My husband is so rude when he talks to me. I can't take it anymore. He is not romantic. What should I do?

Answer 1

Sometimes women feel unloved because her and her spouse are on completely different pages. You should try to talk to your husband and tell him how you're feeling. If your husband doesn't understand that, you might want to look into marriage counseling. There are a lot of marriages that are saved because of some counseling. I hope your husband is willing to work things out with you.

Answer 2

Unfortunately, there's not much you can do at this point. He is the way he is and there is NOTHING you can do or sayto get him to change. I've been with a guy like this. What I learned is that they act this way because they are truly miserable inside and think of themselves as victims of life and they take it out on you because you're basically helpless. They usually treat other people waaaaay better than they do you and in fact are often know for being "really nice guys" by everyone around. If an affair or a divorce is out of the question, then I'd get a therapist and several hobbies.

Answer 3

My husband and I are working on a rudeness issue too. I feel for ya. It just seems like since we've been married he talks to me like I'm one of his buddies and they seem to talk to each other always in the form of putdowns. I dont know if this is similar to what's going on with you but this is what I have done; I have talked to him and talked to him about how he can't do that to me - it hurts my feelings coming from someone that I love. I have found the thing that is working the best so far is reminding him that he is doing it EVERY single time he does. And, lately I've been noticing him catching himself when he starts to say something rude since I've been doing that. That's all I've figured out so far be glad to let you know more if I figure it out!

Answer 4

there's only one thing to do..and that's give it to him straight..tell him ur not feeling appreciated enough and the speech that he uses with u does nothing for ur romantic side

we women would like to think men can read our minds but they cant. if u've gone through the whole routine of sitting him down and talking to him about it then take it one step forward...when ever he says something that is rude or unappealing correct him..let him no that this is the way u would like to be talked to and treated..

if that doesnt work then i suggest if u really wanna save ur marriage go seek professional help such as counselling

Answer 5

you need to sit down with him and talk to him. tell him how you feel and see what happens. if I were you and my husband didn't stop being rude to me I would kick his *** to the curb and tell him that since he doesn't want to change then I don't want to be with him because I can't stand being in an unhappy married anymore. you have to take care of yourself. and if you are unhappy then you need to do something about it. good luck.

Answer 6

Have you tried to get marriage counseling? Some men are so frustrated that they forget to be romantic to they loved ones and they take them for granted.

Try talking to him and let him know how you feel. This if you able to talk to him because it is not easy to communicate with most men.

Answer 7

Is your husband getting addicted? That's always the case of marijuana/ or worse heroin make them all the same: when they get high, they seem nice; but when the drugs' effect get over bring them down, they become rude; brutal; uncontrollable angers; bad behaviors...Dealing with this situation, you better put him to rehab sooner or later

Answer 8

Try reading a book by Dr. Laura Shlesinger, "Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands." That might help.

Answer 9

IF HE'S TALKING TO YOU RUDE HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU IT'S UP TO YOU IF YOU WANT TO STAY W/ HIM OR NOT THIS IS ABUSE(VERBAL) I WOULD DUMP HIM AND FIND A NEW ONE OR TELL HIM THAT YOUR NOT GOING TO TAKE IT ANYMORE AND GO FROM THERE STAND UP TO HIM

Answer 10

Marriage is all about respect and caring for your partners feelings. I suggest you talk to him soon about this problem, and if he doesnt seem receptive to your concerns maybe suggest counseling. Life is too short for any of us to go thru life with a partner that doesnt love and respect us...good luck to you