should a man stay with a women who after 4 years told him she does not think she loves him enough?

Answer 1

Enough for what? to marry you? have your child? put up with some problem you have? Carry your Mama to church every week?

My own experience is that love ebbs and flows in a relationship. If you're married, hang in there unless she tells you that she doesn't want to love you. If she's just going through a dry spell, both of you need to concentrate on the qualities and actions that made her love you. She, in particular, needs to act in a loving way toward you. Her feelings can be led by her actions, just as her actions can be led by her feelings.

If you're not married, there are no kids involved, you are just as happy to be rid of her, then you are free to go, but free to stay if she wants to rekindle things.

Answer 2

She needs to learn that a marriage/ relationship over the years evolves and develops further and further, much deeper than the first few months/year.
It changes all the time and you do get downs as well as ups.

Be patient with her, she would 90% find that the grass isn't greener without you or with someone else.

They say if you let the one you love go and they come back, they are yours and if they don't they never were.

Answer 3

No, you deserve to have a woman who loves you . You have been together 4 years and if she is not sure she loves you enough you need to go find someone who knows how much you mean to them true love there is no doubts.

Answer 4

I'm with here...and besides, what could YOU have been doing in the last four years, you could have had a deep and meaningful relationship with some one who DOES love you, had children with you, could possibly been married to you. Sorry, but she has waited and wasted four years of YOUR life to tell you this...so my advice to you is to bin this bint forthwith, get tanked up for a couple of day's, and start again next week with somebody who is REAL--and put this cak down to experience.

Answer 5

i think not... whats the point..she has basically told you she doesn't love you enough to stay with you. Time to move on and find a girl that does love you. Best to go your seperate ways and find pastures new

Answer 6

He should have a heart to heart talk with her and go from there. If she wants out he should simply let her go and move on. Marriage is voluntary thing, so no one who is double minded should ever marry.
Mr. M on "4 years."

Answer 7

Sorry, but you have to leave her she will make your life a misery.Or make some signs to her that you dont love her either.You will know if she was telling the truth she will manipulate you,it is a game they play.But if you dont respond she will be upset.Play her at her own game dont be weak keep strong,know it is hard for you but you have to do it.

Answer 8

After 4 yrs of marriage? Or just shacking up? If it's the later of the tweo please bounce on this confused broad! It took her 4 long years to realize that???Come on, she's known all along.

Answer 9

If you have no other commitments to this person, then walk away and find someone who does love you. Why waste any more time with someone who doesn't!!!

Answer 10

No. Its just a lie then. Leave and get the love you need and deserve.