I told my wife I am on my home, but stayed out 1 hour longer, is this worth a argument?

Answer 1

I can tell you, from personal experience, that it is very very annoying... especially if your wife had food prepared, or was waiting for you for some reason.
An argument may seem an over reaction but she had one whole hour to get herself angry and so it exploded when you got home!
I'm sure if you don't aggravate the situation then it will be soon forgotten!

Have you heard of using a phone? That's what I usually say... how hard is it to let someone know that you will be late!
Try a quick phonecall next time... it could save a lot of drama!

Answer 2

Your the only one that can answer that love, you told your wife that your on the way home,then for some odd reason something happen, why didn't you call her and tell her that you will be late because of what??..so if your wife is upset, bare with her, if I am the wife I would like to know what's going on even if you will be late for at least an hour.
So now make this thing up and explain to her what had happen before she will think that your cheating on her....good luck!

Answer 3

I am a wife of 10 years. I let my husband do what he wants...As long as he tells me about it. I do not give him a curfew, nor do tell him in most cases he cannot do things..he is an adult after all. It took the full 10 years to get to this place. we argued about being late many times...somewhere in time he finally got it! it only takes a call! will I be waiting up...mad OR going to sleep looking forward to seeing him in the morn? Will I burn dinner and throw it in the sink, plates and all OR will I turn the oven down so he has time to get home? Will I wonder where the hell he is????and with who?? OR will I know ahead of time and not feel stupid when someone sees him and "some Woman"

Getting the point??? If you Earn her trust...you will not have a leash, a curfew...what you will have is a happy marriage where you both feel respected and secure..

Answer 4

Argument worthy, no. A little inconsiderate, yes. She may have trust issues or is insecure in your relationship if she is acting suspicious and blowing it out of proportion.

Next time, a quick call would be the best thing for you to do knowing now how she reacts to the scenario.

Answer 5

Were you really on your way home? What did you do that took another hour? Were you with the guys? Were you with another woman? I don't know if it's worth an argument but you were wrong.

Answer 6

Inconsiderate, she may have thought something happen to you. Worth an argument, probably not, so why not just tell the truth in the first place to avoid an argument??

Answer 7

YES, especially if she had dinner ready at the time you said you would be home. OR if the two of you were suppose to go out. OR if she thinks you are fooling around with another women.

Sit back in a chair, close your eyes, and put yourself in her place. How does it make you feel being on the receiving end?

Answer 8

Yes it is worth an argument. If you wanted to stay out longer you should have told her. Your word should be trustworthy.

Answer 9

Yes it is because what was you doing that made you stay out one hour longer .If i was your wife i would want to know.

Answer 10

well do u have something to hide? if not why didnt you tell her because u see when weomen find out theyre husbands are lying about a simple thing as when they are going ot be home it leaves rom for doubt about any other lie that may have told and she may think ur cheating or somehting and that can cause bigger problems. so in short no, but beware that it causes a trust issue. because if ur willing ot lie about somehting small what would stop you from lying about somehting big?