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Marriage & Divorce - 2 August 2007

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there is the guy who claims he has never been in love EVER so when he met this woman who he fell hard for so he says he became over posessive over her. he claims that every man has the same way of thinking that no man can be trusted around his woman because she is very attractive. his woman is very faithfil ans she is very attractive but his jealousy to me seems unhealthy, he has accused her pastor or wanting her down to the lowest form fo guys that she would not give the time of day. my question is is this guy innocently crazy in love or is he posessive also add extra advice about how that could ruin the relationship

2007-08-02 12:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by fire sign 2

When a man saids stuff like
I like the sound of being your fiance
Thats what im here for......
Dont worry i got your back
I like you
I miss you too
whenever you go see him he said he will handle the payment
when you saw him he was very affectionate and found you to be ver attractive....
been your friend for 4 years
but has been courting you on this level since you became available again....
He told you hae has always admire you
What would you think?
Would you think he would want to pursue a relationship with you eventually?
thats he is really into you?
keep in mind you can read my previous questions to understand what im trying to say

2007-08-02 12:19:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I were engaged for a year, and married for 5. He cheated on me, and I am having a hard time staying in the marriage.We are considering separation, then divorce. My engagement ring was his grandmothers. He has not even mentioned wanting it back, we are still wearing our rings, but I feel I will be taking it off soon, should I give it back to him?

2007-08-02 12:10:10 · 46 answers · asked by dobiedawgs 2

This question is for MARRIED MEN just because i've dated two men in my life who ended up being married ..... WTF!

Yes men .. I am a bit bitter, just because I feel as if I was F* used !

If you are married .. why do you cheat? Why dont you just leave your wife if you are not happy.
One guy said bk he has kids, I can understand that so why cheat ?

Please please answer with honesty

2007-08-02 12:08:54 · 21 answers · asked by just me 1

2007-08-02 12:07:30 · 21 answers · asked by al 2

my husband and i were married for 23 years. we've came to a point where we had to break up because of his lies. he is a work aholic and a cumpulsive lier. he has been a good husband and been a good man, but he always loved his work and he lies to get what he wants. he is so good at telling lies that i always believed him, and after a while i always knew the truth and it hurts coz i never lied to him. some of his lies were stupid and nonsense. and he says that he left us because of work. he was braught up lying because of his father. he still says that he loves us but can he ever change? is it that difficult to change? i dont think i can trust him anymore. does he need therapy?

2007-08-02 12:07:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

this effects a lot more than me

2007-08-02 12:02:19 · 25 answers · asked by Busybee yep! 5

will they take money out your check

2007-08-02 12:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by tootts 1

ok i just found out my husband watches porn behind my back. he apologized i said i forgive u. but inside i am hurt and betrayed because rather than asking me to watch with him he enjoyed it when i wasn't there. i mean he would not talk abt a naked person in front of me. now i am so mad and jealous. we just had new set of channels with playboy and other porn ****. i feel like he will watch it behind my back but not when i am there. its so annoying.i am going to get mad now even if i am there and he puts it on. how can i get over it. he would be mad at me too if he secretly sees me watching nude men.we are both the same but he likes to lie and do behind my back i just don't find other men attractive since i have to picture him and have him to reach ORgasm. i think of no other man when i am in love. iits all of them or nothing. how can i get over this issue. i don;t want to hear o i shuld be glad he is not doing it. when sumone wants to see that. they prolly want to do it only if they....

2007-08-02 11:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is married he wants to leave but won't unless he can take the baby they are legally married, and he is the only one who works in the house hold. His wife is spending most of the time with her ex girl friend. What does he need to do to get his daughter with out getting in legal trouble.... Please help my brother loves his daughter and will stay if he has too but he wants to go.

2007-08-02 11:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by red 1

Title says it all.

Yes, it's morally wrong. But, I find older women irresistable. Problem is...most are married. I don't care though.

How do you know when a women will cheat on her husband with you without her "actually" saying it?

2007-08-02 11:47:19 · 26 answers · asked by Bada Bada 1

ive been with my b/f for 3 years and i love him soooo much...we have been through everything togther...well since the day i started dating him he has been in love with playing baseball and wanted to go pro one day...fast forward to 2 years later and he has been asked to go to Texas to try out for the Astros. I know how great he is and i know its a very high posibilty that he will make. im very happy for him but im also thinking about myself. we are engaged and if he made it that meens i will have to leave cali and go to texas..im very close with my family and i never wanted to leave cali but now i have to choose love or home...im so lost with what to do...i dont want to move somewere and be alone waiting for him to come home he will be gone sooo much and i wont have any friend or family for comfort...it will be me with a house and animals....it will be me watching him live his dream while all mine will be gone. i just dont know what to do..any advice

2007-08-02 11:41:57 · 51 answers · asked by lovely 3

2007-08-02 11:13:52 · 91 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf of 4 months is still hurt by his ex gf and he talks about her a lot. I am not too happy but think he is worth waiting for. We have been really close lately. I just rang his place and she is there the 2nd timt this week to talk and I feel so upset. She used him for 6 months and dumped him and has just split up with her new bf and now she is round there. I feel gutted.

He says they are friends but has been distant this week. Now I feel really stupid and used and am in complete shock. Its like she doesnt want him but doesnt want him to have anyone else. What a mess.

How in the hell can I deal with this I feel devasted especially when she started shouting at him asking who was on the phone and he said he had to go. Part of me feels like going round there to find out what is going on and the other feels like telling him to p** off. Any advice would be apprecited

2007-08-02 11:10:46 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah 3

Selfish and/or a jerk? and if he can't find you attractive then maybe you shouldn't be married, even though you get along and have one kid together?

I'm 25 years old and married to a man that doesn't find me attractive anymore, Are we both just wasting our time and selling ourself short of REALLY being happy with someone else. I'm tired of the negative effects it's having on me and my low self esteem due to being rejected and ignored.

I really would appreciate it if you would not put negative comments, I already feel like sh*t about myself as it is.

2007-08-02 11:07:46 · 33 answers · asked by imaprilhesnovember 1

please help,
im 15.

2007-08-02 11:00:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she said im the father but she is married, what should i do? i wanted to finish our relationship but now i dont know, what do you think?

2007-08-02 10:54:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Simply out of curiousity. I heard my older brother's friends joking about it, but I forgot the word and I feel like learning it (again).

2007-08-02 10:49:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband likes things orderly but this is ridiculous! Everything in our sex life is exactly the same, even the time. I've tried being a little more aggressive and being the one to instigate sex, I've tried lingerie, even hitting the gym more than usual. what do I do?

2007-08-02 10:45:37 · 16 answers · asked by amy fisher 1

first i found an earring in my husbands truck...say's it was his. he actually has been wearing this earring, but i never noticed it in her ear previously. kinda strange...long and dangly...even shinny too! today i found a pair of panties in his truck...told me they're his, he just loves how they feel. i've been watching that man like a hawk now, and he has been wearing the panties! any helpful advice here? thanks!!

2007-08-02 10:41:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

that is totally in love with you and you only and puts all of his happiness in the relationship with you. Isn't this the same type of man that holds 'marriage vows' over your head when he becomes fat, unattractive, uninspired, unseductive, and inconsiderate of the way you feel. And then when you try and divorce him, he ends up killing you and then himself?

Maybe the "player" type is the way to go. You'll get good loving and you won't have to worry about restraining orders at the end of the relationship.

2007-08-02 10:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3

I dont smoke, I dont drink, I go clubbing (maybe 2x a mth), single, and yet when I go on a date, they think I will have sex with them after 2 dates! I respect myself and dont put myself to this!!! No, I dont dress or act like sl**t, I like to give respect in order to get respect..Is that so hard to give? Just wanted to know the guys point of view = ) Ladies, you can answer too : P

PS: Did not post it in the Singles&Dating because I didnt want 13, or 14 yr old answers = ) Thanks!!!

2007-08-02 10:34:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 37 with 2 kids and divorced. I met a 17 year old girl that I really like. She rides sport bikes and we go for motorcycle rides together. I met her right after her dad recently died while riding his. She really wants to have sex and comes on to me alot. She said she is a virgin and has never had a boyfriend. She doesn't act her age at all.

2007-08-02 10:25:07 · 22 answers · asked by Joe 1

One thing that I have noticed about women is that if the women is not overweight, she is pretty. I have never seen an ugly skinny girl ever. I'm sure someone will sent me a link that proves otherwise, but I have never personally seen such a thing.

2007-08-02 09:51:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i ask my husband a question like why does he have a messager in his thngs he says he was gona take the moter out of it to use for somthing else. ok i can live with that. but now im left with where did it come from, why didnt he take it apart as soon as he had it etc. am i being a nag? i almost think it to late to ask now cause i shoulda ask detail all at once instead of dragging it to the next day.

2007-08-02 09:44:04 · 14 answers · asked by jesicka 2

It's pretty sad. Has anyone else noticed this?

2007-08-02 09:36:01 · 32 answers · asked by BeatTheGib 2

Heres a little about my story.
I am 22 years old, and my boyfriend is 23 years old. We both are originally Pakistani
And live with our parents (most Pakistani’s live with their parents until marriage – girls only move out with husbands.. and boys mostly get married and still live with their parents – that’s just the way our culture is) So we live in Canada. Me and him have a great relationship for 2 years. Before this we were friends for 4 years. During these 2 years we have not broken up even once, not even for a day. We understand each other really well and talk and meet up almost everyday. We always say we want to be together forever BUT the problem is me and him are different casts of muslim. I know it doesn’t sound like a BIG DEAL. Because we’re both muslims atleast and to us it doesn’t really matter.. but to our parents IT’S A BIG DEAL. We don’t marry in other casts usually. So most of the times we’re afraid to talk to each other about it. Because we’re both scared. On top of that his mother has been emotionally blackmailing him to marry his first cousin from Pakistan.. (I know YUCK) our parents have said it CANT HAPPEN between us etc. except his parents are worse cuz his mom has promised her brother that he will marry his daughter.. (from Pakistan) anyways Ive never even thought about breaking up with him because I love him SO much.. n he hasn’t ever said anything like that either.. I cant see myself with anyone but him. And I know it’s a sin to have sex before marriage but I even lost my virginity to him.. and I want to be his only forever.

Now the problem is that Im pregnant. (2months) He knows that I am, and has mentioned that we should go to the “doctor” and I know that because of our current situation.. he’s trying to imply. Lets get an abortion. But we don’t discuss it much. THERE IS NO WAY I AM GETTING AN ABORTION. AND NOTHING CAN CHANGE MY MIND. my parents are getting suspicious that something serious is going on.. and they found out im pregnant. When I first got pregnant.. I told my bf that what am I going to do when my parents find out.. they’ll kill me.. and he told me to tell them that we already got married.. (in court – legally) but just never told anyone about it.. so once my parents found out.. that’s what I told them.. that we are married already. (I lied) and they have told me not to come home. Unless my “husband” is with me and talks to them and they can get us married the “proper way” I haven’t told my bf YET.. cuz this JUST HAPPENED.. and im actually at work right now and gonna be done in an hour. He is also at work.. but he will be done around 11 at night. So im going to go to my friends house until then.. and then around 10:30 im going to go by his work and tell him what happened. I am SO AFRAID AND NERVOUS. I don’t know what he’ll do.. im thinking.. will he make me go back home? Would he go with me and talk to my parents? Would he back out.. and say he cant hurt his parents.. and lets get an abortion.. ? all these thoughts are going through my head. I am scared and need some HELP AND ADVICE.. sorry I know this was long.. thanks everyone

2007-08-02 09:33:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you think?
If a man offers to pay for your (plane ticket/hotel..2 times a month) after seeing you for the first time this weekend and enjoying your company, finding you to be very attractive
..we live in different states
would you think he may want to pursue a long term relationship and that he may be in love with you too?
after you tell him you in love with him and he tells you he likes you....and miss you.since the last time he seen you...would you pay for anyone who is not someone your interested in?...
did i confused you?
Basicially im trying to say is Is this man really into me the way that im into him...
ive known him for 4 years....so it goes a little bit beyond the physical thing here yall
isnt it romantic?
(reposting for more views)

we have only been on this level for 4 months im recently divorce and hes been my friend for a long time

2007-08-02 09:23:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

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