what would be his traits...and his personality? what would he do for you? I ask because I'm a single guy and I aspire to be a model husband to my wife someday. Thanks for your help.
2007-07-31 14:19:32 · 20 answers · asked by Marky Marc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1.well, he's gotta be taller than me. which many people are.
2. funny, really funny. not gross jokes or dumb pick up lines, but just funny
3. a good friend. he'd have 2 listen 2 all my freakin' problems without complaining.
4. oh ya, he's gotta be cute!
good luck!
2007-07-31 14:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by sofa king we tod did 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good husband is one who continues to be a good husband long after he is married. A good husband will contribute to making his marriage work - instead of thinking it is the wife's job to do all the work of keeping the love alive in the marriage.
A good husband helps out around the house, picks up after himself and doesn't expect his wife to be his maid.
A good husband will help do yard work and help fix his wife's car if it needs it.
A good husband is a good provider and is goal oriented. He will have an education or know how to do a trade and be a hard worker.
A good husband is also a good father - he will take care of his children as if they were his own - and not shove the responsibility of them all on his wife and other care givers. He will teach his children well and play with them and look out for them. He will change diapers and give his wife a break when he gets home from work.
A husband has a very important role in a marriage and family structure. The husband is the foundation it can all be built upon - he needs to be a mature man and not a childish boy who only thinks of pleasing himself. It is not something to enter into lightly.
2007-07-31 14:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me he would be a romantic guy kind of old fashioned you know the Knight in Shining armour kind. Opening the door for you pulling out your chair when you are at a restaurant Taking your jacket for you and putting it on when you leave..He would know who you are down deep inside and know you in such a way that you won't have to explain to him all the time what you need he will just know...He will always tell you that he loves you alot and communicate with you about everything He will also love sharing his dreams and hopes for the future and he will be good in finance matters. He will love your cooking and also give you a few tips because he will love to cook too. He will help you around the house and even sometimes wear your apron just to be funny. He will have a sense of humor and will be sensitive to your every need He will surprise you with special gifts like rose petals on your bed or maybe a chocolate kiss on your pillow...He will text you from work and tell you he misses you He will send you flowers and remember all those special times like the first time you met and your birthday and anniversary and not just get you a simple present but maybe something to remind you of when and where you met.He will be your friend and your lover and your confidant...
2007-07-31 14:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by sonja z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gentlemen. Don't ever smother her too much affection, phone calls, gifts. That might send the wrong message like, stalking? Women don't take to well to smothering. Always hold the door open, even on a car. Pull out a chair for her when you sit down and eat. Remember that chivalry is not dead. Give her space, let her miss you sometimes. Be polite yet sassy. Be witty and funny but don't over do it, not like Jim Carey funny. Have very good hygeine. OMG, that is probably most important. Don't douse yourself in cologne but keep your breath fresh. Most of all, I know guys like to peek but don't stare at other women when you're together. It's insulting to your woman and to be an ideal husband, you have to make her feel like she's #1.
Hope that helps
2007-07-31 14:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by ang1492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first man who posted, penis size doesn't matter at all to ME. A man cannot help how large or small it is, so why make him feel insecure about it?
Anyway... my dream husband would be a man who loved me the way I was and didn't try to compare me to other women. He'd be pretty romantic and have a great personality. He'd know when to joke around and when he needed to be serious with me.
A supportive husband is always good to have too. Someone who's always there for you and loves you... that's amazing...
But yeah... I don't ask for much. I don't care about looks or money.. all I truely want is a man with a great personality who'll treat me right... and maybe can cook for me every now and then. ;]
2007-07-31 14:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by ΘHabeas CorpusΘ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considerate, compassionate. You must make your women feel the most important person in the world and that she matters to you. A great sense of humour. Family should be important to him. Also must love animals. Don't forget to do things for the lady, even small things show you care. Looks are the least important. Don't get me wrong I wouldn't want a man that looks like a dogs behind .
2007-07-31 14:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would have a great, loving, caring, sharing personality. The fun of the party, weathly, loves to travel. The total family man. Greatest lover ever. Cute as a button and great hair. He would love me to pieces and couldn't keep his hands off me and would know just what to do to make me feel better or put me in a better mood. He would be thoughtful and full of surprises for me. He would cook, clean, especially clean behind himself and give me massages and rub my feel every night. And he would get all this in return from me, his wonderful wife.
2007-07-31 14:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hug me when I get home from work and ask how my day was. Clean up after himself. Tell me he loves me at least 3 times a day. Spend time with our children (family comes before work.) Be romantic, hard-working, caring, and respect me and like the other answerer said don't let anyone disrespect me. Do whatever he can to keep us together, as will I.
2007-07-31 14:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by kjcs_angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that guys a loser SO don't listen to him. But sweet, funny, attractive. Umm patient.Treats girls like there supposed to be treated and respects them. Doesn't try to push them to far. Knows just right thing to say and listens when shes had a really bad day or just when she talks. And I mean actually listen. Someone she can relate to and will do anything for her. Someone who doesn't put on an act to impress her but is himself and is ok with that. A shoulder to cry on and a hand to hold...nuff said
2007-07-31 14:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by xoxoxoxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive got mine, hes kind, respectful, loving, fun not only with me but with everyone. He takes good care of himself, as well as his family. He's there for his friends and mine as well. He never turns his back on me and he's very supportive of any decisions i have to make alone. He dont boast that he is the man of the house, we do everything together as a family. he dont stray, i am his best friend and he is mine.
good luck sweety
2007-07-31 16:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by Amy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋