site? What would you do?
2007-07-31 04:08:42 · 32 answers · asked by Cali Mom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's NOT cheating unless he has had sex. Just talk is not cheating! It's rude and stupid and heartless, but it's not "cheating".
But you have every right to be totally angry and suspicious. Confront him, and if you're not satisfied with his explanation, throw the bum out!
2007-07-31 04:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are on internet dating sites, then that is considered cheating. They are going somewhere else for what they think they are lacking at home. This is cheating and it is not right. I would talk to him and ask him why he was on the site. Tell him I think of that as cheating bc he is going somewhere else for relationships...it is not different than him asking a woman out on a date. Then I would tell him the next time I see it on the computer, then we are over and he can have what he wants...the ones on the site.
2007-07-31 04:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. Men don't always place cheating as a term unless there was something physical involved. I had a girlfriend I was in a very serious relationship with. I cheated online. She found out and was devestated. We tried to work it out but its very painful and we broke up. If hes doing something painful to you that involves other women in any form, its cheating. Talk to him and let him know you consider it cheating, if he doesn't agree then you put a profile on there so when he searches he will find it. I bet he will change his mind about whether its cheating or not.
2007-07-31 04:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. I've been going through the same thing since before I even got married. Bought a PC never thought I would need and there's porn and all kind's of dating site's on it. Husband want's me to mind my own buisness. What he doesn't realize is, it is MY buisness. Same for you too. You have every God given right, and legal for that matter to know if he is cheating. Dating site's are for a PURPOSE, to get a result of action. Not just fantasy. I need to listen to myself. I am new in Co. Know no one. Need someone to talk to . Interested?And, what would I do? I'm too afraid yet to do what I should, get out. Don't make enough money yet to be on my own.
2007-07-31 04:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course thats cheating! I would play a little trick on him. I would sign up too and then start flirting with him under a false name and say your gorgeous and tell him your so beautiful and post a picture of like a model or something and then tell him to meet you at a fancy resteraunt and then let him show up first then go to the table and he will be like what are you doing here? and you'll be like I'm your date. And then you can start yelling and hitting him dragging by the ear etc. don't be afraid to do it. Just put a picture of a supermodel like this one
:http://www.thewigs.com/items/Zury/hr-supermodel_m.jpg
or this one: http://delivery.viewimages.com/xv/57653969.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=17A4AD9FDB9CF193F669B259AB992A045FF95B82C0A0A1512EB3B15BB2ADE336
or this one:
http://images.usatoday.com/life/_photos/2006/09/20/petra.jpg
do it! I like the third one the best. Use exotic names like Petra Nemcova that is the name of the second model.
2007-07-31 04:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider cheating doing something you wouldn't do in the presence of your spouse / signifigant other. It's personal; if you feel betrayed or cheated, then tell them and try to work through it or break up. Personally, I would be rather offended and consider it, at least, an attempt to cheat. I wouldn't put up with it.
2007-07-31 04:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by smallcola642 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pursuing anybody else other than you is considering cheating in my mind. Physical cheating is not the only form of cheating. I could confront them and talk to them about it. If they come clean then I would give them another chance, but I would not be blind to the fact that they may do it again.
2007-07-31 04:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing something that if your spouse found out they would be mad...then yea...it's cheating. I mean..why else would he be on a dating site???? You need to go on-line and find a good "spy-ware" that records where someone goes and what they are saying key-stroke by key-stroke. It's undetectable to anyone but the person who installs it. It's better to be safe than sorry. I wish you luck!
2007-07-31 04:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men mess around on dating sites for "cyber-activities" but have no intentions of actually meeting anyone in person. cheating is determined by the couple. some swinger couples call their "activities" being faithful, other couples call talking to another girl online cheating. let him know what you feel the lines should be.
2007-07-31 04:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totallly kills all the trust you had. I can tell. Ask him why he was on that site. Just keep an eye open. If he denies it, keep track of the history on the computer. (Unless he deletes it) but if he is a good husband, he will tell the truth. Only you can decide where to go from there.
2007-07-31 04:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Strider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋