My wife's lezb?
dont ask me how i know!
since the past two years, I've noticed changes and they all tend towards her homosexuality, I love her and dont want to loose her but on the other side I know that she will always lack 'something' that I will never be able to give her. We have a little girl together and it will really hurt to let my wife go away.
I know that she'll 'never' express herself on that subject, nor will she leave her married life.... But I know she will feel like umcomplete.
I am the one who might give her freedom, but am scared of loosing her.
I know am being selfish.
give comments/advices
2007-07-31 23:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You love her right. So What do you want to do? If you want her to be your wife let her be your wife. You knows what's right so do it or do what you think is best for you home. Now you can try to have here bring over the other party and have a threesome and everybody is happy hopefully. That could lead up to other problems. Just be careful and take care of your daughter. You can Email me or IM me if you want to get down to the point with this subject.
2007-08-01 01:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by DEMARCO A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women these days enjoy a happy marriage and a little girl-girl action on the side. These woman are bi-sexual and there is a growing trend among couples to 'enhance' their marriage by doing 3somes and 4somes.
If you aren't threatened by it, try asking her if she would like to add a woman to the mix so the 3 of you could have a fun romp in the hey. Tell her she can have an hour or so alone with the girl before you join. But make sure you lay down any rules that you feel could protect your feelings, Like... she can never entertain while you are not there...
I think this might be a way for her to explore without rejection you.
Women will always try to hang on to continuity and security. This is why so many women cheat and never confess. The most important thing to them is their security.
Be warned... adding a partner to the bedroom could be the very thing that ruins your relationship... proceed with caution and baby steps.
2007-08-01 07:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mindlessfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's wanting something besides you she'll go get it. You're not holding her back. If you want to deal with her having an outside affair, that's up to you. You need to talk to her. Decide together what must be done. Most importantly though, is this an attitude you want the daughter to grow up with. Think of her first, not yourself. You may have grounds to separate her from her mother.
2007-08-01 06:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way in the world that you can know all of that. You need to talk to your wife.
2007-08-01 06:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋