ive tried buttering him up, begging, yelling, not cleaning up after him. Everything. To me its a slap in my face to make such a big mess. I think its more than fair for me to do the laundry and dishes. But I think he should put his clothes in a laundry basket and the dishes in the sink. His behavior has made me feel unappreciated and Im at my wits end. Please dont talk about divorce because that doesn't help me at all. Thanks

2007-07-30 12:17:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 12:14:53 · 25 answers · asked by bert bert 3

2007-07-30 12:02:03 · 11 answers · asked by concern woman 1

After 8 years of living together my partner (at the time) decided to move out. Now 3 years later his family (mother, father and sister) found out I am engaged to be married to another person, they wrote me a letter letting me know they want to stay in touch, still care about us (my daughter and I) and would also like to know why we split. I guess like in any situation I feel that I was right and he was wrong.

I do not want to give them grief, I would like for them to stay close to my daughter; however now that I’m faced with a situation that I can’t handle by myself anymore I wish someone could smack some sense into my ex’s head and I think if his parents can’t do it… no one can.

I was left with all the bills because they were under my name and had to file for bankruptcy; I never filled for child support or custody but I’m afraid I have no choice. I’m currently working 24-7 with my parents building a new company and not making enough money.

2007-07-30 11:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by chilanga26lasvegas 2

at a poker game. Males and Females all married. 3 of the four female said they M/B at least once or twice a week with out thier Hubby. The one said maybe once every four to six months. So what is the norm for a married female who saids they do it. And for the one who says they dont but do?

2007-07-30 11:51:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Second marriage for both, 4 of the last 5 anniversaries she has been on her period which isn't a problem (she takes care of me before and after). Here's the story.

We left on vacation from Bakersfield CA to go to the North Coast of CA (cooler weather) with plans to stop on our way back at the Konocti Resort at Clearlake CA (we wanted to check it out because we planned to attend an outdoor concert there in a few months). I told her it would probably be hot there but that we would only stay one night.

After driving 3 1/2 hours we arrived at the parking lot of the resort. While we were still sitting in the car, she said, "I don't like it, it's too hot besides I don't have any warm weather clothes". I said, "Let's just look around" and she got out of the car with an attitude and walked into the resort's office.

We looked around inside for 2 minutes, my wife with her sunglasses on and I said with attitude, "I know it's bright in here" and she blew a cork.

Other vacations similar

2007-07-30 11:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I gave my husband (who I am seperated from) primary custody of my 2-year old son because at the time I did not have the money to hire a lawyer and my husband had me cornered. I have 50/50 visitation, meaning I have him every other day/night. I am seven months pregnant and I want to ensure that when the baby is born that I will continue to see my 2-year old as much as I do now. Do I need to have a court order to do this or can I get my husband to sign a document saying that the situation will continue as it is now when the new child is born? I have certainly made my share of mistakes but want to make sure that both of my children lead a fullfilling life, and losing time with my son is a heartbreaking thought.

2007-07-30 11:47:07 · 8 answers · asked by maylandchastity 2

My one year anniversay with my husband is August 2nd. We have planned for awhile now to go stay at a hotel by the beach from the 2nd to the 4th of August and just have fun! Now, his step-dad is meeting his long-lost son for the first time on the 4th and wants the whole family there. This sucks! It ruins our anniversary because I was looking forward to spending the whole weekend with him. Plus, his step-dad's side of the family treats me badly. They treat me as if I am intruding and I don't belong. Am I being completely selfish about this????

2007-07-30 11:40:45 · 33 answers · asked by Damon ♥ Elena 6

please help-for the last 6 months my husband and I have been having serious sex problems. He finds it extrememely hard to get and keep an errection which makes sex practically non-existant. I am 29 and he is 36. we have 3 children and a very happy life together. the problem started around the time i caught him having sex online with a stranger. i know he really loves me but I am really insulted by his rejection and i am so frustrated. nothing works-oral sexs and me touching him turns him off-i've begged him to fantasize but either he doesn't or it doesn't work. what can i do?

2007-07-30 11:40:08 · 13 answers · asked by jenush 2

Do you love your life partner more than your own parents?
(Similar to the question: "If your mother/ father & wife/husband was falling from a cliff, who would you save? ")

2007-07-30 11:39:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have a pretty darn good relationship. He is very "intimate" with me when we are together, always gives me a hug and kiss when he leaves. Is there for me when I need someone to talk to. Here is my problem...I feel like he is more affectionate with our 15 yr old daughter than he is with me. Like today, he was hugging on her..etc and I have noticed that if she goes to sit by him, he always automatically puts his arm around her(all of this completely innocent of course), but when I sit by him, he does once in awhile, but I feel it is an effort. We have talked about this sort of thing before and he tells me that he believes he and I already have a connection and that he is trying to get closer to her because he feels like he is "losing his little girl"so to speak. I do try to understand that, but everytime he does this I feel left out. I try really hard to not feel this way and I never say anything in her presence. I would like honest but kind answers please and thanks.

2007-07-30 11:34:36 · 13 answers · asked by ShineOn 4

we parked down the street from her house and she spotted us, then put personal protection orders on us. is what we r doing considered stalking

2007-07-30 11:29:59 · 10 answers · asked by stephanie p 1

it seems some husbands don't care you watch her wife, but other husbands seems to get angry or upset.

2007-07-30 11:21:02 · 19 answers · asked by narziso23 1

2007-07-30 11:08:06 · 5 answers · asked by corazon 1

it is probably going to be a difficult question..i was engaged many years ago to a guy that was so wrong for me.i ended up in hospital with an ectopic pregnancy,all he wanted to do after the op was fight with me..nine years on i have long left him,have no children,but i feel all my life i have only went for certain types of people because of my desire to have children..all of my relationships have gone wrong..i am with my current fiancee a year and a half and he knows of what happened before..it's just that i suffered a very bad drink problem after my ectopic and i have got a bad temper..he knows everything going on in my life right now concerning my job and family and that i suffer very bad panic attacks.he can treat me very well,spoiling me with small presents..but when he gets in a mood he will use everything he has against me..tell me how he hates to be with me,tell me he doesn't want to have children or get married..and tell me i am a child for the way i am with the panic attacks.

2007-07-30 11:05:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been disappointed when i hear all that divorce and bad marriage stories ,

2007-07-30 10:47:11 · 22 answers · asked by roro 1

Well im in a religion that has arranged marriages and well the guy that im with his name is Frank and well theres just not that spark you feel when you kiss them you know so should i tell my parents about this or just marry him?

2007-07-30 10:29:21 · 15 answers · asked by Swedishgirl 1

He has very little patience even when sober but zero after a couple of beers. His first reaction to anything is yelling and if drinking - you absolutely cannot argue with him! Well, you can, but you'll never win. Also, he gets very mean and will bring up anything from the past that will hurt me. He acts this way with his kids also but fortunately they are all grown now and away from home. So ... it's just me.
If I walk away from him I can usually calm down but sometimes I get so angry that I feel violent and I have NEVER felt like that before. I realize my reaction is my problem, not his, but I don't know how to deal with him anymore!

2007-07-30 10:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by Susan N 1

Ok Guys. Imagine this. You have a partner/married. A much younger girl tells you that she finds it hard not to over step the mark when it comes to you. How does it make you feel? Freaked out, flattered, good about yourself?

2007-07-30 10:28:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 10:24:51 · 34 answers · asked by tasha w 1

My friend has been married for almost 4 years , she and her husband have 2 children ages 1 and 3 1/2 . Their marriage was going good until about 8 months ago, she said he has become distant, he spends most of his time at work or with their children, she also says when they are alone their is very little communication. She also thinks he is cheating.

She doesn't know what to do. She wants to work it out. But she doesn't know what to say to get them talking.

What should I tell her?

2007-07-30 10:18:55 · 11 answers · asked by nbabmorefan 3

2007-07-30 10:13:41 · 20 answers · asked by Nata 1

2007-07-30 10:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous