Marriage & Divorce - 30 July 2007

My wife has trouble having and orgasm for periods of time, probably due to stress at work etc. I asked her if she would try using a vibrator before sex. She agreed to try it, I bought one that only excites her externally, it's been a revelation. She uses it (she can't wait) and almost always has the most intense orgasms and I find she is so arroused that my enjoyment is better than I could ever have imagined.

2007-07-30 05:17:41 · 10 answers · asked by PokerPlayer 2

can do it on my own again?

All me and him do is argue and no trust and make life miserable not only for him and me but the kids too.

If I move back with my mom then he might use this against me in court for the kids.

If I stay and get kicked out of my home because i can no longer afford the rent and utilities due to a cut in my financial help then i may have a hard time getting a new place to live with an eviction.

If i move to my moms temporary, then I can continue looking for work and school and take the risk of the kids father taking me to court for the kids due to my moving situation. My two brothers live with mom.

Can you see any other option? Thanks for any feedback.

2007-07-30 05:01:46 · 12 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7

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2007-07-30 04:59:19 · 10 answers · asked by Ag 2

This "friend" always calls my husband stupid, and you don't know what you're talking about, you're wrong, etc. This "friend" is always right no matter what...and insults my husband's intellegence. So my husband told him to go _ _ _ _ himself and said some other things in a fit of anger. So now this "friend" is angry with my husband and says he needs to apologize. Who's the crazy one here?

2007-07-30 04:44:37 · 18 answers · asked by starryeyes 2

2007-07-30 04:17:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm scared to go to court cos he said he will take my son away.we have joint custody

2007-07-30 04:09:01 · 12 answers · asked by channelx2000 2

Why do men want to swing? and my man says he wants to do it, what does it mean? he also said he doesnt want to actually have sex, but just get turned on...he said he can never imagine me being with another guy....

2007-07-30 04:06:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What...is it because the people and wemen get jealous?

2007-07-30 04:05:05 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

I lived in florida, moved to georgia to have a baby...The babys father was abussive, had to go to a domestic Violence Shelter., From that shelter, i moved to florida and in another dv shelter.....the father is trying to get full custody of our son.Does anyone know how and what will it turn out like..he has already filed papers in court for full custody...i moved back to florida becuase my family and friends and my job are there...i am working full time, the kids are in a great daycare, I got an apartment so i am all set....any one have advice.......the father was also controlling, wouldn't let me have friends, couldn't get a job, couldn't go anywhere without letting him know, accused me of everything, couldn't wave to neighbors, told me what i could and could'nt wear, then he was physical, choking me with our son in his hands, yanking me accrossed the kitchen by my hair, etc....when i remind him of that he denys it all..i never called cops, he took phone and i was afraid they arrest me

2007-07-30 03:58:23 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda 2

i'm not perfect nor pretend to be, i cheated on my girlfriend yrs ago & she returned the favor, which i deserved but i had always stated i didn't ever want to be married just for personal reasons but she insisted she would stay with me even if we weren't married. We've been together now 11yrs (2yrs married) she commutes to the next city for work & continue her education(2hrs away) i found out she's having an affair, this strikes me in the heart if she was my g/f & this had happened i could easily get past this but being that she's my wife, I find it just very distressing....but i can't let her & my kids go...so i'll suck it up & continue through the motions, she says it's over (since i found out) but who cares i just want to be with my kids.

2007-07-30 03:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by belief 1

My husband and i have been happily married 15 yrs and saturday night we went out with my sister and her husband..Well the conversationed turned to sex and my sister said her and her husband have 3-somes all the time and my husband and i were totally shocked about this and they ask us if we ever did this and we both said NO WAY that is not for us..My husband said thats a really sick and disguisting thing to do in a marriage and he would never do that cause im enough for him..Well my sister said to him that every man has had this fantasy and he told her he never did and she told him he is lying cause all men want this and that he is only saying this cause i was there otherwise he would tell the truth..After we got home i ask him about this and he got mad at me and said he was telling the truth and that my sister doesnt know crap about what he would or wouldnt want..He is still mad at me now and i dont know what to do..He is still not talking to me...I just figured my sister was right.

2007-07-30 03:11:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really envy women who have husbands that have high sex drives and want to make love to them a LOT but all they do is complain and ***** about it..I wish i had their problem..My husband and i have been married 12 yrs and our sex life is ok but hubby has always had a low sex drive and we usually make love 1-2 times a week..These women shouldnt be complaining about their husbands wanting them so much..Like i said i wish i had their problem..So does any other women feel the same way i do?..And no im not looking for advice just wanted to say something.

2007-07-30 01:57:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married 5 yrs. Hubby-2 kids from prev marry. Didn't want more kids-asked me 2 give up having. His Ex psych/emot abuse him severe b4&aftr marry(2 both aftr)still does-usual throu email-him. I say NO abuse-he avoid-psych issue-she smtimes take out on kids smhow-kids in denial-Mommy=Saint. She told kids not 2 listn 2 me (or accpt family)(only child) because not "Blood Relation". They not allwd to call me stepmom. Been to counsel 3 x togeth (sep occasions) in 5 yrs-Both alphas. Hubby mislead me b4 marry-drinking-live his life 4 kids-me as wife on backbrnr-expect me to chg 2 b like him-all 3 slobs-disrespectful-nasty teasing all time-my friends were rdy to gut him. Evry time wrk chg togeth=6-8 wks bck 2 sameold-I told stp drink & strt respect me or it over-he stp drink-but bck to sameold by July. I told not seem 2 wrk-NOW he want 2 get counsel AGAIN & will chg how treats me (incl kids)-Rdy 2 leave-scared because $-have dog I won't leave-where would we go?-Do I leave or try again???

2007-07-30 01:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This was really the only snafu in an otherwise amazing relationship, but it's kind of a big one. He was incredibly remorseful and apologetic, and I know that if we both want this relationship to work, we should be able to get through anything, but it still hurts. I'm not sure exactly what it means though, I mean, we were IN BED. Naked. Together. I don't have to paint a picture, right? I'm just don't know what it means...Help!

2007-07-30 01:38:02 · 25 answers · asked by Divine Miss E 1

I feel so guilty; I had met her at an engagement party; we had such a time & one thing lead to another. This morning when I departed my train, I happened to sit opposite the woman. We both looked each other in the eye & swapped semi-smiles. During the journey our eyes met various times , I am a male & I feel guilty for not speaking to her. She must have felt this too, do you think I should have made the effort to start a conversation. I feel as if she thinks I used and abused her whereas I am beating myself over it just now.

As a woman or a man how would you have felt in my situation, if you are a woman, perhaps you can tell me how she may have felt?

2007-07-30 01:21:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently 18, 19 in December and am currently dating a girl that I have loved since grade 8. We were best friends from grade 8 until grade 12 when we decided that it was finally the right time to put effort into a relationship we both thought would work. We have been dating for the last year and 6 months and now marriage has entered the realm of possibility. We go to the same university and already have lived together for 8 months. We have seen the ugly sides of each other and are mature enough and serious about our relationship to talk thing out instead of having a verbal standoff. My question is, is 19 to young to be making this decision even tho we have known each other for about 5 years in total? She has told me she is ready to spend the rest of her life with me, I am as well. Just, is it the right time?

2007-07-30 01:20:24 · 9 answers · asked by hockeydude062002 2

My sister's husband tells me of his sexual escapades. he takes me to see his girlfriend and is even planning to marry the lady and send her to another country to live. presently, the lady is pregnant. my sister has four kids for him and they have a very lovable home.

what do i do? should i tell my sister about her husband's escapades or keep mute? if i keep mute, guilty conscience will continue to prick me and it will be very bad if my sister discovers that i know something about this.

they have being married for 10 years now. kindly advise!!!

2007-07-30 01:16:56 · 10 answers · asked by Inexorable 2

Me and my girlfriend were together for 4 and a half years. I had to go away for 6 months and we were gonna get masrried when I got back. Well 3 weeks after I left I decided I didn't like her anymore so I just blocked her myspace and blocked her email addresses and deleted her from my MySpace friends list. Easiest break-up ever. What do you think?

2007-07-30 01:16:22 · 9 answers · asked by Lothario 1

They are going through a divorce and she has said he cannot see his children anymore because of the woman he is seeing, can anything legally be done about this?

2007-07-30 01:11:28 · 14 answers · asked by Kerry H 2

One day my husband was going to put the cover on my car and she was out side cutting her grass and she didn't know that I was standing there by my husband and I saw him look at me and then I look over there at her and she was looking at my husband, but when she finally realize that I was standing there she quickly turn her head and continue to her grass. "What do you think?"

One day before my husband and our family move into this house, we use to stay in a small apt. and one day we was out riding and we came home at 8:00pm and my husband said that he need to go get some milk from wal-mart and as time went by I stayed up late worried about him it was 2:00am when he came home but there was no milk in his hand I ask where have he been and he said he was at a topless bar, so I went in the living room and I saw dollars of one's on the table, and I said you beening females some money at this topless bar that money could by in my pocket, he said that he had order a drink and he didn't have any change the drink was a soda. So he came and ask me to forgive him and I did and every sense that day I couldn't trust him anymore and 4 years went by and we move into this house and now it's hard for me to trust him and if he can Iie about one little thing he can lie about everything like now my gusts are telling me that he could be meeting up with the neigbor in the morning. But he always says no he is not cheating on me. "what do you think about this?"

2007-07-30 01:05:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my husband came home from work today he said me in an abusive tone almost yelling, "Who do you know who smokes brown filter cigs?" I was like do what? He repeated his ? then listed off brands of cigs that have brown filters. I told him I knew no one and no one in my family or landlord smokes. I told him that I didn't know how it got there. The way he talked there were a lot of them in the drive way. This morning I went to check and there was only one. The only person I can think of who came by who might have smoked was the cable guy.

My ? is does it sound as if my husband was accusing me of cheating? He has been known to do this at times. He even tells me when I go to make a call to my kids and mom go call your boyfriend. I don't even have one.

What do you think of this?

Thanks

2007-07-30 01:03:47 · 11 answers · asked by Msbearr 6

2007-07-30 00:59:17 · 22 answers · asked by mommy_pretty 1

what to do when your husband gets angry either on u or on your child?

2007-07-30 00:42:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

She divorced last year and was happy for a little while but is unhappy again. She lives with her 16 or 17 year old daughter. Her ex husband lives with her son. She has a lot of problems in her life right now.

2007-07-30 00:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1

Hi
I am 28 and married and I have one daughter 1 year old.
I got early married due to family pressure in my25.
My wife is average looking women, before the bith of my daughter we had good body relation but after pregnancy she has lost her shape and I lost my interest in her. mean while I get involed with another girl who is just 22 and prety gorgeous and sexy. she loves me truley knowing everything about me. we had date many times and i m emotionaly attached to her. Now I feel myself very guilty as if I am cheating my wife.
Moreover sometime(or rather many times) I felt my wife is not loving me but I don't want to cross marriage limit every time.
I told my GF leave me since I can't give any commitment to her but she is telling "don't leave me I don't expect any commitment from you"

Please help me what to do?

2007-07-30 00:27:04 · 19 answers · asked by rahul 1