y am i sad though i got divorce i wanted?

Answer 1

Divorce is a very traumatic act to go through - it is close to losing a family member. You are going through the bereavement process, a bit like post natal depression!
Actually i have not experienced either but one of my old school friends has & she said she would not wish it on her worse enemy!
Time is a great healer darling - good luck for the future!

Answer 2

I went through this when I got divorced. I wanted the divorce, even filed for it, and had good reason to want it because I was being abused. But while I was going through it, and even for a while after it was final, I felt sad and depressed. It didn't mean I didn't still care for him or even miss the good times. Would I do it all over again if I had to? Absolutely! I did what I had to do to protect myself and my future, but it was still hard.
I don't know your reason for divorce, but I assume it was a good one. I don't think most of us get a divorce unless we have a good reason! But give yourself some time. It's like a grief process. You're going through a loss and it takes time to heal.
I wish you the best.

Answer 3

When you go through divorce, you do remember the good times and bad times you had with you ex. You tend to recall if you would have done one thing or another differently, your effort to save the marriage, time wasted, and what your future holds for you. When you think all these things at one time, surely you won't be smiling, or happy rather being bitter, sad and mad of what you went through with your ex. Flash back memories which you will always have about your ex. Good luck

Answer 4

Your marriage FAILED, that's why. You took VOWS and you broke them. Nobody likes to admit they failed at anything. Even if you feel the divorce was your spouse's fault, you then CHOSE wrong. You can mourn the loss of your marriage (if not the person), and look to do better next time around. Give yourself time to grieve. Usually, the one leaving feels the worst, by the way. The other person feels betrayed and angry, but the person who did the divorcing first is the one who feels guilty. I wish you happiness when you have finished your grieving process.

Answer 5

Ever hear the old addage, "Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it".
mebbe because u had what u really wanted and pi**ed it away and now u realize the error of your ways?
The truth here is u didn't need to post this question for answers from other people, u already know the answer ur just ashamed to admit it.

Answer 6

You are suffering a loss. A divorce is a loss regardless of the gain in the long run. You have to mourn as you would with any sort of loss. Do your grieving, and then begin to slowly rebuild who you are.

Answer 7

Because you realise that you are now alone in this world.
You put too much emphasis on being 1/2 of a relationship instead of 100% of a whole person.

Answer 8

u r feeling lonliness
u r missing the company of someone u used to live with in one home for long time
u miss having someone into ur life, filling it and giving u the feeling of compassionate
try to seek love and marraige again
it will help
but try to think well in choosing whoever will share ur life ;)

Answer 9

Because it is still a loss. You got married for what you hoped to be a lifetime and now you are alone again.

Answer 10

you're grieving right now get out of the dumps and do something nice for yourself treat yourself to something you've always wanted take a mini vacation to get away from it all have some fun you deserve it.