For us second time arounders where are the more educated and cultured men?
I live in Dallas and I'm tired of meeting the drunk, no class, want to get in your pants the first night kind of guys.
2007-07-27 10:11:30 · 13 answers · asked by english_sweetie2001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately for you a "more cultured man" isn't going to want someone else's cull. You're description of the kind of guys you've been meeting should tell you the root of your dilemma. If you lie down with dogs, you get fleas. Instead of talking about it, try raising your expectations and quit settling for what comes along. You, after all, are the one who meets the guy...
2007-07-27 10:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mr 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of the bars!!! I live in Flower Mound (close to you), I met my hubby online, and when we met in in person for the first time, it was at IHOP, I chose IHOP because they so not serve alcohol. I am not a teetotaler, but I rarely drink, and do not need an "alkie" any more than I need a hole in my head.
You have to present yourself like a lady (yes, I said a lady), and you will attract a gentleman. Be patient.
2007-07-27 17:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try libraries, try museums (not just the art museums, check whether there's a good science museum in Dallas), try the tons of open lectures at universities on the coolest stuff you can imagine, try dance classes, try wine-tasting events, try thaters and operas, there is always a nice intermission long enough to get to know someone...
2007-07-27 17:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well all I can say is mt right will find you when it's time. Taking out a personals ad online isn't a bad idea though. It might make it easier for a more "cultured" guy to find you.
2007-07-27 17:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't live in Dallas, but I meet guys all the time. Bookstore , supermarket, gas station, museums,plays, symphony.etc.
Keep your eyes open, be willing to talk to strangers, be willing to ask for phone numbers.
2007-07-27 17:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop trying to meet men in bars. Go find yourself a meaningful life, and then maybe you'll run into someboy. You have to be the right kind of person to attract the right kind of person.
2007-07-27 17:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Do you meet these people at cultural events? Maybe you need to attend events at colleges, museums, church, etc. What are your interests? Are there groups you can join and meet people? Book clubs?
2007-07-27 17:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Come up north to the New England states. I have plenty of classy, nice, well educated single friends I can introduce you to.
Birds of a feather, flock together.
2007-07-27 17:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sean C 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
well then stop going to bars, go to "lounges" and Dallas sucks come down to H-town you will find some good sophisticated men here
2007-07-27 17:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by doo doo head 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Stay away from the bars then.
2007-07-27 17:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋