Marriage & Divorce - 27 July 2007

2007-07-27 11:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-27 11:40:48 · 17 answers · asked by SOHOY S 1

Is there a difference between loving one's husband, and being in love with him? Is it possible to love a spouse but not be 'in love' with him? Honest answers, please.......

2007-07-27 11:33:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me with his ex girlfriend once and mother of his first two kids while i was pregnant with our now 17 month old son. It killed me because i suspected and asked him for 2 years before he admitted the truth and of coarse because it meant that he'd still had feelings for her at the time. I also found out from her that he had told her he loved her and wanted to be with her and all this on the night they were together. This is highly upsetting being that i still have to deal with her bc of the kids. He was my first serious and true love , i was head over hills. ever since he has admitted the truth i feel as though i still love him but i still cannot look at him the same even though its been 2 years since it happened. I tried to leave 3 times but he kept begging and crying and since we have built so much together i couldn't leave. why can't i bring myself to leave someone who hurt me so much and any advice on how to get through it if i stay?

2007-07-27 11:25:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

A female co worker has been flirting with me lately. She's pretty much made it clear that she wants to be intimate. I'd be lying if I said I'm not tempted. I'm only interested in a one night thing, nothing permanent. I care for my wife, but I just need a temporary release and escape.

2007-07-27 11:23:40 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think she is cheating on me

2007-07-27 11:13:14 · 16 answers · asked by BA D 1

I finished with my boyfriend of 6 months because he was obsessed with his ex who treated him really badly. I have listnened and supported him for the last 6months. I didnt want our relationship to end at all. We are still in touch but when I saw him last week, I felt so upset. He was still talking about his ex even though he knows it hurts me and I pointed that out to him. He said if we are to be friends he needs to talk about her because she is on his mind so much. I feel so used as it is as if our relationship meant nothing. He tells me I am a great person and he still finds me really attractive but it doesnt make me feel better. I dont have many friends as I am new to this area and my daughter has left home. I feel so low and just want to ring him one minute and tell him to p** off the next. How can I move on from this selfish man. How in the hell can we be friends when it hurts so much.

2007-07-27 11:09:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner has a porn addiction. I didn't mind when it was just a bit of fun between the 2 of us but it is now getting ridiculous! He promised me he would stop but I think he has been doing it again. How can I check? He deletes it out of history but I know there is another way!

2007-07-27 11:01:10 · 26 answers · asked by kazwaz01 2

containing "a long list" of what they consider your personal faults?

2007-07-27 10:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by nodumgys 7

2007-07-27 10:12:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

For us second time arounders where are the more educated and cultured men?
I live in Dallas and I'm tired of meeting the drunk, no class, want to get in your pants the first night kind of guys.

2007-07-27 10:11:30 · 13 answers · asked by english_sweetie2001 3

he will walk around for days and not talk to me .. and say it has nothing to do with me,, or i am not the problem but when ever he decides to talk.. he blows up at me about all kind of things from days to months ago.. " i should have done this.. why didnt you do that.. this is the last straw " and I try not to cry but I am thrown off guard and often dont even know where he's coming from or how he could say he loves me and be so angry about a lot of nit picky things that I dont even remember..
If he asks my opinion and I try to say how I feel he just blows it off and says.. I dont have anything to complain about..

i feel like I walk around on egg shells.. and when I think we are doing fine "BOOM" he blows up out of the blue again.. i am constantly confussed.. i dont know whats real or not anymore

I dont know what to do.. know he says he loves me.. but why do I feel so lonely and dead inside...

2007-07-27 09:47:41 · 36 answers · asked by confussed05 1

we were a very very conservative Indian family,,where ne discussion abt relationships is an absolute taboo..let alone sex and sexuality
i am 32 ..and single.while both my sisters(my age) r married for several yrs now and have babies
my ques is regarding one of the gurls who is married and settled in Australia.she came down in 2000 for 3 months on leave from her job and she casually talked abt a Turkish guy (she even spelt out his name) in her office.Now the ultra conservative thta our family is..my father didnt like that too much.but he kept quiet.This though isnt the issue..
A few days she was at our place for a stay over ..abt twice ..she received calls ON OUR LANDLINE(there were no cell phones here back then)..where she got all flustered ..talked in hushed monosyllables..and put the phone down.Now i know of it coz one of those calls i just happened to pick and it was sum guy from Australia asking her by her name
I havent told dad abt the calls..she pretended it was business
cal

2007-07-27 09:45:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

From all the books I've read and things I see and hear, I really think Marriage has a deeper more special meaning to a woman than it does a man? Do you think so?

2007-07-27 09:40:15 · 24 answers · asked by Housecat 3

2007-07-27 09:39:20 · 36 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3

Basically me and my wife have separated. I really miss her...she asked for the split...painful for both of us and kids...no one else involved...after17 yearstogather I guess routine took its toll and we forgot about our selves...she says she does not love me but has still extreme deep feeling for me...she says she could never love anyone else like she did me...doesn't take the pain away...been7 months....miss her and the kids...is there a chance she may oneday realise that she still loves me? HELP!!!!

2007-07-27 09:38:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

the other day i walk in on my husband doing cyber sex. when ask some close friends they believe that it was not cheating. they say how do you cheat with the words that you say. my thoughts say that you could cheat with words. how do you tell someone sexual things then say that it no harm . do u out there think im been over emotions. can i feel that someone is online talking sex when there wife in the same house with him. this to me is so unbelieveable.

2007-07-27 09:38:34 · 44 answers · asked by elisa 2

2007-07-27 09:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by you_new_friend 2

My husband is a good guy, but he's rude to me and tries to make me feel bad about myself. I have a BA, but I'm dumb. I weigh 130 lbs & am 5'6", but I'm fat. I'm replaceable, and he reminds me of this daily. He doesn't drink, smoke, cheat....he works, and is a good father. He's just not that nice sometimes. Because of all of this I'm just not attracted to him anymore. Does this make me a bad person? Does he have to do something "serious" for me to justify leaving?...Whe have kids together...what about them?

2007-07-27 09:32:25 · 38 answers · asked by Confused 2

2007-07-27 09:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

They are 38 and 35. I was in their weddings but I was 14 and 20 then.

2007-07-27 09:27:14 · 20 answers · asked by **** 1

Since there seems to be no support group for daughter in laws with controling to say the least mother in laws and there seems to be a great deal of ladies with mil issues please advise if interested

2007-07-27 09:25:23 · 5 answers · asked by Kat G 6

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2007-07-27 09:25:05 · 6 answers · asked by Angie 1

I just heard that my ex wife is telling her friends and family that she was emotionally beat down. Ww where highschool sweethearts and together for 16 years. She devoloped a relationship with a highschool teacher at her work she works in the kitchen. I got really upset at her one time and thats when she bankrupted us from gambling and I had no idea. I cooked cleaned baked planned trips and worked and supported her since I met her never once did she have to suffer. Do people start to believe there own lies? If I was such a terrible husband then why is she so nice to me 9 months after leaving me? I'm very hurt to hear how she justified leaving me and cheating.. Is this normal for spouses who want out and cannot communicate there feelings? I'm very hurt by this and I'm thinking of asking her to give me some examples of how she was emotionally beat down...should I or just let it go? We share our two kids everyother week together so we still communicate.

2007-07-27 09:22:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 14 years old, and my parents are divorced. My Dad lives in Washington DC and me and my Mom in Boston. My mom is a professor, and doesn't make all that much income, but enough to support us.

My Dad though, works for the government, and make twice, maybe triple as much as my mother.

He is legally required to pay a certain amount of child support, and he does, but nothing else! He refuses to spend any more than is legally required. When I go to visit him in DC he makes my mom pay for the flight.

He sometimes skimps out on his child support leaving us in the dust and because of this me and my Mom have been forced to move over seven times!

My 8th grade math teacher was absolutely horrible and i need a tutor before i enter highschool nd it is going to cost my mom $1600 a month, & when she asked my Dad to help, he offered $100 towards the entire year! He is doing it again! I dont know what to do, should i go & talk to him (what do i say?) Do i get em' to work it out? How? Plz help

2007-07-27 09:21:18 · 15 answers · asked by the_forbiden_forest 1

He doesn't have weird phone calls or anything like that, but I don't know, there is something I can not put my finger on. Does guilt make a spouse act differant? I just feel something with him is not right.

2007-07-27 09:20:48 · 12 answers · asked by juggalizzle 3

If someone stares at you (unnaturally) to prove their not lying after you've told them ("Why can't you look at me when you say that!") ...isn't that proof of them lying to you in an obvious way. If he/she were telling the truth wouldn't they try to convince you in a more endearing soft holding hand kind of way instead of a cold stare in the eyes?

2007-07-27 09:19:37 · 27 answers · asked by Angie 1

my girlfriend's mom is moving out to get away from her husband. But they have lived in the house for 7years and her mom and step dad have been spliting the house payments over that time. Her mom wants to sell the house and split the money down the middle but her step dad is intent on staying in the house and not selling.

Is it possible for her to get some if not all of that money back that she has paid over the last 7yrs, since the house is in both their names?

Also they are not legally marrieds, but had more of a veitnamese serimonial marrage. So more or less like roommates.

2007-07-27 09:17:06 · 6 answers · asked by burtonb19 1

MY SIS IN LAW HAS BEEN GIVING ME A COLD VIBE EVER SINCE I MARRIED HER BRO.SHE COMPLIMENTS HER COUSIN WHO HAD A CRUSH ON MY HUBBY, SHE SAYS HOW BEAUTIFUL HER COUSIN IS ALL THE TIME SAYIN HOW SILKY HER HAIR IS, MY HAIR IS ALSO SILKY BUT SHE NEVER SAYS ANYTHING NICE TO ME. I USED TO ACTUALLY THINK THAT MAYBE SHE DON'T LIKE ME BCOS I AINT GOOD ENOUGH, BUT I HAVE A DEGREE & I'M ATTRACTIVE(USED TO MODEL FOR TV) SO I DNT SEE WHAT THE PROB IS. THE WAY SHE COMPLIMENTS HER COUSIN ALL THE TIME IS STARTING TO MAKE ME IRRITATED, EVEN KINDA JEALOUS. THE STRANGE THING IS A LOT OF OUTSIDERS HAVE SAID THAT ME & HER COUSIN SHARE A SLIGHT RESEMBLANCE, WHICH MAKES THIS PROB EVEN MORE COMPLICATED.

2007-07-27 09:15:13 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 1

I am getting fed up with my husband im 24 and weve been together 2 years married 1. He is very controlling, and PARANOID of me cheating on him. I cant have friends cuz theyre "bad influences". I dont work i stay home all day and im going to have a nervous breakdown. he doesnt like me to go anywhere by myself and when guys look at me when were out he gets PISSED. and my clothes are also somewhat restricted. I dont understand it, He is VERY well known (in a good way) where we are from and any girl who knows him hates me because of who he is and he is gorgeous and other than being extremely jealous he treats me like a queen. BTW he doesnt know i have this account, he would be so mad. please help

2007-07-27 08:53:25 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous