im married for 13 years now,and i met this man named bruce,hes my chatmate,i think im falling in love with this man and he says he also falling for me.he wants to get me here in the philippines and lived together.do you think i will believed him and you think what he says are true...........is he really falling for me......
2007-08-02 17:59:04 · 12 answers · asked by reya m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Before you jump out of one relationship and into the next, you should deal with what is missing in your marriage. 13 years of marriage is alot to throw away for someone who is not a sure thing. Get off the internet, and get involved with your husband. You should be with him and not on the internet meeting guys.
2007-08-02 18:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yours is a very tricky situation...how long have you known Bruce? Does he knows that you been married for 13 years? It all depends on your answers to this one. Falling in love is easy but you gotta fall for the right reasons. Maybe you should start to tell your Bruce first about your situation and see what happens. Tell him about your kids and why you are still married for 13 years. Not all relationship is perfect but please be fair to both your loved ones and your kids and to your self. If he decided he is ok with all of this, then that is good. Ask him if you could get some time to sort your life out and on what you really want for your kids and you, if he waits then good luck. Hope to hear more from you soon
2007-08-02 18:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Shyrinne2gowithgary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think you can be in love with someone until you've been around them in real life. But it can be a great start, it's the same as if you guys had already had a few dates. My cousin met her husband online... It's not a loser-ish thing. Sooo many people are doing that nowadays, because it's just easier. You don't feel as nervous and you can let your actual personality shine through, whereas when you meet someone in a bar, you're all concerned with first impressions. Anyway, I hope he flies down, and good luck to the both of you.
2016-05-17 05:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a girl once in a chat room we got along great and there were "feelings" involved after a good while of chatting and talking on the phone i decided to take a trip and go meet her. She only lived2.5 hrs away. Well what we thought was there wasn't there at all. However i ended up dating one of her best friends that i met while i was there. In short not worth it. The grass is not greener on the other side.
2007-08-02 18:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hun would you risk your marriage for someone you have never met13 years is long time for you to be married if your husband loves you i wouldent thank of it ...unles your marriage is that aweful and even then u should wait a year before thanking about dating u need time to understand your heart and to know why the frist marriage didnt work
2007-08-02 18:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this someone you actually see in person or just on the internet??? Right now it's all fun and exciting because it's a secret!! Work on what is wrong with your marriage and if you can't work it out ! Get divorced and work on having "me" time!! Don't jump from one to the other!! Please if you don't know this guy don't jump on a plane to go meet him by yourself!! This world is crazy you just never know about people!!!
2007-08-02 18:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by MaRaNdA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married, what are you doing chatting and falling in love with some guy? Do something about your marriage. You are not probably in love with the guy, you could just be lonely. And it is very possible that he is not serious.
2007-08-02 18:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO, you are going to leave you husband of over a decade for some guy you met in a chat room?
He is probably 11 years old.
You are just a lifetime movie waiting to happen.....
How about you stick with your husband eh?
2007-08-02 18:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have kids?..Don't broke your family because of that chatmate, you don't know if who is he, stop the communication with him, forget him so that you're not regret in the end.
2007-08-02 18:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he fall for you? He doesn't really know you. He's never met you, never spent time with you, has never taken you out on a date, met your family, or anything.
2007-08-02 18:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋