Why are so many women so uptight and against having 3-somes with their husbands..My husband and i have 3-somes all the time with men and women and its really fun..Dont these women realize that a 3-some is every mans fantasy..My husband said if a wife ask her husband if he has ever had that fantasy and if he tells her no then he is lying..He is only telling her what he knows she wants to hear not the truth..My husband said if a man has never had this fantasy he is either gay or lying to his wife and he says most women are in denial or just plain naive and i totally agree with him.
2007-07-30 13:19:41 · 9 answers · asked by ginger d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have no problem with threesomes in general--if that's what trips another couples' triggers, who am I to say it's wrong? Whatever goes on in someone else's bedroom is none of my concern.
On a personal level, I would not have one. I have no desire to be with women at all, nor do I want to bring another man into our bedroom. I certainly wouldn't knock it for someone else, but it's just not right for me.
I do disagree with the sentiment that threesomes are every man's fantasy. My other half and I are very open about our sexual fantasies, even the ones that leave the other thinking, "You want to try WHAT!?" and threesomes have never even been brought up. You'd think if it was a big fantasy of his, he'd have at least mentioned it by now. I'm not the type to get upset by things like that.
2007-07-30 14:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by thegnomeofwrath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, it's not every man's fantasy but damn near! I do agree with you about the up-tightness many couples, not only women have about participating in a threesome. The fantasy most men have is having a threesome with their spouse and another woman. Having a threesome with their spouse and another man is usually not that appealing to the vast majority of men.
There are many factors that prohibit marriages or relationships from experiencing that side of our sexual nature. There is the moral code instilled by religion. The social fallacies that abound about sex and marriage. The self consciousness that engulfs us from over exposure to mass media and the 'beauty' industry. Prefabricated jealousy and other emotional tools of dysfunctional relationships and so on. All in all there are myriad factors that inhibit us from being more sensible about enjoying such a human basic drive.
My wife and I have been selectively threesoming for 16 years of our 20 year marriage and we have never had the slightest social, emotional, psychological or marital drawbacks that people who have never done so , do. Not that this lifestyle is for everybody, but it should be!
2007-07-30 13:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ginger great that you and your husband can agree on this subject. But this old guy is in total disagreement and do not either want and/or desire a threesome. I would not want another man fondling my wife and do not have want to be with other women either. And trust me I am neither gay or a bloody liar.
2007-07-30 13:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
nice point. though i had a three some once and it suckd! the chick was really up tite and wouldnt do anything, it was her idea though so i dont know why it made her that way! i liked it personally, was miles of fun. but i recon u gta b happy with your body and ur relationship b4 u do it opther wise u might think ur guna b dumpd. i had ma 3 sum wen i was single so it was great 4 me.... i dont recon il do one again though unless its with a stranger cause it was way awkward after wards. also i recon most woman dont like talking bowt that kinda thing, they may find that its embarrising, bt i recon were in the 20th century, not the 19hundreds lol.
2007-07-30 13:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by stormworks 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont believe 3-somes are every man's fantasy---there's nothing better than making love with my husband --I want no other.
2007-07-30 13:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by skyward 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i'm glad that you and your husband enjoy having 3-somes. now, why would you have a problem about couples who's not into it? they are entitled to their opinion just like you do. at least they're not hypocrites about.
2007-07-30 14:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where's the sanctity of a marraige between a man and
a woman ???. Of course it's just my opinion, but you have a
LEGAL marraige, but that isn't being united in God.
2007-07-30 13:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats not the way god intended it to be have more respect for yourselves in the end all you have is sex and nothing that really matters in a relationship.
2007-08-03 11:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
True, me and my sister had a 3some with this guy we know. Then our other sister had sex with him. We have a sayin"it ain't no fun, unless we all get some"
2007-07-30 13:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Melody J 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋