Marriage & Divorce - 31 July 2007

2007-07-31 03:14:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

She found a sex toy that I made for masturbation. She got so upset and said I might as well cheated on her. She also said I broke her heart, and that I'm a pervert and now she feels that she was not women enough for me. I love her very much but we are going through tough times and the sex has just been a chore lately. She has since told me I can still stay with her for know but I was told don't tell her I lover her, can't kiss her, can't even touch her. I feel lost in my marriage and have been getting counceling. My councelor said I'm not a pervert. My wife still gives me sex sometimes but claims she was out of it because she takes ambien medication but she still remembers it in the morning. What do I do?

2007-07-31 03:08:52 · 14 answers · asked by give_me_somedat 1

my boyfriend and i are getting married in 6 weeks. but we need to get a copy of his divorce decree, because he can not find the one that was sent to him a few years back. does anyone know where i would be able to get a copy of it, and about how much it would cost?

2007-07-31 02:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by BigMaMa 5

Sometimes I get my husband to pick up my pads and tampons. I wrote down the brand name I want and he does it. By now he doesn't need it written down. He gets my birth control 'script too! He's been doing this on occasion since before we were married.

Now he's telling me that the women at the check out give him a look like, "Whoa he's a keeper." I mean, I appreciate it a lot, but a guy who wouldn't do that at least occasionally...well, he's not a guy for me. Is it really that rare?

2007-07-31 02:46:59 · 34 answers · asked by qwertatious 4

My daughter has always dreamed about being a cheerleader for her high school team. The tryouts for the squad began two weeks ago. They put the girls through different physical test to see if they are able to cut it as a cheerleader. My daughter seemed to be doing very well and was supposedly a shoe in to make the squad.
When I went to pick my daughter up from rehearsal yesterday the coach pulled me over to the side and explained to me that my daughter won't be able to make the team unless she gets breast implants.
He says that she is gifted but her breasts aren't big enough to keep the crowd or the football and basketball guys interested in what she is saying. He says that if she has the surgery and gets DD she will make the squad and possibly be the head cheerleader. Is he right? Should my daughter really have to get breast implants just to be a cheerleader?

2007-07-31 02:46:26 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

I remember at my wedding shower, I was asked, "How many children do you plan on having?" I said, none and the room went dark. Like it was a terrible thing to say, sorry, but children are not for me.

His mom doesn't get it. She tried for years to get pregnant with him. My own mother is bright enough to get that I don't want to be pregnant. It's physical trauma, but she still says silly shite like, "you'll change your mind."

2007-07-31 02:39:48 · 22 answers · asked by qwertatious 4

Star if you like!

Marriage Joke:

"Ever since we got married, my wife has tried to change me. She got me to stop drinking, smoking and running around until all hours of the night. She taught me how to dress well, enjoy the fine arts, gourmet cooking, classical music, even how to invest in the stock market," said the man. "Sounds like you may be bitter because she changed you so drastically," remarked his friend. "I'm not bitter. Now that I'm so improved, she just isn't good enough for me."

2007-07-31 02:39:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 02:38:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your sitting on the couch watching T.V when out of the corner of your eye, you see something scurrying across the floor. You quickly realize it is your abusive ex, only he is bug sized! What would you do and say?

2007-07-31 02:30:23 · 7 answers · asked by Stacy R 1

Iv been with my guy 4 a year an 6months. Its great. LOve him with all I got to love with. how ever I cant have any more kids. we have talked about it and he has said time an again. that he has never been in love like this. last night I heard him talking and he wants kids BADLY . sooooo What walk away??? or marry him??????

2007-07-31 02:08:12 · 19 answers · asked by ladywolf 1

2007-07-31 02:01:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We met on the internet about three years ago. we keep in contact through the phone and emails. we are from different countries and work commitments and visa restrictions keep us apart. last year, we met in person, spent a week together and we liked each other. my biological clock is ticking and i really just want to have a child by him but he wants to get married. i am worried that it may not work out because we do not really know each other. but since i am planning to have his child, i think that it is in the best interest of the child to have a legitimate father. He is a great guy but marriage is such a big decision. I have a lot of doubts.

2007-07-31 01:45:52 · 24 answers · asked by hibiscus 1

I see alot of questions on here concerning engagement rings, either about "how to get the one I want" or "should I let him pick it" types and would love to know everyone's thoughts on this, especially those of you already married. This is just my opinion, but I love the idea of the man choosing the ring, and surprising (as much as he can) the woman. This is how my fiancee did it. But see, I love the ring for what it symbolizes, not just because it's beautiful. Wouldn't care if it came out of a gumball machine. I see alot of conflicting opinions, and I'm not judging - just curious! There are all sorts of rings out there, and I guess I'm kind of sad to see that some women really seem to be competing, or complaining, and won't take anything less than what they absolutely want. Some say men can't be trusted to pick a good one out, and that's sad. Some say "I have to wear it forever, so it has to be perfect". Isn't it perfect because it came from the man you love? What are your thoughts?

2007-07-31 01:45:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my wife in november and we are in the final process of a divorce (last few days of process) we have been trying to be friends has been working for about the last few weeks. well this weekend was the first weekend My gf was alowed around my little girls (7 &9) we went to a local pool on sat then shopping. and on sunday went to a childrens museum. any way my D's went home sunday evening and told her what a great time we had. we even talked some on monday but monday night she called and asked how could betray her like that and that i think she is a fool what can i do to make it a little better with her

2007-07-31 01:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by Noel P 2

My husband and I have decided to file for divorce. I have decided i want sole custody because he does not know how to take care of her. And he is somehow involved with this creapy 50 year old man (my husband is 23) anyways that is part of the reason for divorce. I know he doesnt want full custody but he said he kind of wanted weekends. I will let him see her whenever he wants and she can stay at his mom's and he can stay there too. Just want to know did anyone have trouble getting sole custody of your kids? Or i would like to hear from anyone who has been divorced. this is one of the hardest things i have ever had to do.

2007-07-31 01:41:28 · 10 answers · asked by heather_michelle41607 1

"If I can not get you to see the difference between a childs birthday gift and an adults TV set then there is no sense discussing any further about the events and conversation that occured this morning."

2007-07-31 01:38:43 · 20 answers · asked by Tara MD 1