Marriage & Divorce - 27 July 2007

In normal circumstance's no women would want his husband to get marry with another girl/women. this is simply hurting the feeling of current wife. n our Prophet (PBUH) times, it was applicable but not now. plz answer in detail. this question was asked by me by many non-Muslims . thanks

2007-07-27 23:00:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was caught lying about my credit card balance but it's all in the open now and I no longer have any secrets. Yet my husband has lied to me about his whereabouts and I am pretty sure he cheated on me. I feel like both are lies but his is worse. Some would say that I lied, he lied so we're even. Anyone want to weigh in on this? I want to confront him but he's the type to throw my mistakes back in my face.

2007-07-27 22:59:02 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

I totally understand that he feels rejected each and every time I do not want to have sex and I am in no way mean about it... if anything I am apologetic. But every time I reject him he treats me like total crap. For instance... this afternoon he wanted to get frisky before getting ready to go to a BBQ we were invited to at our friends' house. I really sucked it up this time and told him to go wait in the bedroom until I was done with my shower. I told him it'd be really cool if he checked out the book on my nightstand, "Love & Respect" (within marriage), and that I'd meet him in there after I was done showering. Apparently he didn't like my suggestion (or I'm sure as he thought, "being told what to do") because he was getting his clothes together... asked me where his shirt was, etc., and it just bummed me out that I told him what I needed (to not HOUND me to have sex and just wait for me to come to him) and the little inkling I had to go on to want to have sex vanished. So...

2007-07-27 21:35:46 · 22 answers · asked by THATgirl 6

if he can have kids and sex without marraige? guys don't have the same emotions attachments like girls do. guys could only get the hottest girl they could afford. so why would he settle for anybody if he can't get what he really wants? remember guys are visual.

2007-07-27 20:17:56 · 34 answers · asked by Bone Daddy 2

2007-07-27 20:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When he comes home from work I want to pretend to be cleaning the house in a french maid's outfit and 6" stilettos

maybe something like this...
http://www.3wishes.com/images/sexyfrenchmaid.jpg

then make him sit in his favourite easy chair while i take his shoes off and ask "did you have a good day Master?" what do you think his reaction would be? would he like it?

add anything else you would like!! (but dont get too dirty!!)
thank you :)

2007-07-27 20:09:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My "roomie" and I have been together over four years. We have a house, a child, and are happy. I do not even bring it up, but why hasn't he popped the question.? I'm not fat or ugly or have any other issues.

2007-07-27 20:03:53 · 13 answers · asked by smb 3

2007-07-27 20:03:37 · 19 answers · asked by marcusw_79 1

2007-07-27 19:57:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is coming home from a business trip in 2 or 3 hours and im bored

2007-07-27 19:46:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

have through my mom when she worked with her, I talk to and sometimes go out to bars with her & her husband; they're 40 yrs old and the bars filled w/ all people 40 & over, It's not all that fun, or my sister 19 sometimes will take me out w/ her, I'm scared & freaked out about how I'm going to 1 day marry not meeting anyone hanging out w/ people a lot older than me, I have generalized anxiety too makes meeting people extremely difficult where am I meeting a guy to settle w/ It's scary, my sister 2 yrs younger is married to a man yr older than me has 2 kids 2 1/2 and 2 months. I want 1 kid only but how? than you have to date them to know if there a good person or not, it's seems by the time that happens I'll be too old to have a kid anyway, or be too old to be a rookie @ dating too have no experience @ it. that's what makes it even more scary. in counseling now it's just talk when you go home your back to your problems again anyways,hard life never had a youth either wasted teens &20's.

2007-07-27 19:22:15 · 7 answers · asked by marissas aunt 1

Help... lately my fiance seems to be too comfortable in the relationship and taking things for granted. I always feel like he prefers to spend time with his pals. He also dun really take initiative to do activities together with me.... when i have time to see him... its either at home when he is back from work or he be too tired and sleeping...... i spoke to him on this before and he assured me that he loves me and dun see nothing wrong in the relationship....... but i do feel it....

i dunno if i am selfish feeling this way, but i reallly do want to spend some time with him together doing things together.... but its getting lesser now..... since we move into his parent's our intimacy level has gone down alot...... we make love like once a month or longer than that..... and i am tired of grumbling to him as it makes me feel bad... its not that.... i just want him to balance the time spend properly... dun just stay home with me only when he is tired or is on morning shift the next day

2007-07-27 19:15:11 · 15 answers · asked by waverine 2

I have known of my husband cheating on me & forgave him 4 our family sake. and financila reasons Now he is jumping through hoops for me but I am not convinced I also know that he had done it once before. I found out about this in October One relationship lasted a year the last one almost 3 yrs.. I have decided to stay because I don't want to lose face & our boys(2) he tells me that he loves me. But now 9 months later I know he is seeing a diffrent one. he is the type that uses woman to get what he wants at work. So now do I look the other way or what should I do. i have no proof of this last one she is some one I know she comes by his office all the time with the excuse of them working together. she comes by late in the afternoon then once everyone leaves the office they are alone for 2 hours. How would you ladies get proof? I mean she is all over him on the daily calling him leaving messages of course i told him to let it go and he says how can he do that this is his income.

2007-07-27 19:07:30 · 12 answers · asked by Sandy 2

His wife and MIL are heavy drinkers, to the tune of $400 a month at the liquor store. He has been kicked out of the house, for not buying their liquor anymore. His two kids are still there. They are 2 years and 7 months old. He wants to get them out of there, but needs to know how he can. He's got to prove they're behavior is bad for the kids. They leave open containers of alcohol around and MIL mixes it with Kool-Aid. We're afraid kids will get it. Can anyone help with this?

2007-07-27 19:03:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-27 18:57:46 · 16 answers · asked by Charlotte 2

i heard some good ones today, cracked me up!

2007-07-27 18:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is a good trip my wife and i can take together?

2007-07-27 18:40:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few years ago they fought, and stopped for a while. But now they fight every day! They won't talk to each other and my mom keeps telling me what a horrible person my dad is. He just hit her once, because she was being REALLY annoying(And even sometimes I think so too!) They fight for every little thing! My dad's been asking my mom whether he should file for divorce! I didn't think he was serious..... And now he said he'd go out to buy a camera, so he can take a ew pictures of her before they get divorced! Please, what can I do? I feel like it's my fault! I don't want to end up like 42% of my friends; without a father in my life! Do I write to Dr.Phil, asking for help? I know it sounds pathetic, but something, anything, please!

2007-07-27 18:31:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Few mths ago, I realisd my husband had a new female friend he was getting close 2, atho he nvr metiond her 2 me. I startd chking his cell msgs n concluded that altho thr was no actual relnship, the girl was definitely super-friendly, beyond what I find acceptable. I hired a PI, found tt he was definitely lying 2 me abt spending time with colleagues when he was actually with her. When confronted, he insistd he wasnt doing anything wrong, even denied she existd until i named specific time and place he had been with her. then he said she's some business contact. said he lied 2 me becos i have a habit of freaking out, which 2b fair, is true. we talkd n set boundaries 4 his interaction with her. lately he's been deleting msgs, which i noe cos certain things in his records dont seem complete. dont think he's cheating, but the lies r still burning at me.cant stop thinking abt wat he did, feel i cant trust him one bit, keep sniping at him and am going mad frm the stress.

2007-07-27 18:29:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said he used to love me. Does love ever come back? I know love is supposed to be a decision, but who wants to live life with such a lack of ease and joy. Is a relationship based on security, not rocking the boat, and kids worth it?

2007-07-27 18:25:52 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

My husband seems that his boundaries are limitless as far as how much he would take before he would leave me. I could say the worse things to him or we could have the worst possible fight and the the next few hours he could just let it go. When we say mean things to each other my husband is able to get over it, but I can't, even if I was wrong, in fact my feelings are pretty much gone because of things that we're said. I don't beleive in that saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me." Words do hurt. I could never really love him anymore , but for some reason he doesn't want to give up. If it was up to him we would never divorce. Is it a lack of self love that causes him to be this way?

2007-07-27 18:09:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24 years old married to my hubby 42 yo five years ago. We have strong family relationship with him. We loved each other most that's why we are very open to each other. The strange is, he is not too jealouse husband. Lately, we had attended a whole night party sponsored by our family friends for their 15th anniversary party in their newly bought house. All funs were there, food, drinks and dances. I've got something iresistible feeling into a guy who perfectly matched my dancing skills. This guy I knew was known for being a playboy as he was introduced to us by the sponsors. I was asked to dance with this new guy and my hubby did not refused, so we had couples of dances together of all kinds, I noticed this guy taking advances of me and I found myself enjoying to his moves. I stared my hubby on his set to see his reactions when this guy passionately held me in his arms, I saw his smiling nods.
Now, I can't stop thinking this new guy he occupied my mind. What shall I do?

2007-07-27 17:52:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a wonderful guy. Just wondering how many men clean up the house? My husband washes the dishes if I cook, he vacums, does the laundry when I am at work, and keeps the yard up. I feel so guilty sometimes but he insists. He also works at least 5 12hr days in the steel mills. I think I have it made!
I look back at my father my brother, and family members all around to my knowledge i do not know a one of them that help out in the house. Is he normal or do I have it Made? I Love him so much!!

2007-07-27 17:49:44 · 32 answers · asked by Mrs. J 2

He says it's for protection. I don't have one! Do you think there's something more behind this?

2007-07-27 17:35:23 · 20 answers · asked by Brownie52 1

2007-07-27 17:11:38 · 22 answers · asked by Ting 4

i kno its a stupid question but my cousin use to be really smart and ever since she moved she has been really stupid

school wise she is still very good but in normal things that a person should kno she doesnt and it really scares me

2007-07-27 17:07:16 · 16 answers · asked by JUAN G 2

I'm sorry if I tend to sound selfish here. I'm really not trying to be...it just hurts I guess. Anyway, I found out my parents were getting a divorce June 8th (I remember because it was the day after the last day of school). Today I found out my dad was on one of those online dating services. He uses my brother's laptop all the time and I clicked on the history button to find a website url I was on before. Then this dating stuff came up and all these links from a bunch of women's 360's. I'm sure it wasn't my brother because he's eleven and i've already talked to him about it (and my dad and brother are the only ones who uses his laptop. I just use it when I leave mine in my room). Am I right to feel hurt about this? It's not so much the dating that hurts me...it's just that he decided on doing so so soon. Doesn't he know we are nowhere near ready for that yet? What do you think I should do?

2007-07-27 16:37:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like Tv like Advertisement, art, and bussiness but I want a good job that pays and theirs lot's of jobs openings.

I also like working with my hands, i'm great at brain storming and team work. plus I speak the spanish


Is there any good sites that I can go to help me on my quest?

2007-07-27 16:31:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Really tough situation - went to visit future in laws last weekend. They put us in separate rooms. Snuck into girlfriends room. We were doing the nasty when I tried sneaking it another spot of hers. When I did this, she screamed in pain and her dad came in when I was pulling it out and had birds eye view of where I was pulling it out of --. Her mom did as well, but had a weird kind of smile on her face. Anyway, her dad through me out immediately. I'm 38, she's 21 and her Dad is a bit miffed. Do i send him a token gift or something?

2007-07-27 16:09:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I stay up all night with our infant, I stay awake all day with our infant, sometimes, I go without any sleep for days with our son, today, I was able to take a nap with my son and not 30 minutes later my husband is waking me up because he is bored. I am furious, and I explained to him that I am so tired I want to cry but it means nothing to him, I am awake now and of course he is sleeping peacefully, I really want to dump ice water over him and fantasizing about divorce, what would you do?

2007-07-27 16:06:24 · 16 answers · asked by Carpathian Mage 3