2007-07-27 09:39:20 · 36 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
um... yah... marriage is based on trust and understanding if you keep something as big as this from her then when she does find out you will have put a huge gap between the two of you. this is something that is very much her business and she has a right to know.
2007-07-27 09:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm. Yeah. What if she would like to have children and she starts to wonder why you and her are not conceiving, So she decides to have you and her take a trip to the fertility dr and suprise, suprise, you have a vasectomy and there was never a chance in heck that she was going to get preggo. Honesty is just one of the many key things to make a marriage work.
2007-07-27 09:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by bluemysti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not legally obligated to. I think you probably should, just because honestly is very important in a marriage.
Unless your wife is one in five women, in the USA, she might not be too receptive. Only one in five women, in the USA, don’t want children. If she is not, then you should remember that this is the ultimate “deal-breaker”.
Most states have what is called a “no fault” divorce. This means one partner can’t sue the other one in a divorce. Some states allow that. If your state does, then you are open to being sued for get married under "false pretences".
Good luck
2007-07-27 13:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Marvin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-07-27 10:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never begin a relationship with deceit! Honesty always the best policy no matter what. What happens in the dark shall always came to light - in other words she will eventually find out.
2007-07-27 10:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by heather h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the first place, you should have told her that a long time ago, relationships are belt on trust, you owe her this one, I don't know how long you have been married and wheter you share any children, better if you do , if you don't she may not be happy with it and that would mean the begining of the end of your relationship
2007-07-27 09:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told her LONG before you got married!!!! Your relationship is going to be in some trouble when you tell her, and like the other posters, tell her and RUN like hell the other way!!!!
2007-07-27 10:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by nikki1162000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heellllloooo?
Heck yeah! She's your wife! Actually, you should have talked WITH her about having it done, Before you had it done!
But... since you've already done it, you really need to tell her...
You'll feel better once you do!
2007-07-27 09:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to that. If it was done before the vows, you should've already told her, but if it is just been done, then get the hell off your comp and tell her now. It is important, you should've been discusing it with her before you had it done!
2007-07-27 09:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by How can I help? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if push comes to shove you get tested later down the line and "find out" together you are shooting blanks. Until that time let her think what she wants. Plus it give you an advantage. Remember women are never 100% honest with us so it would be foolish to be 100% honest with them.
2007-07-27 10:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋