2007-07-30 00:59:17 · 22 answers · asked by mommy_pretty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it could mean various things, sigh...ask him about it...and don't let the issue go...until you get the answers you need...ask him...what it means...and if you don't like it...he will stop it, if he loves you and cares about you...that's what I think...I personally think it's childish to keep viewing this crap...lol...think of it this way, would you want your children viewing this stuff? Tell him to be a better example for a father. Would you want your children doing this to their spouse one day? Just because it seems "everyone else is doing it" does not make it ok...to me it's still cheating your spouse if you do this...man or woman...
2007-07-30 01:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found the same on my computer.. I even found some downloaded on a music site I use.
I asked my boyfriend why he watches porn and how it makes me fee less of a woman, and he says that he watches just to watch. Not because he finds those other women with fake breasts and such more attractive.
He says that at least he's not out there physically having sex, but he just likes to watch, and perhaps learn.
If it displeases you that he watches it, let him know. Let him know why it hurts you. If he respects you, he will stop.
I later found out that another reason why he watched porn was because he felt unloved by me. So recently I have stepped it up in our relationship, and he hasent been watching any porn the last few weeks.
Mind you, our sex life is much better and I get it more on the regular basis now.
Does he watch it when you are home, or not? Why dont you bring up one of the porn videos and ask him to watch it with you. I suggest watching one together and this will bring your mind at ease.
2007-07-30 01:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean. I get spam emails with links to porn sites just from being on Yahoo answers. I don't go on porn sites. So if its that sort of thing, he could very well be innocent. If you are talking about bookmarked web sites, well then the little computer gnomes didn't bookmark them, someone who went there did. Is there some reason why its any big deal and why you feel the need to police a grown man?
2007-07-30 01:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh trust me your husband is just being a typical man. Men look at porno all the time. It has nothing to do with you. My boyfriend has his collection of porno and looks it up on the internet all the time. He's just being a man. Look at it this way...would you rather him look at porno or cheat on you?
2007-07-30 01:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing unusual. Most of the men would like to see such sites given an opportunity. Do not worry he is healthy unless he is obsessed and spend a lot of time in watching them. It would be a fun if you tell him that I know about it and later both of you watch together. Limited watching can add spice to ones monotonous married life. It will rekindle his (yours as well) passion.
2007-07-30 01:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Friendly medic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably means that your husband was curious. It doesn't necessarily mean that you don't satisfy him or that he's cheating or plannig to cheat. Talk to him about it. If you're hurt that he'd be looking then let him know and let him know why it bothers you. If you don't talk to him in the long run it could cause major resentment on your part and a lack of trust.
2007-07-30 01:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just looking. Males are visual oriented. Look at it this way, if you eat the same thing day after day don't you want to throw in some different spices now and again? This is a two-way street so it could apply to you too.
2007-07-30 01:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be a sign for you to watch his behavior more closely. I don't buy the answers that "this is guy behavior or this is normal." It's not normal and if done alot, is an addiction that can be extremely devastating to a marriage. Talk to your husband about it. Ask him how often he visits these sites and ask him why. If he lies about it, then it's a problem.
2007-07-30 01:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means he is a normal human adult male!
i always look on these sites - i never subscribe or anything, but i never try to hide it from my wife either.
she accepts me for who i am
i am not a pervert im just honest and open about it
is it not better that he spends time at home looking on the web than going off in real life to find other women?
Look at it with him' it could spice up your love life, alternatively, tell him you disapprove - this wont stop him looking, but if its what you want, im sure he will take more care to cover his tracks!
2007-07-30 01:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by andy t 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means he looks at porno ocasionally,nothing more, nothing less
2007-07-30 01:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by havanadig 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋