Marriage & Divorce - 31 July 2007

I have been with my husband for 10 yeras. About a year ago, we separated because he cheated on me... since then we worked out or problems and decided to make our marriage work. We went to a marriage counselor and it has done wonders for us.

Well, to make a long story short... a cople of days before my husband and I got back together my mother in law called me to insult me over the fact that i wouldn't let her take my 2 young toddlers to Disney without their father. She started going off on me, and saying how my husband should have left me years before and that the only reason he cheated on me was because I was a horrible wife and he was only with me because of our children. She went as far as saying she was going to call HRS on me....

Of course, i didn't stay quiet. I gave her a piece of my mind before telling her that my children would never go to her house again without their father or I would call the cops and accuse her of kidnapping. (i have always allowed my children

2007-07-31 17:09:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend says given the oppurtunity any man even a happily married guy would cheat..I agree cause we all know how men are no guy is gonna pass up the oppurtunity for some "strange" even if he is happily married.

2007-07-31 17:04:48 · 35 answers · asked by nicole c 1

I'm 7 mos preggo. My bf and I were together for 2 years. We had our issues but I really loved him and we talked about having a baby for a while. Then i got pregnant and everything seemed ok. I know he was a little overwhelmed and he had just opened a restaurant with his family. He decided that he didn't want to have the baby b/c he was too busy. He's 32, I'm 34. I'm a very responsible person and I would have never let this happen had i known he was gong to abandon me. This happened 3 weeks ago and he also sent me a horrible e-mail saying he had another gf. I don't know what to believe anymore. He's immature and selfish and I can't believe he would do this. I haven't talked to him but I need to. He said his piece and I feel like I should say mine. I still love him and miss him and yes, I know I made a mistake in trusting him. But I really believed in him and that he would do the right thing. Man was I stupid. I'm mad at myself, even though I'm happy about the preggo. What do i do now?

2007-07-31 17:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4

has started to come around and getting very friendly with my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law brings her to family parties and introduced her as my husbands ex-girlfriend. They talk alot and act like they are the best of friends. I told my husband that it makes me feel uncomfortable and a little embarrased. He told me that I was being silly and that it was his mothers bussiness.
What do you think?

2007-07-31 16:59:18 · 48 answers · asked by Izzy 5

Another girl hangs out with him, but his wife is always there. I don't want to hang out with him, but him asking me is starting to make me feel uncomfortable. The other girl says he's just being friendly, but I think he just waiting for the right opportunity at the right time to make a move. My co-worker is kind of naive to me, and I've never heard of a married guy asking single women out for a drink, especially while their wife is pregnant. Now that his wife has had the baby I definitely see no reason for us to hang out. What do you guys think, is he just a friendly guy who wants to hang out, or is he up to no good?

2007-07-31 16:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by tolula 3

I told him to stop texting that woman but it seems that he is still so interested and the woman also keeps on entertaining his calls.How can i stop this?

2007-07-31 16:34:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has more excuses and promises than anyone I have ever met. He is able to express himself in ways that push just the right buttons in me and without much effort on his part---I believe! I want my marriage to work and I have accepted every little crumb he throws my way....literally I am like a kid at christmas....everytime I think the big bow means theres a gift....and every time I find out the box is empty, I buy into the sad story, the lengthy excuses, the aches, pains, promises of next time.....I started making a list to see it in black and white and I can't believe how much of this crap I have put up with.....and now I dont have much respect for myself for getting into this mess....and no clue how to begin to rebuild my personhood (hope that makes sense...because I dont know exactly how it got this bad...its been really small things.....that have escalated...and now he trash talks me daily_)....I am strong in other areas of my life....but here I am braindead. Help?

2007-07-31 16:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 19 and my husband is 25, we got married a year ago , i want to do something kind of sexy for him on our anniversery, but i cant figure out what would be the sexiest 1st wedding anniversery....if you know what i mean ;)

2007-07-31 16:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help finish writing my book for my husband's 50th birthday. Thanks.

2007-07-31 15:57:48 · 29 answers · asked by tina h 2

me and i ex are both 20 and have been with each other for just about 2 yrs. and have a 10 month old baby bogether. we just split up. he is the tip of person that can not keep a job. and he is leaving with his parents now and has a job. he said that he will be sinding money down for his son and wants my baby for the weekend but i dont know he will bring him back though he says that he is going too. so if i let him and he does not bring him back can i do anything to get him back?

2007-07-31 15:49:07 · 10 answers · asked by crystal w 1

I really dont know why I'm feeling this way,but I cant hold my emotion toward this guy.and he told me he feel the same way to me. would I believe in him.?I can no longer concentrate to my work. because he is always bothering me.we have a constant communication thru celfone and we have already a mutual understanding for about four months.I need help.pls.thanks.

2007-07-31 15:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by amelia r 1

relationship with his children, his friends, his family, etc. for you and he is the one who brought baggage to the relationship, how do you handle that?

I'm married, so is my sister and she was a single, never married who married a man with three children. She has always been nice to them, worked hard, has a successful career, and wanted to have children with him. He has been trying to have a relationship with all of his family and is just finishing his degree. What do I tell her to do? I know she loves him, but, I think she is broken.

2007-07-31 15:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by Alena 1

my question is, i was brought up in a time where people got married and had familys. why are people not doing that anymore, is it cause of no role models, lack of disipline, or lack of moral rights? just curious about what people think.

2007-07-31 15:28:13 · 8 answers · asked by Linda B 3

ok i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started dancing and flirting with each other...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention by grabbing my waste...then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy" i mean seriously, whats his problem??? its ok for him to hook up with other girls but not ok for me to flirt or dance with other guys? i mean what was that all about?? what do u guys think?

2007-07-31 15:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by kat5634foru 1

2007-07-31 15:09:17 · 21 answers · asked by swequin 3

Hi there
My name is steve & I got married 3years ago
After the wedding my wife changed her last name and took my middle name because my last name is too long and has a bad memory to me.
I bear one of my fathers name as my last name
He used to abuse me in the most horrific ways that I cant mention.
He,s passed on now.
I hate this name and avoid relating to it.
Infact I hate when peple use my last name when calling me.
On the other side of the coin I love my father In-law and named my son after him.
Do you think I,ll be a freak if I took his name as my last name and dumped my biological fathers name.
And how do I legally do it?
Ps advise

2007-07-31 15:04:33 · 6 answers · asked by stelews 1

He hasn't really done anything. He just seems distant. I guess I'm just insecure about the state of our marriage right now. Sometimes I don't think he loves me anymore. I feel like he thinks of sex as more of a chore than something he really wants. I see couples everyday who seem to be really in love. I see husbands who aren't afraid to tell their wives that they love them when other people are around. I wish my marriage were more like those. Sometimes I think that he wouldn't care if I walked out the door...or told him to walk. Maybe it's all in my head. I don't know.

2007-07-31 15:03:05 · 7 answers · asked by ncgirl 3

and they always are checking me out as I walk by. What happened to being discrete?

2007-07-31 15:00:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom doesnt wear her engagment or wedding ring. I know my parents arent mad at eachother or in trouble. My dad doesnt wear his ring because he has a skin condition on his hands and the ring makes it worse. But i don't know why my mom doesn't wear hers and its bothering me. I don't want to ask because it would be awkward and put her on the spot.

2007-07-31 14:45:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

the man that i am with has a long history of cheating, basically all his adult life and unfortunaly that didnt stop when he was with me, he says his life was all messed up anyway and just a lie and he couldnt love me the right way because of that. but it all stopped when i was getting ready to leave him. now he loves me completely, with everything and as right. he says that he could never be unfaithful again, now that he knows what real love can be like. i have many doubts. can anyone help me understand? or maybe relate??

2007-07-31 14:41:31 · 11 answers · asked by not this way 5

Come onnnnnnnn what's this country coming to. If that was the case, 8 out of every 10 men would be in prison. Something funny is going on in Georgia.

2007-07-31 14:27:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 14:27:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would be his traits...and his personality? what would he do for you? I ask because I'm a single guy and I aspire to be a model husband to my wife someday. Thanks for your help.

2007-07-31 14:19:32 · 20 answers · asked by Marky Marc 3

2007-07-31 14:17:51 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 14:13:54 · 16 answers · asked by malu d 1

2007-07-31 14:02:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long married and if your husband/wife died would you ever remarry...My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and if god forbid something ever happen to him i would never ever remarry cause i know i couldnt find anybody as wonderful and special as him cause he is my best friend and love of my life and will always have a very special place in my heart and i know i could never feel the same about another man but i would want him to remarry if something happen to me cause i wouldnt want him to be lonely but he said he wouldnt remarry either.

2007-07-31 13:58:55 · 13 answers · asked by kellie r 1

Is this the same as him giving me full custody? And if so can I still get child support if I have full custody?

2007-07-31 13:31:03 · 14 answers · asked by guardianangel 3

How long did you date before you married? Only for people with successful, happy marriages please.

2007-07-31 13:07:59 · 25 answers · asked by Snow Bunnie 2

Of course all men dont cheat but I think all men capable of cheating cheat. I am a guy and was having an argument with my friend we will call him Doug. I made the comment that our other friend I will call him John who just got married a 2 months ago cheated on his wife Sara by going on a business trip and getting oral from some random collage girl that was coming on to him. Doug got really upset and said he would never do that.... but Doug is the kind of guy that would never happen to.... he it the type of guy that would be lucky to get anyone. John on the other hand can pretty much have any woman he wants. So just wanted to ask the question Do all men capable of cheating cheat? wether it be once or lots of times?

2007-07-31 12:45:34 · 23 answers · asked by tkessandoh 1