that is totally in love with you and you only and puts all of his happiness in the relationship with you. Isn't this the same type of man that holds 'marriage vows' over your head when he becomes fat, unattractive, uninspired, unseductive, and inconsiderate of the way you feel. And then when you try and divorce him, he ends up killing you and then himself?
Maybe the "player" type is the way to go. You'll get good loving and you won't have to worry about restraining orders at the end of the relationship.
2007-08-02 10:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Besides, the "player" type can settle down and get married and have kids and end up being a better father than the "in love with only you" type because they at least feel they have to recompense for their misbehavior.
2007-08-02 10:41:28 · update #1
I think you have half of a good idea... it's about balance... be a little bit of a player... not to the point that you cheat or hurt your wife... but maintain your bad-boy ability to make her crazy with lust... and then be all chivalrous and treat her like a queen...
The truth is that you have to behave differently every week of the month along with their menstrual cycle, because they will answer differently as to what they want depending on the week.
PMS week, be meek and accommodating or die LOL
The middle of her cycle... be the bad boy who gets her all hot and bothered... in between... be the good husband... it's about knowing which role to play and when. You have to be all of them... just like she has to be a whore in bed with you but a saint with the kids...
balance...
2007-08-02 10:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what my problem is? The totally in love with you guys makes it get so boring so fast, and the player types have you on your guard all the time.. Everytime I get a nice guy I dump him for a bad boy.. Maybe some day I will grow up... lol
2007-08-02 17:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
whats the point of staying in a relationship with a pimp? obviously they dont care about you that much, you're not very special to them and women want a man to think of them as special and important.
unless you're the kind of women who only wants sex and not a long term thing, and no kids or anything. (most women arent like that)
2007-08-02 17:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was wondering why you answered my question the way you did! I guess your the player type huh,lol = )
2007-08-02 17:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by Latina123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So this means I'm perfect. I was a bad boy who reformed and now I'm just naughty.
2007-08-02 18:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be stupid to marry someone that wasnt totally in love with you.
2007-08-02 17:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is your logic for being the "player type" good luck to ya!
2007-08-02 17:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is all this anger directed at your ex, or are you really just that shallow...reread what you have posted and ask yourself that question.
2007-08-02 17:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes!!
2007-08-02 17:38:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whack job!!!!
2007-08-02 17:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋