Me and my girlfriend were together for 4 and a half years. I had to go away for 6 months and we were gonna get masrried when I got back. Well 3 weeks after I left I decided I didn't like her anymore so I just blocked her myspace and blocked her email addresses and deleted her from my MySpace friends list. Easiest break-up ever. What do you think?
2007-07-30 01:16:22 · 9 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And no I am not interested in anyone else right now.
2007-07-30 01:16:47 · update #1
Oh my god. You're horrible. How can you break up with your girlfriend of 4 1/2 years by blocking her? That sounds like a coward move. You need to give her a little more respect than that. You should sit her down and tell her how you truly feel. She has no choice but to accepted it. If you are a real man you'll take this advice and use it.
2007-07-30 01:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that how to treat someone you've been with for more than 4 years? Show her some respect, talk to her and let her know why you can't be with her anymore. Don't be a coward.
2007-07-30 08:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by cocoprecious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you did that, because you don't deserve anyone. Ever heard of Karma? It will come back to you, and one day you will regret your mistake. How old are you? It doesn't sound like someone who was REALLY getting married, or serious about the relationship would do. Your pathetic and I hope she finds someone else and forgets about you.
2007-07-30 08:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by catrina230 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a coward way of breaking up. You don't do that to a girl you've been with for 4 years. Put your pants on, be a man and give her a phone call at least. She may cry, scream and be mad...just listen, say you're sorry and goodbye.
2007-07-30 08:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think that's an appropriate way for a man to act towards the woman he was going to marry, then you did her a favor.
2007-07-30 08:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 4+ years?? That is the rudest thing I have ever heard. I think you are doing her a favor by not marrying her.
2007-07-30 08:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cowardly and disrespectful to her feelings. If she's smart, she'll realize you weren't worth it at all. There's nothing wrong with dumping someone, but at least have the courtesy to TELL them you're dumping them.
2007-07-30 08:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Love to Answer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty cold, and uncaring, if you ask me. She deserves an expalnation of why you don't want her anymore. Be a man, and tell her face-to-face!
2007-07-30 08:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2007-07-30 09:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by love<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋