Ok Guys. Imagine this. You have a partner/married. A much younger girl tells you that she finds it hard not to over step the mark when it comes to you. How does it make you feel? Freaked out, flattered, good about yourself?
2007-07-30 10:28:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends on the girl. i would be flattered but would immediately distance myself from the girl. especially if she is under 18 :P
2007-07-30 10:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by isentaur 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All of the above. Try to dwell on the flattered and good about yourself and supress the freaked out feeling. It's not good to freak out. If it makes you feel better tell your wife/partner. I had this happen just last year. Fortunately my wife was there when I met this person and she was able to joke about it. Later she invited the woman , 19 years my junior, to my birthday party and had her display her enormous breasts,OK there were lots of young hotties displaying their enormous breasts, but the point is this can work out pretty well for you. Just enjoy it the aspect of being desirable , but don't YOU cross the line if you want to keep the relationship you are in!
There is nothing at all wrong with being admired by someone younger of the opposite sex.
2007-07-30 18:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's flattering to be sue. but it mostly come from her finding the guy's her own age immature and unstable financially. this is most often the case then they're are the rare few that are actually attracted to older men regardless of stability. They are how ever are few and far between. but the ones looking for a sugar daddy can be found at any shop or bar in the wealthier parts of any town.
2007-07-30 17:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by lord_he_aint_right_nda_head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flattered, of course. And I would let her know that I am flattered, but happily married, and gently encourage her to turn her attentions elsewhere. This would be no big deal. Unless she started doing weird obsessive things; then I'd start to be freaked out.
2007-07-30 17:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jon S 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would be both flattered and a little scared. This actually happened to me before. I immediately told my wife. There were other people around (I was at work), and if it got back to my wife, I didn't want her to think I was trying to hide something.
2007-07-30 17:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Under no circumstances would I cheat on my wife (already ruined one marriage because of that). However, depending on the individual I could feel many different things and combinations, flattery, indignity and if they were a close friend I would feel disappointment. Disappointment because they would even consider stepping over that line with me and disappointment because I would have to sever that friendship because the only way to avoid temptation is to do exactly that…
2007-07-30 17:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Remember you made a vow to your partner. It isn't worth breaking that vow. Put your energy into the marriage and make the marriage work.
2007-08-03 16:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by maestra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever any male says in response will probably be used by you to reinforce your negative stereotypes about all males. We are not all the same, contrary to what your feminist mother/teachers/role-models have led you to believe.
2007-07-30 17:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by jefelum 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is just about the best flattery one can receive. This type of event is probably the end of many a marriage.
2007-07-30 17:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Normally good about myself. It depends on the situation.
2007-07-30 17:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋