will it be ok if i say that i feel sexually excited by looking at women, but it doesn't mean i want to emotionally be close to them?
2007-07-31 03:33:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmm well i would think your normal....but then she should reply....just dont act on it
2007-07-31 03:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends in what respect he is saying it. If he is saying it because you have a problem with him looking at other women then I would say it would be a perfectly natural response. If he just said it the way you put it for no apparent reason then it is a bit of an odd thing for him to feel he had to say to you. I'm tipping it's probably the former, and your husband is a perfectly normal red blooded male but you have a problem with him looking at other women because you see them as some kind of competition. You need to stop being so self obsessed.
2007-07-31 10:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your woman is secure with you, then you will just remind her that you are not on the down low and that your not gay. But if she is a little insecure about you two then she might look at you like your on drugs and open up a can of wip ***. be careful about what you tell ALL women, we are sensitive and know that you dont have to tell her everything that makes you excited, some comments are ok to keep to yourself, ok? but make sure that when you do get excited that she is the one and only one that put it back down.
2007-07-31 10:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Elise G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah baby i imagine you being brad pitt all the time. Lol Tell him thanks for the 411 and tell him how you feel. I think you need to know more is this a casual glance and bang or is it like fanticzing and there is an problem with how he sees u? Try role play in the bet room and toys to keep the excitement factor going. Go to Xrated play store and pick a toy to try on one another he probally just needs a little intrigue.
2007-07-31 10:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are certain lies you tell your wife when prompted too:
"No, honey those pants don't make you look fat at all."
"Of course I like clothes shopping with you, what's important to you is important to me."
"I have NEVER fantasized about a threesome, you are all I ever need."
"This meatloaf is the best!"
There are certain lies you tell your wife by never saying them. Can you honestly imagine any possibility of a positive response from your wife?
Under the choice of 'good idea' or 'bad idea' this one is pretty easy.
2007-07-31 11:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It is your fantasy. Probably you are after every beautiful woman. You are basically saying - hey honey, there are so many desirable women out there, I would like to sleep with them, is that ok with you. Or she could think you want to cheat on her. Thats wrong.
2007-07-31 10:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RULE #1: You can look as long as you don't TOUCH!
I will look at a sexy man if he walked past me or something, but looking is not the same as lusting. I only want my husband.
If there is trust in the marriage, looking is just that, looking!
If it's a lusting matter, then you may have a problem.
good luck
2007-07-31 10:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are really stupid. I'm sure your wife feels the same way when she looks at other men - but just keeps that to herself. Bet you didn't know we women have the same thoughts!
2007-07-31 10:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women are beautiful and alot of men feel that way. But its just a look and then their gone. Any man who doesn't admit to that is lying, props to your hubby.
2007-07-31 10:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Maria 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kepp looking at them , then bring that excitement back home to your wife
2007-07-31 10:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by nique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it means he wants to be physically close to them, huh?
2007-07-31 10:36:18 · answer #11 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋