why would i have sexual fantasies about him or think of even kissing him when I'm completely satisfied at home and extremely attracted to my husband. The only thing I can think of going on between my husband and I is .. me trusting him, because of lies financially and catching him on porn sites or trying to meet someone which he claims he was curious and never went through with. This happened a year ago, but I still find my self doubting him.
2007-07-31 19:20:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Simple fact is that your'e spending 8 hours a day with your boss whilst you spend 3-5 hours a day with your hubby. Your working together with your boss, you working against your hubby, i.e. chores etc. Note Hubby has same problem just his boss aint a woman, or one that would attract him.
What can one draw from this, firstly the picture is wrong, secondly there has to be a different way of working with your hubby that will make you guys dream of each other during the day.
2007-07-31 19:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Michael B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be attracted to someone in a position of authority, especially your boss! It's okay for you to think of him this way so long as you don't do anything about it. Doing something about it will only hurt you and possibly him as well. You don't want to do that!
Husbands lie. Be thankful that you know the truth about the porn site thing. I'm not saying it's right, but it happens often. If he was honest enough to tell you about meeting someone that never happened with him, then I would say he's being honest about the important things. Be happy with that and just allow your boss to invade your fantasies...no other part of your body.
2007-08-01 02:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fantasizing about money and power. It's not a good thing that your marriage is filled with lies about money and sex. When you catch a man at something, chances are, he's been doing it for alot longer. You already know he's capable of lying and being deceptive. I doubt think I want to spend the rest of my life with a liar.
2007-08-01 10:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are cool, fun, interesting and sometimes introspecrive. They are not though windows into our true souls or true feelings/wants/desires. Could be as simple as you were/are mulling over something at work, and still mulling over your husbands questionable activities and your dream found a way to lump them all together. This happens to me alot.
2007-08-01 02:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't trust a husband like that. about your boss, i think you just need some emotional comfort since your husband can't provide it to you
2007-08-01 02:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋