Really tough situation - went to visit future in laws last weekend. They put us in separate rooms. Snuck into girlfriends room. We were doing the nasty when I tried sneaking it another spot of hers. When I did this, she screamed in pain and her dad came in when I was pulling it out and had birds eye view of where I was pulling it out of --. Her mom did as well, but had a weird kind of smile on her face. Anyway, her dad through me out immediately. I'm 38, she's 21 and her Dad is a bit miffed. Do i send him a token gift or something?
2007-07-27 16:09:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lol you f**ked up
2007-07-27 16:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by gagirl01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A bit miffed???? I am sure he wanted to strangle you- as I would.
A. If trying something out of the norm you ask first.
B. You do not try new stuff when you are sneaking.
C. You are 38, not 16. A weekend without sex won't kill you, especially if you are dis-respecting someones rules.
D. What the hell are you doing with someone 21?
Let her explain to her parents that she is okay- if she is. You can apologize by phone for creating an uncomfortable situation. And next time, use the brain in your big head.
2007-07-27 16:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not send a token gift! Do you want him to think of what happened each time he looks at it? No! I'd just leave it alone, and do not bring it up. It's never going to be totally forgotten, but I would just let it rest.
He's never going to like or respect you, you know that right?
Well...he may get over it once there is a grandchild involved, those often make relationships better....for a little while.
2007-07-27 16:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by ... 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to your Fiance about this. Tell him how his father makes you feel. Your Fiance should be the one to stand up for you and speak to his father. If he can't do this, then you don't want to marry this man. He needs to let his father know you are his future wife and he will not disrespect you in this way. I do not recommend you speak to him about it first since it may cause issues with you and your Fiance.
2016-05-20 23:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to talk to the girlfriend, and see what it usually takes to calm down..you know a day a week. But, this is what you need to understand, he just looked at his little girl in one of the worst positions ever. No father wants to EVEN think his daughter is sexually active even when they know they are.
Personally, I would call apologize for being disrespectful, make no excuses, and let him make the call, " be a man" about it so to speak.
2007-07-27 16:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right. Send him a gift? For what? Just apologize for disrespecting his home and leave it at that.
2007-07-27 16:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by MaknMeCrzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if this is true then you're the one screwed. It will take years for this one to go away.
2007-07-27 16:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
her dad hates you because you old enough to be her father. i'd be the same way
2007-07-27 16:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by woodlvtohlp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lube up next time
2007-07-27 16:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jon H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You go back to your own wife, and stop chasing teenagers.
2007-07-27 16:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by ms.sophisticate 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋