Since there seems to be no support group for daughter in laws with controling to say the least mother in laws and there seems to be a great deal of ladies with mil issues please advise if interested
2007-07-27 09:25:23 · 5 answers · asked by Kat G 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Silvergirl: Prior to my marriage I only saw my husbands mother 2x's as they did not have a relationship. Nor did she ever raise him or act like a mother unless she needed something. My husband wants nothing to do with his mother and when she comes over he either leaves or goes to bed and I am stuck with her drama. She has already caused 1 son to divorce. In additon to not taking a medication for her mental problems so Please I would not wish this life on you. I am very sorry your mother in law is ill. Please don't judge what you don't understand.
2007-07-31 06:24:23 · update #1
I would be interest, but I will not bad mouth my MIL - I like her, I mean I really do Like her.......
2007-07-27 09:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Interested in what? Complaining about something that wouldn't change for most of you no matter how much you complain? That you just can't realize that that is someone's mother? That she's always going to be a part of his life? Do you even realize that no matter how bad she is, you had a choice to not put up with any of it by simply not marrying the guy if she was that bad? Plot against her and destroy a mother-son relationship? What's your group gonna be about? See, I'm highly interested, because I'm getting married in three months and my future mother in law is in the final stages of cancer, so she won't be there. My only wish is to have her there. So count your blessings.
2007-07-27 16:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Starry Eyes 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This is also goes for son in laws too as I know, Ive been trying for many many years how to get rid of mine.Prayers dont help
2007-07-27 16:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I could have greatly used such a group at one time, but my MIL enticed my now-ex to leave his family by offering him a job, a house, a divorce lawyer, a car, and a girlfriend who works for her. You would do a world of good by establishing such a group. Daughters-in-law, Unite!
2007-07-27 16:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by ophelia 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Persuade him with your ways ;p and move...move far far away cus thats the only thing.
2007-07-27 16:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋