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Are men simpler creatures who are more easily satisfied with less, in contrast to women who are more complex and therefore need more to satisfy them? Or, are women and men equally complex, needy, and faulty, but men are just generally more accepting of women's faults than women are of men's faults? Do women harp, nag, over-analyze, and spend too much time thinking about their man's faults and the ways that he needs to change, and are men more "live and let live"?

2007-07-30 20:55:44 · 10 answers · asked by Bill X 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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biil, you must be a young one. women are much more complicated then men and almost impossible to keep happy. to all of the ladies out there, i love you and im sorry, had to school this kid in a certain context.

2007-07-30 21:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 6 · 2 0

everyone has faults, to some extent. women and men, just the same though not all, have some issues where they are complex, needy and faulty. men are not necessarily more accepting of men's faults, and women not less accepting. I have been married twice, each different yet the same. both were clingy, needy, overly sensitive and immensly complex. I mean, for a man to have nothing more to do than sit at the house and do whatever it is he wants to do, doesn't have to keep the kids, and allow his wife to work two and three jobs so he can b*tch about how he wants this and that? or, for a man who has a wife at home every night, cooks, cleans, takes care of the kids and works every day so he can stop at the bar before he comes home and be tramping around with strippers? in my experience, men are so much worse than I ever was. I just want the creature customs I'm used to-- food on the table, clean clothes to wear, a roof over my head, to be cool in the summer and warm in the winter. and I don't demand this from a man, I do it myself for myself and my kids.

2007-08-07 07:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by flgalinms 5 · 0 0

I think some men and some more women are complex, both sexes has them, but i think women tend to be more complex, men are puzzles with scatterd pieces but can be put together and women sometimes are a puzzle with missing pieces- In my case my hubby is difficult and needy im just a day by day easy to read mama, ive been a marine so long that i have no desire to be diffcult clean quick and to the point- cool calm and collective and boy i will say always whats on my mind- he harps to much - and not as accepting as i am, i accept his faults but i have many of men in my life, brothers ,friends but women try to change men, i dont in reverse he tries to change me, people need to put more time into getting to know eachother before they marry, if you desire to change things about that person then move on, someone else will like them the way they are-

2007-07-30 21:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I have to say that men do have it simpler. Pretty much because guys already think in a logical, kind of cold direct manner 24/7 as it is. As they see it they have the facts, the charts and the evidence to back things up. Women on the other hand are always trying rationalize and over explain things and even over think things because society has always said that women should be docile and demure. And so today's woman is always pondering what went wrong to get her out of that "docile" and happy like mode she was in.

I'm not really saying men have it simple all the time because they use logic. Because trust me, some dude's logic is so left field that not even the other half of his brain can catch up with what he is talking about. But still they have the leg up on the fact that they don't always have to explain anything to anyone to be accepted. There is just this innate "man law" thing they do, where when they speak its an automatic athourity and can't really be disputed, because society says that man is the head of households, he is the bread winner and he has the top notch job that makes himt he boss. So who would dispute the boss, without getting fired?

So yea guys are more easily satisfied because they have a leg up over women in the fact that they don't have to explain anything to anyone. They just do whatever they wish, because to them and to society it is acceptable. Take man whores for example. A guy can get away with getting it on with a girl, her mother, best friend and her sister all in the same week and still be ruled as "the man". All he does is tell his buddies a story about it and he is king. If a woman even had sex with the dude and cousin (at different times), she would be slutty Mcsluttenstein.

So naturally has cultivated two genders that are succeeding and failing in this world. Men are all nods and whatever because they know they are right and society will back them up. While women have to rational and think she is out of her mind for doing such behaviour because societ has told women that they have to be in a "docile" and sweet manner at all times. To never step outside of that box or there will be serious backlash, which we all see today.

P.S. I still say though that men catch hell when they want to get a woman for keeps. And trust me his nodding days are over, cuz he not getting one lick of rest after he is in a relationship. ;)

2007-07-30 21:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 1 1

Men are usually simple to understand generally but never try to understand a woman, as she is very complex and sensitive to Lot of issues. If her needs are not met, you will see her true colours and they can be very mean.
But of course, there are women who will tolerate all kind of nonsense from a man and will not make any demands but very few of such women nowadays.
Women are well educated, well paid and if you can't provide their needs, they will look elsewhere.

Good Luck

2007-08-07 18:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0 0

As long as a women is taking care of their "creature comforts", that's basically all men care about! If they come home from work to a dinner prepared and waiting for them, clean clothes, comfortable bed and the TV ready and waiting, hoorah! Most aren't really interrested in much else! Oh, except the occasional sex, of course, when THEY feel the urge!!

2007-08-07 06:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by joyceann 2 · 0 0

Put it this , me and my hubby have been married for 8 years today, I love him despite his faults he is too generous with his time for others and has stinky feet.
I'm happy, as long as I have him my 2 kids and food in our tummy's that's all I need.
obviously, you do get some people that NEED more in a relationship but that is because they are not truely happy with themselves.
It does'nt make a difference male or female!

2007-07-30 21:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hell naw, aint nobody easy to satisfy.
There is a certain amount of "overlooking" that each person does in any relationship.
If I could tell men one thing that they could do more often to please a woman it would be to concentrate on the clit.
If I could give the girls a little advice in pleasing a man, it would be to leave the teeth out.

2007-08-07 16:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by pure conscience 4 · 0 0

i might say i'm idealistic while it includes love. I do discover that to be genuine. i like open communique because of the fact I do discover that to be the key to have a good dating. while i'm ignored interior the chilly and that i don't know what's going on, I even tend to tension and be over analytical at situations without good,open, and honest communique. i'm very dependable in spite of the fact that if the guy feels that he does not deserve me.

2016-10-13 04:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by gustavo 4 · 0 0

men want hotties that is that

2007-08-07 12:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by MEliSSA♥ 3 · 0 0

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