I think she is cheating on me
2007-07-27 11:13:14 · 16 answers · asked by BA D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to her about it. No wonder she's cheating if you can't even communicate with her.
2007-07-27 11:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by SoShyFyi 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Here is how you do it. While you're at home and she isn't, you call her and tell her that you ordered something (or whatever) and you gave them her email address by accident, and anyway, you need to check it to see if the confirmation has been sent. Any variation on this story will do.
So tell her, "So what is the password to get into your email?" She should readily provide it, and if she has nothing to hide, she will. If she is reluctant or says something about how she'll just check it for you later, then really insist that you want to check it right then. If she STILL won't give it, then you have opened the door for a perfectly legitimate argument about "secrets".
Of course, you could also try the open, honest communication route as well. Whatever works :)
Good luck. I hope it's good news.
2007-07-27 11:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kattrikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be discussing this with her not US, and sneaking around breaking into her computer is not a very good foundation of trust in a marriage! You might need to reacess your relationship!
If you really want to know, put a voice activated recorder near her computer and phone, so if and when she calls someone it will kick on and record the conversation, go to a store that sells "spyware".....lots of good stuff out there! Have her followed by a friend that she does not recognize their car...but be prepared to accept what happens, and if nothing happens, and she finds out...oooooooh I wundunt wana be U
2007-07-27 11:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ozark Woman 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude! I'm going to help you with this because that's really ****ed up that your wife might be cheating but you need to talk to her. YOU NEED TO ASK HER FACE IF SHE'S CHEATING! Sorry if I sound like a mighty cow by saying this but I know there are much more honest and effective ways then hacking her computer.
2007-07-27 11:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Carrots and bunnies 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
trick her and tell her there is a new software which has to be installed.convince her and download log me in and download the same thing in your computer too and enable it and once she is working on her computer you will have access to her computer and see what she is doing.whenever she is reading her mails or the sites she goes you can follow her,
but open it before she turns the computer on because she can see you logging on don't move the mouse she can see the pointer moving.
logmein.com i think
2007-07-27 11:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ask her for the password. Ask if she is cheating.
Get a girlfriend.
2007-07-27 11:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If she feels the need to password protect her PC from you, then she is cheating...
2007-07-27 11:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mybal Zitch 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you think she is cheating have the balls to ask her yourself rather than wimping out and trying to hack into her account. (maybe that's WHY she's having an affair, you have no balls)
2007-07-27 13:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her for the password because you need to go on a site quick (emergency) and you forgot the pin to yours or something
2007-07-27 11:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really think she's cheating, that usually means she is.
2007-07-27 11:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋