How old are you now and how old was you when you lost your virginity..I am a 38 yr old woman never married and i was 13 when i lost my virginity..I have been with about 40 men and i never had an std or unwanted pregnancy..My best friend says i have been with way to many men but i dont think so cause like i told her most men have been with more women then i have been with men.
2007-07-31 08:53:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not a lie ron.
2007-07-31 09:03:26 · update #1
Heart my dad has nothing to do with this..I just have a very high sex drive.
2007-07-31 09:28:29 · update #2
Well if you've never contracted an STD, or gotten pregnant then you know how to protect yourself. If you want to celebrate your sexuality, then go for it.
I was 19 when I lost my virginity, and have only been with 2 men. I wish I could take a walk in your shoes for awhile.
2007-07-31 09:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 39. I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I have been with less men than that.
You need to know why you have been with that many men. My guess is because either your dad didn't give you enough attention or he jus let you do whatever you wanted. More or less you are a lost person.
I am not sure what your question is suppose to say other than men sleep around more than us females.
If you are single and looking, try healing from your pass and more on to loving yourself and let go of your pass. Forgive those who has hurt you and when or if you need to talk about the past, don't bring it up. And if he ask, tell him you were lost and now you are found.
The best to you in whatever have going for you.
2007-07-31 16:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by heartssnarrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but when you meet that speciall one what if he knows a man that you have been with **will he still think that you are a special women***most men that love and repect a special women in thife do not want a women who had many men. It is a good chance that one day you may run across one of those men you had a long time ago and he will remember what type of women you were and make a comment about you. You can guess if that man you were with decides to get married he will not want that type of women who gets a round with many lovers or friends - He wants his women not to have had many men . His women with be the mother of his children ***he doen't want some child one day say my daddy had your mom **i heard she had a lot of men ***that's too bad*** you see in the bible if you believe in the bible you reap what you sow****no one gets away with anything in life. You don't have to believe in the bible either for that to come to pass either ***so you' re hurting yourself. Instead start with a fresh start be a women who is committed to one realtionship until it is over or you get married. Love yourself. You were made a precious women. Not for men to get a free you know what ****and say thanks for a good time** a freebie ***and they keep going for the next easy piece. Men are really very funny about the women they care about ***but the one they can get for a good time they will***they don't care. Guess what you need to care. Love yourself. You are wonderfully made. The next day in life is a new start. Don't misuse your emotions or body. Let a man respect and fight for your attention. take you out to dinner. Call you and open the door for you . Remember you are special. Take a new outlook on life today ***you can do it **Love your self girl***YOU DESERVE MORE THEN WHAT THOSE guys were giving you. The man i am with i gave him a hard time . sure he could go to any girl and get it ***my ****you know what ****was no different than any body elses ***but i took my time ****played hard to get***were are married now. I just was not interested in sampling every man that spoke to me****Love yourself girl****Treat yourself special***next time you are out start asking men if 40 different men is too many men to be with for one women Guess WHAT THEY WILL SAY***may you start tomorrow afresh and a new***you can do it
2007-07-31 16:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 29. I was 18 when I lost my virginity and it was on my wedding night. I couldn't imagine being with another man. To me, 40 seems like a lot, but whatever makes you happy!!!
2007-07-31 16:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is yours, don't let the moralists tell you different. Women should enjoy as many men as they like, as along they are not sexually exploited. Dont feel embarassed to how youve lived your life. Forty in 25 years is less than two new people each year.
The world is yours. Contact me I you wish to continue this discussion.
2007-07-31 16:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems you average would be 1.6 men per year,
don't see the problem there. you lost your virginity early, shame shame, but i lost mine at 16 and i'm 46 and don't know the count of how many over the years, but i am now married and am a one man woman.
tell your friend she's entitile to her opinion but why did you mention it in the first place to her?
2007-07-31 16:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by penny c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only bin with one man my husband and that was after we were married. 1 year ago i was 18. he had only bin with one other person his ex-wife makeing that 2 she on the other had couldn't keep her legs closed and slept around on him so he divorced her. so not every guys sleeps around either
2007-07-31 17:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just a number. You are a big girl so you can sleep with whoever you want and not worry about what your GF thinks.
2007-07-31 15:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by luckyone_27105 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can only be jealous. Women are in control.
2007-07-31 16:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did ya do that 40 at one time??
2007-07-31 16:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by reddbbird92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋