My husband and I have been together for 15 years now, but he doesn't love me anymore, I feel like he needs me to do his bed, food, laundry, he treats me bad. I loved him a lot, but it seems that he did all the possible so I moved away of him. The thing is I want to be loved, I am still young and pretty, I never want to get married again, but I want to feel special like I felt from him time a go.
Do I have to cheat him?
2007-07-31 17:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by Drew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are looking for love in all the wrong places.
You are too needy and are comfortable being a man's mule, or his beat of burden.
If someone who is as fragile as you gets out there and tries to cheat on your husband to find love, you will get eaten up and chewed out, the game today is brutal and you can't just jump into today's love game with little or no experience.
You want to feel special, perhaps you should love the Lord, he may help you love yourself first.
2007-07-31 17:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not cheat, it is not a solution and it will only worsen the situation. Talk to your husband, go to marriage counselling together, try to do something about your marriage and if all else fail, then talk about divorce. But under no circumstances should you cheat. Good luck.
2007-07-31 17:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like if your husband doesn't give you what you want you are going to find it elsewhere. The answer is NO you don't have to cheat on him. The question should be will you cheat on him? From the sounds of it, you will!
I think you allready know what you need to do.
2007-07-31 17:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Trying2FindMe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat, it will never make you happy. In the end you'll only be hurting yourself. Try to get him to go with you to counseling. You might be surprised at the outcome. If you believe in G*D, try praying, if you don't believe in G*D, give him a chance.
2007-07-31 17:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by ineednostinkingid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to him you might still b specal but he just cant show it.15. years is a long time to throw away did you both try seeing a concler . if not try many a good marrage ender over this as well lack of commution. good luck on what ever you decide. . realy. my opion?
2007-07-31 17:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for what is going on but you have to look to your self
for what you want, it very normal to feel as you do, every person want to be love and respect, he sound like he not
the one for you. sorry that it been 15 years to long, you deserve much better then that. time to start living for
your self. and the love and respect that you want you
will get. good luck.
2007-07-31 17:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember your wedding vows. For better or WORSE, in SICKNESS and in health, for richer or POORER until DEATH do us part.
Do what ever you have to, to make your marriage work. You can't divorce him, unless he commits adultery.
Get some marriage counseling, go by yourself if he won't go. Find out some pointers on how you can make your marriage better.
2007-07-31 17:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not the answer, but to leave him is. Move on and find someone else to be happy with.
2007-07-31 19:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat him? No. Divorce him? Yes. You need to find another man who will treat you decently. It doesn't mean that you will have to marry them.
2007-07-31 19:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said above, you're still young, and pretty
Still got time to learn, and move one.
If I was you, I'd forgot about him.
I'm young, and I know this..
I'm 14-years-old.. So take my advice, or leave it.
=/.
If he treats you badly, and doensn't respect you
makes you cook, clean, everything..
You need to find someone who loves you, for you.
Who treats your nicely, and careingly.
You'll come across it. Don't worry. =]
2007-07-31 17:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by KaytieCakes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋