well, my husband and I had quite a few arguments about him having female friends that he doesn't want me to meet to whom he makes regular phone calls.I do not think that he is cheating on me but he is hideing his phone from me and when I found the phone yesterday and open text msg. i found a picture of a girl naked with a title: ATT Jeff.
So I wonder when is it ok to send a friend a picture of yourself naked?I have a hard time asking him for we always have huge arguments where he says he doesn't cheat on me and they are just friends.What do you think?
2007-07-31 05:02:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is never OK to send a photo of yourself naked, as it opens the door to huge amounts of problems.
i was at a party where i went into the guy's room (he had a bichin' CD to paly for special friends.)
On the dresser was a naked picture of his girlfriend, and she was very busty. As we are drooling over it, she comes into the room, and we all stare at her intently.
She comes over to see this naked picture. Taking it away, she chases us out and proceeds to have a major blow-up argument over it
2007-07-31 05:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being smart so what the guy says shouldn't affect you in any way. You're standing your ground and if he can't respect that, then this guy is NOT for you. Threats? I don't think so. Threats in a relationship is a red flag. This guy just wants a sexual relationship. He's not taking your discomfort into consideration and he's just being selfish. Forcing you to do something like sending nude pics is just wrong. I think you should just try telling him that you do not feel comfortable sending nude pics because of what he did before. Good luck Oh and don't fall for that "Talk to me if you love me" bs. And if he cheated on you and has broken up with you, he's not taking you seriously. Just break it off. Emotionally manipulating someone could cause you damage
2016-05-18 23:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by natasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay to send a naked photo to someone you know is in a relationship. He may not be physically cheating, but it sure sounds like he's doing it via phone.
Lay the cards out on the table and make it clear the behavior he's hiding needs to stop or he'll be a single guy. If he wasn't doing anything unkewl, there would be no reason to hide it.
2007-07-31 05:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a warm and caring person, and I hope this does not hurt your feelings. You "do not" want to know the truth! If you really did, you would take the time and find out what is going on here. When a spouse hides a phone, and then you see naked pictures...well...It's a "real" sign that there is cheating going on, and you are the fool to even think it is not. Stand up for yourself and your beliefs and "catch" him. When he is caught be ready for your exit. If you have any pride, just walk and do not look back. There are many single men like myself that appreciate a warm and loving woman, and we have better sense then to walk on you and then lie to you like you are just another dumb female. Good luck and I hope this helps.
2007-07-31 05:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl please....Hiding his phone is a clue that them "Friends" are not just friends. Open your eyes wide you hear me!!! It's never okay for you husband to have girls that are friends (especially that doesn't want to meet you) send him naked pictures. Your a good wife because i would have make sure I called and paid all them hussies visits. Then I would slap the dog sh*t out of my husband...then tell him that if I find out that it happened again then it's over. Slowly but surely he is digging his own grave.
2007-07-31 05:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a loser! It should never be ok to send naked pics of yourself to someone else of the opposite sex when you are married. Your husband most likely is hiding more than his phone from you girl. His behavior is inappropriate and unbecoming of a married man. He is cheating on you if he conversing with these women about his feelings. It is called an emotional affair. It doesn't have to be physical to be considered an affair.
2007-07-31 05:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh ... no FRIENDS would ever get a naked picture of me (or even a b/f, but that is just me).
He is lying, he will and probably does cheat, and if you think it is ok for him to hide his phone and probably emails and other things from you, you are ASKING to be cheated on and your eyes are firmly shut to the truth.
2007-07-31 05:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Random_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do his guy friends send him naked pictures of themselves also. Your husband might not be having a physical relationship with this girl friend, but he definitely is having an emotional relationship with her. In his sick mind because he is not sleeping with her he thinks he is not cheating. But emotional cheating is equally bad. He is probably having phone sex with her, exchanging sexual emails and text messages. So yes he is cheating on you.
2007-07-31 05:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NEVER okay for a "friend" to send a married man a pic of her naked. I think you really need some time to think on rather or not you want to be with someone that will disrespect you that much : )
2007-07-31 05:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think he should not be talking to females friends on the phone and they should not be sending him any pictures of them self naked or not. (you think he sent a naked one of him to them? I do. And I think he asked for the naked picture)
2007-07-31 05:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋