I told him to stop texting that woman but it seems that he is still so interested and the woman also keeps on entertaining his calls.How can i stop this?
2007-07-31 16:34:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you want to stop him? Tell him to go ahead and you go to the family lawyer and file for divorce. He has made his choice. You don't want to be with someone who is cheating on you. The trust is gone. It's over. You have to accept the reality of the situation. It is real. You can't change him. You have to change your idea of who he is, because you now know who he really is. There is life after divorce. He is totally disrespecting you, even if you could block the texting, the fact is he is a liar and a cheat. Dump him.
He has chosen to do this evil thing, don't let him or anyone else blame it on you. It is NOT your fault. It is squarely on him!
2007-07-31 16:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe your still with him, hes not going to stop, he doesnt want to and theres nothing you can do about it. He will find a way even if you do block the numbers. Maybe if you leave him for a while he will realize what he lost and will stop what hes been doing with this other woman to get you back. The saying "Dont know what you got till its gone" is so true, and if he really does love you he will stop to get you back
2007-07-31 16:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Savannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is possibly cheating on you with another woman and you want to block his number. That's a hoot. Why would you even bother? Obviously he's going to do what he's going to do. How can you stop this? You end it. You stop being his doormat, his whipping post, his maid and his mama, and you clean house. The sooner the better. You can do bad by yourself. Don't blame the other woman. She'd have no one to play her game with if he wasn't hitting the ball back to her, now would she? Game over. Good luck.
2007-07-31 16:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he's cheating, he knows you know and he won't stop contacting her... and probably hasn't stopped seeing her either - and you're still there?
You aren't going to be able to control his contacting her, and even if he stopped seeing her, what makes you think he won't cheat again with someone else. Once the trust is broken, so is the marriage.
Why do you want someone who doesn't want you anymore. Don't you have enough respect for yourself to walk away from a situation like this?
Kick his behind to the curb, you deserve to find a man who will love you and be faithful to you.
2007-07-31 16:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
excuse me but i think your husband is already emotional with her. if this is nothing to him,he should stop when you asked him. The only way that you can block the other woman's number is to talk to his cell carrier. If you know that she keeps on doing this, why not call her and tell her to stop or else you will file a sexual harassment....
2007-07-31 17:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please listen to Beyonce's song, Irreplaceable, pack up his stuff, put it in a box to the left of the door, blast the song, and, let him know you will be fine. You will be better off, honey. If he is cheating on you, not only does that mean that he doesn't respect you or care about your feelings, but, he is also risking your health. Every woman that he sleeps with, has slept with how many men? And those men how many women, and so on and so on. Cheating is not only cruel, but, it is potentially deadly. Leave him in the dust. He does not deserve you!
2007-07-31 16:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda h 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop it unless he wants to stop. If you block the number he will find a way to get in contact with her. Whether it be calling her from work or when you are not around.
2007-07-31 20:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by MZ. Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, the phone is not the problem,the man is. I am sorry he is not respecting you and hurts you with his behavior but I don't think blocking the phone will stop such a thoughless person.
If the phone is in your name, set up the account so there are no more text messages or report the phone as lost and start fresh, but again, if he wants to contact her, he will.
2007-07-31 16:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by donny_mollysmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you're not going to be able to control your husband for the rest of your life every minute. You know that already!
So if he won't stop cheating on you, you have to leave him or let him cheat.
You have no other choices.
2007-07-31 16:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop it. You may have been able to prevent it. Thats the question you should ask yourself. If you have been honest and treated him the way you did while dating then you did all you should and could do. If this is the case then I would leave him. Once a cheat always a cheat.
2007-07-31 16:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋