We have lived together for 6yrs. We had a big arguement over a car and she moved out and now lives in her moms second house. We patched things up over a 5 month period and I finally ask her to marry me!! She asked me can she have time to think about it. How long should I wait?? (She has in the past asked are we ever going to end up married and I replied "when we are both ready and finished with school.) I'm in my early 30's and she is in her late 20's.
2007-07-31 19:54:55 · 6 answers · asked by help101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you lived together for 6 years I would expect an almost on the spot answer so be ready to move on she has other thoughts ~~
2007-07-31 19:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her...then give her time. If in about a month she does not answer then ask her if she has made a desicion. If she is STILL not sure...then definitely talk to her...If you want this relationship to go to the next level and she doesn't then it's best that you move on.
2007-08-01 02:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by yuma yuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you have finished School now, then what are you waiting for?By the way,have at least TWO cars between both of you ,before you marry.Take her out and ask her .
2007-07-31 20:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that if she hasn't made her mind up in 30-45 days, then you should move on.
2007-07-31 20:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago was the proposal? Don't you speak with her every day? Can't really understand how you don't have an answer by now.
Anyway...go talk with her...........now!
2007-07-31 20:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing if she didn't say yes right away and she's asked for time to think about it that she will probably say no
2007-07-31 19:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋