Marriage & Divorce - 31 July 2007

we have been talking alot about beeing together for the rest of our lives. and we both feel we r perfect for each other. what age would be good to get married???

2007-07-31 08:53:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

How old are you now and how old was you when you lost your virginity..I am a 38 yr old woman never married and i was 13 when i lost my virginity..I have been with about 40 men and i never had an std or unwanted pregnancy..My best friend says i have been with way to many men but i dont think so cause like i told her most men have been with more women then i have been with men.

2007-07-31 08:53:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont think the man or the woman should get money to live off of cuz they did not hold a job or have no job skills!!!

the man should not have to take care of her after the marriage is over

2007-07-31 08:52:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-31 08:45:13 · 7 answers · asked by nikie 1

Ladies, I have a question about woman and sex. I have been married to my wife, who is older than me by a few years for about four years. Our sex life was incredible at first then it all but stopped. We would have sex 5 to 6 times a week and now maybe once a week if I am luckly. I still treat her well I believe. We both work and I make her breakfast everyday and coffee too. I give her hugs and kisses several times a day and spend time with her one on one. I even give breakfast in bed every Sunday. I tried talking to her but she tells me that it makes her feel guilty if I say anything about sex. So what am I doing wrong..and I have not gotten fat nor do I ignore her needs..So where too from here..any ideas?

2007-07-31 08:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by Craig B 2

If you think about it there is a 60% chance the marriage will end in divorce. Most likely your wife with get half plus the kids, house, alimony, child support and your stuck trying to figure out how to eat! That's a heck of a gamble for any man to take.

2007-07-31 08:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by thomas c 2

would it count when i come back to LA and not get in trouble cause his underage?//

2007-07-31 08:39:06 · 22 answers · asked by Girl 2

she told me that she did not like the things that i got for them, and took them back. and she got them things she wanted

this money i spent did not come from there support it came from my pocket!!!

2007-07-31 08:36:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why can't women accept that men have different "needs" than they do? Women's lib and Oprah / etc... has done a great deal to enlighten men as to how we need to emotionally connect with our s/o or spouse. That the emotional leads to the physical for women.

Why can't women accept that men are the opposite? All the "He can't look at other women, he shouldn't need porn, but then I shouldn't have to put out for him just because he wants it." crap is getting really, really old.

Women don't want their man to look around (or worse yet cheat), but they don't take care of him at home. Men take more rejection from their wives then they ever put up with on the singles scene.

Women, you want a happy faithful man that will do ANYTHING for you, then put out - regularly and with enthusiam !! He'll be putty in your hands.

BOTTOM LINE - I've never known a man to cheat if his wife or s/o gives him physical attention everyday. A quickie, a helping hand, a BJ, whatever. Feed the need !!

2007-07-31 08:29:44 · 22 answers · asked by aa889d 5

It seems like everyone is a whore anymore, forget waiting for the 3rd date people don't even need a date to put out. It used to be guys are more promiscious but now girls are just as bad. What's going on, are we still using those "sharing" rules we used in kindergarden but just for sharing our diseases and mojo now? Strange....

2007-07-31 08:19:32 · 21 answers · asked by freespiritede1986 2

I have taken back both of my children from my wife after we have been seperated for 6 months. During this time, she has met someone without us having any divorce paperwork, she was the one that left in the first place. Her reason was she could not take any more of the "problems" that we were having. I took my children back because she was just drinking and her "relationship "was not at all healthy. The guy just had his only problems to handle but they both don't realize that. I have told my "wife" that I would like for us to be a family again. I know she has an alcohol problem and she needs to do alot of soul searching for herself. I feel I need to do this because I don't want my children to see all that ugly stuff about alcohol. We have been married for 16 years and I just recently realized about Chemical Dependency and beginning to read more about it.I really do love her a lot and willing to look past all the nastiness we had in our marriage, but the root problem has to be uncovered.

2007-07-31 08:09:46 · 5 answers · asked by b dude 2

been together for 7yrs. i have 3 kids & he has 2 from our previous marriages. i found out 3yrs ago he has a child he wants nothing to do with & nobody knows about. she is 6yrs. he was 30yrs and she was 18yrs. this makes me ill. still i'm with him. he has physically abused me since we've been together. (broken hand, bruised kidneys, etc.)& never in front of kids i never reported it, too ashamed. he's always so sorry after. this where i get confused, abuse is getting a little farther apart. he doesn't belittle me, or call me bad names like i hear in other stories. he tells me how much he loves me & how beautiful i am all the time but he lies constantly & hurts me & recently made me have an abortion, i'm a wreck over it. every1 in town, his family & friends think he's a great, charming, fun guy but they don't know the real him. they tell me i'm so lucky. my friends & family see the real him. he's mean to them too. i don't know y i stay? y is it so hard 2 leave him? shouldn't i leave?

2007-07-31 08:06:22 · 24 answers · asked by little "t" n 3 1

My husband has been wanting me to go to see a dr and get my yearly done to check for ovarian cancer our insurance pays 100% of the visit but I just dont feel comfortable w/ drs looking @ me. My first visit was when I was 20 and when I was 22 only b/c I was pregnant If not for that i wouldnt of ever went. And when I had it done both times I was so uncomfortable and was shaking I hated it. What are my chances? Know of anyone who was diagnosed @ 27 years of age?

2007-07-31 07:59:48 · 7 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1

does it bother all men! he has to change the channel or watches horrified as they sample how to insert or how leak proof it is.
any guys think they shouldn't advertise on tv.

2007-07-31 07:57:59 · 4 answers · asked by girl 3

most of the guys i'd expect most women to think are hot are in their teens and early 20s. but most women say that they are more into guys in their late 20s and 30s.

do i have the wrong idea of what types of looks women find sexy? i mean, would you say you find more hot guys between 16-20 or between 25-30? i'm talking about initial attraction, not long term.

TELL ME YOUR AGE WITH YOUR ANSWER. that is important.

2007-07-31 07:51:07 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2

I found a response to a personal add, he put his age and he needs "serviced", workdays work best. first he said a computer virus made that email, then he said he thought i was cheating so he was looking for ads that i possibly wrote! he must think i am really dumb! i have caught him with naked pics of himself on his computer, he said it was a joke for me! lol okay, he must think i am dumb and denies anything that would hurt me. i cannot trust him anymore, i am torn because we have a one year old son. any advice? also, i am a very beautiful woman who does everything for him, and we seemed happy together. this is a total shock to me.....

2007-07-31 07:33:33 · 29 answers · asked by Britney O 1

My husband is a wonderful man who has never raised a hand to me or any of my children. However he don't know how to stay home. He is a carnival worker (he doesn't do drugs, drink, or play around on me) & he won't give up the life to be a full time husbasnd. The closest he will come to staying home with us is in the winter, when he's laid off or if he can find a full time trucking job ( witch means 12 days out and 2 days home). But I want more. The other part of my broblem is my ex-boyfriend (whom I still love) has decided he don't like what the hubby is doing to me and he has decided he wants to be my (new) hubby. He is willing to quit his job move half a state away from his kids just to be with me. He knows he can get his old job back, so the job part wouldn't be a problem. He wants to be home every night with me and the kids. I love the hell out of his kids and my kids love him, too. Problem, I am in love with two men and don't have a clue what to do about it. Help!!!!

2007-07-31 07:15:22 · 14 answers · asked by kooreilly 1

I have called and emailed her almost every month for 5 years. She is now 19 and entering her 2nd year at a private college. She changed her last name to her mother's name when she was 18. By law, I was to pay around $4000 a school year for college. Since the decree stated that I would not have to pay if she publicly disowned me {name change} or refused to aknoledge me, they never came after me for money. Now, after calling her 6 times while she is home from school and not returned my calls, she had the nerve to email my wife and ask what happened to her savings account we had with her. The money was from my side of the famiy and my wifes from birthdays. I know it is her money but she has also not spoken to any of my or my wifes family in 5 years. This includes my mom. DO you think I should give her the money? The account only had $1077 in it in which I put $500 in on my own. I just feel that she could call me and ask for it and not email { a very generic email} and ask me for it.

2007-07-31 07:09:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

the bad ones get all the breaks?

2007-07-31 07:01:42 · 12 answers · asked by sxynkki 2

for number 2? I found lap tops, cellular phones in the bathroom after my husband stay in there for hours. My dad and brother does the samething too

2007-07-31 07:00:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

sex from him, I could do it 10 times a day if he could keep up. I dont want sex with anyone, but this is so new for me becuase I have had 2 other serious long term relationships and I never wanted sex as much with them exes. But with this guy it is different, Im like addicted. We do it about 1 or 2 times a day when he is working and on the weekend when he isnt sometimes up to 3 times a day on a good day, one time on a typical day. He says we do it alot, I think not enough...he is also 10 years older than me, im 27, he is 37.

2007-07-31 06:55:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to a web site, www.nomarriage.com..........think more women need to check that site out. Women need to start understanding men and the way we are instead of being so selfish. I was married once and I don't think i'll ever do it again!

2007-07-31 06:51:08 · 17 answers · asked by thomas c 2

I still contribute to the bills though (I have some money in the bank) I figured I would take a break from working to figure out somethings first (Im clinically depressed, manic depression) I ended a relationship with my ex about 6 months ago and and have a child from that relationship, and then I meet this new guy, we click and now we live together, everything is pretty awesome except for the fact that my new guy gets annoyed that I dont go t work every morning like he does, yet I still help with rent and food...I will go back I just dotn want to yet and I dont exactly have to...how can I tell him to chill out about this?

2007-07-31 06:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

pee in the sink if you really have to go and have already been waiting 20 minutes for your husband to get out of the bathroom?

YES I CLEANED THE SINK OUT.

2007-07-31 06:45:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24 yrs old and married to my husband who is 28 yrs old for 3 yrs.Its not working out too much has happened and he cheated on me more than once.I have a daughter from a prior relationship who is 4 yrs old who i want to make things easy on her as possible.I spoke to my soon to be ex.husband who has been working in london these last 3 months and we both agreed to make things as civil as possible.He mentioned the liquidation of all marital assets and splitting everything 50/50 as a possibilty?Is this a good idea?

2007-07-31 06:40:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was reading a question here this morning and was surprised a little by a few ladies reaction. I was married once for eight years and lost my best friend and wife to an illness. She was warm and fun-loving as it gets, always smiling and tender, and also knew how to let her hair down..lol She did go out of her way for me and in many ways was submissive to me and it was wonderful. Unlike "some" men, I did not abuse this gift that she gave me. Example: If there was something we had to make a decision on and we could not agree, she always left it up to me, and I always asked for her input. She made dinner five nights a week and the other two nights I took her where she wanted to go. Simply put...I was the man of my house and when I said this is how it will be...well...it was done. I treated her like a princess at home and "always" in public. I never stared at other women in her presence, and always opened her door...etc. Some women say they have a problem being this way on here, do you??

2007-07-31 06:35:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was diagnosed with PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) about 8 years ago. I am 30 years old now. PCOS does cause weight gain, hormonal imbalance and insulin resistance. I assume that I have had it for quite some time because I really began to gain weight when I turned 18. But I noticed it was really getting out of hand when I turned 21 or so. I am 5'2" and weigh about 198 pounds. The weight is most noticeable in my face, breasts and stomach, although I have always had large breasts. I do not exercise at all and my diet consists of a lot of sugar (candy like lifesavers, starburst, skittles, cotton candy, etc.). I am addicted to sugar. I drink lots of kool-aid and have started a soda habit now. I honestly don't eat a lot of food. I eat twice a day but a lot of times I am not hungry for dinner, I just eat because my husband will make a big deal about me skipping a meal. He says that there is no way I couldn't be hungry after only eating lunch for the day. But it's true ...

2007-07-31 06:30:18 · 43 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Currently we have seperate checking accounts. I seems like everything is either his or mine. We bought my parents house and have been living there for 5 years, he considers it mine not his. Does anyone have any suggestions on what to do or do you think there is another issue that cause him to think this way.

2007-07-31 06:26:08 · 29 answers · asked by srs_stephanie 2

If you are a very committed Christian, and the person you want to be with is really a nominal/newly interested believer ... it is a very bad idea to be satisfied with that if God is incredibly integrally important to you? Does anyone have negative or positive experiences with that? Could you offer mature, realistic advice?

2007-07-31 06:14:01 · 15 answers · asked by Random_Girl 3

what if he is interested in weird stuff...like a 3sum...swinging...watching me with another girl? is that normal if the guy was a virgin...? we have been together 13 years... and we are ok but he is a very sexual person...how do i keep him happy without involving other people..and will it ever be enough? i love him sooo much but refuse to do the things he wants to do..i need a way around it... please help

2007-07-31 06:05:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous