Marriage & Divorce - 31 July 2007

I have asked a question before and now i need some more advice. My fiancee and I have been engaged for 3 wks and I do have two wonderful kids by a previous marriage. I see my kids on a regular basis and I do extra things for them because they are my kids and my responsibility. I believe that this makes me a better person for the things I do for my kids. She gets a little jealous when it comes to them because she doesn't have kids and seems not to understand. I have explained several times that she is not competing for attention and that I love her with all my heart but there are sometimes that my kids do come first and that she shouldn't feel jealous. Should I talk to her again about this or is this going to be and all the time thing and maybe i should break the engagement off now, so that it doesn't hurt and be more painful for everyone later.

2007-07-31 06:02:03 · 23 answers · asked by john t 1

It has been 16 months since I found out my now ex was having an affair. In that time I have changed jobs, sold a house and bought a new one, getting used to the fact that I am basically a single mom, surviving on my own...My friends and family are constantly encouraging me to date but I am just not ready yet. Is this normal? I actually like being on my own right now. My ex went the other way - moved in almost immediately with the other woman. Should I start dating even though I feel I am not ready? I do not want to get into a rebound relationship. If you are divorced how long did you wait to date? For those who left their spouse for another and moved on immediately - did the relationship last?

2007-07-31 06:00:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok like i said before my husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and wanna buy a porn movie and i said neither 1 of us has ever seen 1 before so we are curious to see 1..Well how many people have said "believe me he has seen 1"..Well does this count..1 time wayyy before he met me him and a couple of his friends went into 1 of those adult stores and you know they have those booths where you put coins in and watch 1..Does that count? But since we have been married neither 1 of us has seen 1.

2007-07-31 05:57:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Money can change a person who way of thinking and at times loving. My fiance and myself are on a very strict buget because we have some unpaid wedding balances. The wedding is in two months and we are starting to have big problems. (money problems) he always gets upset when I say that we can't afford something. The question that I need to ask is "What do you do when you start feeling different toward your spouse because of money issuses, ( not having enough money to sometime do simple things like get somthing to eat) Sometimes I feel like I don't even want him near me ( in bed) because I feel like he dosen't deserve to have sex with me. Him not being able to buy things turns me off. Even now it seems like every arguement we have starts off with money. What should I do to save our relationship with in the next two months?

2007-07-31 05:54:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think its worse to sleep with someones husband or wife, than it is to be with a family members x? lets say your sister was with a woman 6yrs ago but now shes married to a man, is it wrong for her sister to be with the girl she used to be with now?

2007-07-31 05:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by Chips 2

2007-07-31 05:33:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 05:29:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been married for 20 years-we are 39 & 40. the last 2 years my husband has been taking antidepressants and our sex life has come to almost a complete halt.we have always had an amazing sex life and i really like sex .but the antidepressants have affected his sex drive,he has used pills that help,but we still only have sex every month or so. he almost acts like it is a big inconvience to him to even take the d*** pill. i feel like a sex freak sometimes because it seems like i am always asking and getting turned down.i dont think i could have an affair but i dont know what to do. i am only 39- is my sex life over? he has tried other antdepressants but they dont work ,he has to take them !!!!

2007-07-31 05:19:29 · 27 answers · asked by mybluechicken 3

well, my husband and I had quite a few arguments about him having female friends that he doesn't want me to meet to whom he makes regular phone calls.I do not think that he is cheating on me but he is hideing his phone from me and when I found the phone yesterday and open text msg. i found a picture of a girl naked with a title: ATT Jeff.
So I wonder when is it ok to send a friend a picture of yourself naked?I have a hard time asking him for we always have huge arguments where he says he doesn't cheat on me and they are just friends.What do you think?

2007-07-31 05:02:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

For some reason, I have this uncomfortable feeling that my husband may cheat on me with my sister. Judging from the way he is, he's not that kind of person. Aside from that, he never did anything to trigger this feelings. I just don't know why I'm just so insecure about it. I think I need help. I have no idea why I'm feeling like this. This feeling comes and goes. Now I have been feeling like this for the past 2 days. I haven't talk to my husband about it until I have it figure out why. Please help??

2007-07-31 04:40:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of a woman who cheats on her husband while he is deployed to Iraq. I know quite a few guys that this has happened to and thats sad. Let me know what you think??

2007-07-31 04:36:52 · 24 answers · asked by coby r 2

Why or why not?

2007-07-31 04:26:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 04:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by Betty Bookworm 2

2007-07-31 04:21:59 · 27 answers · asked by milesrey 1

Me and my husband were married this month on the 18th (7/18/2007) and about 3 days ago i found out that he had a fiance on the side.The truth is that before we got married i had made him mad and we basically broke up(This break up was less then 24 hours) and his ex-girlfriend who had broke up with him before had came back in his life during this "Break up", she asked him back out.Apparently,he told me that they were at the mall and she saw a ring she wanted and he bought it for her.She turned to him and said "Im taking this as a promise ring" and he just said "Ok". Basically he was engaged to another girl during our marriage. This girl also happens to be his best friend,so they have history. I know this is strange but i told him that we are seperated and that i think he needs to go back out with her, he needs to do this for closure and to make sure or to just see if they really have somthing special, am i making a mistake?

2007-07-31 04:16:00 · 26 answers · asked by Elise G 1

site? What would you do?

2007-07-31 04:08:42 · 32 answers · asked by Cali Mom 2

He bought me flowers and got me chocolates and everything he was flirting with me and well he asked me out on a date and I was like we just met and he was all ya but I feel like I already know you I said awwwwwwwww then I said maybe I will think about going with you he gave me his number and his email address and I gave him mine he has 1 kid named Grace and I have 9 kids (no time to name)but he just idk I think I like him he like just is so sweet and I feel like a kid again with a brand new crush teelling my best friends so what do you think should I go?

2007-07-31 04:07:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 04:05:05 · 22 answers · asked by L 4

My wife loves to flirt with other men, I have no problem with her talking and laughing with them. But she insisted on giving them a hug, it started with a just a few but got a whole lot bigger. It got to the point where when she walked into a bar we go to the men would look at her and get ready for it. And when we left she would do the same to say good bye. I spat the dummy and told her what I thought. She has stopped thank goodness but says she still misses it. What makes a woman want to hug nearly every man she sees?

2007-07-31 04:04:42 · 13 answers · asked by Hypnotoad 2

...man, shes making me sick!

And she stinks too!

Or is it time to upgrade to a 'newer model'???

2007-07-31 04:01:01 · 40 answers · asked by Anyone Know? 2

Katie I want a divorce and I was like WHAT!!!Why would he want to get a divorce I mean nothing is wrong in our lives we were perfectly fine.I just don't understand I mean last year when we were on our 9th honeymoon he said he wanted to stay with me for the rest of his life so what happen why not anymore?

2007-07-31 03:58:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to get counseling but cannot afford to through my insurance. I live in the LA area.

2007-07-31 03:57:44 · 6 answers · asked by give_me_somedat 1

Laws are only for common citizen , nonbailable is only for common citizen. Why Renuka Chowdary who fought for Pooja case is not fighting to arrest Arjun Singh who has 498a complaint. 498a is nonbailable only for Common people?

Where had been Ms.Renuka's reasonable comment when every day many a innocent males are battered and thereatened by their wicked wives to bring false 498A and DPA only to meet up their filmsy reasons?

http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=90264

2007-07-31 03:54:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 03:53:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, well my husband got invited to a bachelor party from a man he works with. He does not associate with this person at all aside from work. Ok, anyway here is what the invitation says..." bring lots of change so hopefully the strippers will do some strang things!"...lol, tasteful right! Anyway, my husband says if I feel uncomfortable about him going he wont go but I did find out that most of the other men are going. Honestly I'd rather him not go, but I dont want to seem like a jealous mean wife, lol...seriously, Im not! What would you do, would you ask him not to go or tell him to go ahead? Thanks for any advice!

2007-07-31 03:52:30 · 30 answers · asked by sweetgirl 4

We play cards and ping pong, I can usually beat my wife at ping pong but let her win lots of times so she doesn't get mad. The funny thing is she never realizes. And when we play poker and we are the only ones left in a hand I often fold so she wins. I just want to keep the peace, is this right or should I go ahead and beat her.

2007-07-31 03:33:35 · 36 answers · asked by PokerPlayer 2

will it be ok if i say that i feel sexually excited by looking at women, but it doesn't mean i want to emotionally be close to them?

2007-07-31 03:33:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 03:31:02 · 1 answers · asked by helloitsnatty 1

2007-07-31 03:27:40 · 19 answers · asked by sandy 1

I am completely lost - tonight my husband told me over the phone that he would just like to be friends and not in a relationship anymore - he wants to live at our house and have me still work in our business but other than that lead seperate lives and just remain friends - I on the other hand feel crushed and very alone.

Im completely lost as nobody in my family is divorced or even seperated I dont know how I should be feeling right now - I dont know but I suspect he might be seeing someone else or wants to see someone else - in the last 2 weeks he has become very distant and barely even talks to me.

We have been together for 10 years and married for 7 years.

We have a 4 year old daughter I dont know how to tell her whats going on especially when I dont know myself and have never seen this situation in my family before.

Is it fair that he tells me he wants to be friends but still live and work with me?

Can anyone give me advice as to what to do? What steps should I take?

2007-07-31 03:21:43 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Kazz♥ 6