How do someone let there husband know they are interested in having a 3some?

Question

No, he is not uptight, and it would be female.....I don't want him to look at me differently...

Answer 1

If it's with another girl your man should be all for it! but with another guy, I know my husband would freak out. Just tell him , that 's all you can do. Maybe try telling it to him as a fantasy first and see how he reacts, instead of telling him this is something you want to do. If he reacts positivley then tell him you actually want to fulfill that fantasy.

Answer 2

3somes sound good in fantasy but when it happens you can have very unfortunate consequences. The big mistake once it is agreed it will happen is couples don't sit down and dicuss ground rules and have a complete understanding of them. Next is the 3rd person you both have to agree to the person.
Then after words you have a talk about what happen and if you BOTH enjoyed the situation. If not then its over. Too many couples jump in and don't think things over before anything happens. But the major thing is once you discuss a 3some with your husband and IF he say's no then thats it done deal do not push and then leave it as a fantasy where a majority of things need to be..........

Answer 3

Do what my wife did. After a house party when I thought we were the last to leave because we party hard I found that it was because I was about to get cornered. My wife started making out with a female while me in the room. What could I do but watch for a bit then joining in. The point is do it directly. Verbally is best. No stories just a sentence. Remeber this though. Is satisfying your craving for females a one time experience you want or a lifetime time of sexual pleasure. Your marriage will only last if the two of you are in complete agreement about this.

Answer 4

I don't mean to be rude but maybe you should have thought about this before you got married. Anyways, if he's not uptight and you're serious talk it over with him because he may be thinking the same thing. But one more thing, this situation can always have a side effect. He may not need you the next time he want to be with someone else. Just think about that.

Answer 5

Well your my tipe of girl because me and my wife also wants to have a 3some. If you want to do it with a other girl he will probably not say no cause he might also fought of it but don't know how to tell you. If it is a other man then you just have to ask him if he ever fought of having a 3some and with what kind of person or sex male or female. It is good to talk about this kind of stuff in a relationship. I mean i just ask my wife what do she think of a 3some and after long talkings she decide yes but if i want to do it with another woman and the time is right then she wants us to do it with another man. So the one hand was the other. What you want he must get as well. You have to talk about it and believe me have good reasons why you want to have a 3some.

Answer 6

Tell him directly. Maybe while watching a movie of the same type of activity you want. Don't be drunk when you tell him. And he WILL look at you differently. This changes everything. Be sure that you want this enough to live with that change. He will assume that you are willing to start with a woman so that you can use it in an argument later when you want to try it with a man.

Answer 7

You should plan it as a anniversary present. That way you would just look like a good girl who just wants to please her man.. Make this a 7 step program.

Playfully ask about a 3some

for the next few days go deeper and see If he would think it's a good idea or not. Don't force him to make the decision let him decide... And always wear protection

Answer 8

Well, my GF in college, and her GF, just sprung it on me as a surprise. Taking him to bed and then having the other woman suddenly appear, or both of you stripping and crawling across the floor begging him, having the other woman over to your house and behaiving seductively getting him all turned on until you order him to make love to her---all these scenarios work very well with most men.

I can't imagine a man who has never done it with two women at once who wouldn't jump at the chance.

Best wishes to ya.

Answer 9

It depends if you think he will be interested in doing it. And can your marriage sustain something like this? This can create huge issues in a marriage if the marriage is not strong enough.

I would ask him what he thought about bringing in another woman to your relationship. If he seems intrigued I would say he is interested but if he shows signs of concern I wouldn't push the issue.

Answer 10

Do you think he is the kind of guy that would be open to something like this? If so, maybe plan a sexy night, just the two of you, focusing on pleasing him, and at the end of the night let him know your desires.