He bought me flowers and got me chocolates and everything he was flirting with me and well he asked me out on a date and I was like we just met and he was all ya but I feel like I already know you I said awwwwwwwww then I said maybe I will think about going with you he gave me his number and his email address and I gave him mine he has 1 kid named Grace and I have 9 kids (no time to name)but he just idk I think I like him he like just is so sweet and I feel like a kid again with a brand new crush teelling my best friends so what do you think should I go?
2007-07-31 04:07:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and by the way it isn't official yet I just want to go out with this guy to make my ex-husband(not officail)JEALOUS!!!!!!!!
2007-07-31 04:16:47 · update #1
If your a guy JOSH then how do you have a husband? maybe your not in the US but you cant get married and that's nasty god made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve
2007-07-31 05:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop this.
Get the divorce and keep the other guys away until it is FINAL.
If this guy is so sweet and nice he will wait.
You have more than a few issues top deal with without introducing another man right now.
How nice for your husband for you to deliver the reason for the divorce. I can hear his lawyer now. " His bed was not even cold and she was out with another guy!". It does not make you sound like such the aggrieved party does it?
You do understand that having some guy waiting in the wings and so readily available to send flowers indicates that your husband may have a very good reason for wanting to get away. Is it true that you have no idea why he would announce out of the blue "I want a divorce". You seem very anxious to move on.
My other comment is that you seem very preoccupied with your reproductive system. Are you really that proud that your 16 year old daughter is going to make you a grandmother?
Whats up with that?
2007-07-31 04:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not experience undesirable in regards to the comments which criticize your mindset as a spouse...there is not something incorrect with checking up on his navman (this is quite a good thought to envision if he's mendacity approximately his places). Coming from a guy, i be conscious of maximum persons could be liars and cheaters on occasion. You as a spouse have a ideal to seek for evidence or clues which furnish you greater archives. no one has a proper marriage, and no guy is proper however the whole factor of marriage is once you detect somebody you quite can placed up with and make it artwork to a first rate quantity. i will furnish 2 innovations: A) tell him you're over it and have self belief him so he thinks he's in the sparkling, and then discretely snoop around to verify if something suspicious comes up B) look him in the attention and ask him how he might experience if he got here across a condom wrapper on your automobile after a previous due night and than talk it out for as long because it takes. make optimistic he looks you in the attention and says of course without hesitation that he never had intercourse with all and sundry else that night and it became an common fake impression. i think of your concept of explosive intercourse defence has some validity. maximum adult men who've an affair are actually not overjoyed with their marriage, in particular because of the fact they locate no love or sexual pastime of their spouse anymore. If he became waiting to supply some thing like that then of course this isnt the case. it would additionally be plausible that a chum of his perhaps used his automobile to have intercourse - this occurs plenty between adult men. He probably merely doesnt want to alter his excuse now because of the fact it would look quite undesirable and suspicious.
2016-10-01 02:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a "rebound" relationship. Be careful
you might need some time to regroup after a divorce. Give yourself some time to get used to being a single mom. Your kids should be the most important thing in your life.
2007-07-31 04:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just got a divorce LAST NIGHT, you may just want to think about your 9 kids instead of yourself right now!! Or mabye you could have another kid and get another divorce....What the hel*, are you kidding me, way to let the dust settle!!!!!!!!
2007-07-31 04:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just post something about your husband wanting a divorce? How in the world is he your ex-husband already?
2007-07-31 04:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to park your *** at home and get over your husband. Wanting to make your soon to be ex jealous is very very childish. Grow up!
2007-07-31 04:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dani&Morgan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
divorce last night? are you over it? or are you rebounding on the first guy to look at you?
2007-07-31 04:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by sarcastic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your angry, you'll probably do anything right now just to mess with him. let it pass over and calm your emotions before you do something drastic or something you'll regret.
2007-07-31 04:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by the_blue_eyed_papi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trolling, trolling, trolling.
2007-07-31 04:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋