I really dont know why I'm feeling this way,but I cant hold my emotion toward this guy.and he told me he feel the same way to me. would I believe in him.?I can no longer concentrate to my work. because he is always bothering me.we have a constant communication thru celfone and we have already a mutual understanding for about four months.I need help.pls.thanks.
2007-07-31 15:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by amelia r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no it's not okay...how old is your son? If he's a minor it wouldn't be legal anyway.
2007-07-31 15:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by :DDDDDD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on how old this man is. If your son is a teenager, for ex: 14,15, 16 that is a big mistake. Because this will mean that you are a child molester and you will end up in jail. However, if this man is of legal age then you should go for it. If you two have deep feelings for each other then you should not worry about his age. Good Luck!!!!!
2007-07-31 22:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are probably feeling is the excitement of someone so young being attracted to you. obviously, you also find him attractive but the excitement of the relationship is even more.... the butterflies in the stomach, the having to get pretty for work, the compliments, and the self esteem booster.
if you sit down for minute you will probably realize that you probably don't have much in common, and your relationship can only go so far. i don't mean to be rude, but there is so much he could offer you intellectually and probably as a man.
have fun and feel good but be smart.
2007-07-31 22:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely NOT! Do you want to end up in jail? You can train your mind to GET OVER IT by focusing on other things, making a clear decision, and avoiding communication. Look to the consequences, see the result of your actions, and you will know your answer.
2007-07-31 22:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by glamboyant 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not right. You need some one your own age. It may seem okay now for you and him, but you will age a lot faster. In a few years the difference will not be good at all. Encourage him to find some one his own age.
2007-07-31 22:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How would you feel if your son brought home a woman YOUR age?
If you're really OK with that, then I guess it's ok for you. Just don't be a hypocrite.
2007-07-31 22:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"a mutual understanding"?
whatever. how would you feel about your son dating someone your age?
2007-07-31 22:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its ok madam if the guy is happy let love happen. no problem
2007-07-31 22:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋