Marriage & Divorce - 5 August 2007

2007-08-05 23:55:28 · 4 answers · asked by sneha j 1

My husband and I have been together 9years married 16mths and have two kids. Lately I find us squabbling over the stupidest things where we just say things for no reason except to get a bite out of the other one. Its not all day everyday but I am so sick of it. Sometimes I just feel like he is being so immature and I want a serious committed husband, not a moody boy.
Did/do you do this sometimes with your hubby/bf? How did you overcome it?
I am mostly happy in our marriage and am not thinking of leaving, but want to move forward. I feel a little plateau'd?

2007-08-05 23:48:34 · 12 answers · asked by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7

Even today the third party is to be blamed for going with the husband or wife.
As the spouses made the bonding with each other then it is the responsibility of the hubby and wifey to keep that bonding.

Is it time for all singles to tell the male/female giving the chat up line to get back to the spouse? That could be the singles responsibility. Yet should non attached people get involved in the marriage problems? What is the answer here?
I do not think the blame should rest with the third party.

2007-08-05 23:37:26 · 14 answers · asked by jupiteress 7

they take great pleasure in using there power to dictate when and how you see them or how many phone calls or if there sick to tell you ,my son was in the hospital and I was not told nothing of it and my son ask me why I didn't love him to come see him in the hospital and when I told him why I was called a lier, I see parents do this all the time to the kids and get away with it so sometimes I thinck people dont see things for what they are and men are made out to be bad parents with the help of these kind of women,

2007-08-05 23:36:49 · 3 answers · asked by sehoy 3

2007-08-05 22:38:11 · 6 answers · asked by sandy b 1

Tell me from your experience.

2007-08-05 22:36:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i get married in kuwait. Mine husband needs just money. Now i get baby for 8 months. Husband left kuwait no he is in india. I don't want him anymore. Is it possible to get divorce in india while staying in kuwait. I wanna get divorce very fast please if any lawyer from pondicherry or chennai if u can help me please kidley contact this email adress happy15_red@yahoo.co.in.

2007-08-05 22:25:01 · 5 answers · asked by Happy d 1

I was in love with a girl for more than 8 years but she betrayed me once, in between she was in love with other guy and again i was rebound.... Now the family of that girls wants me to tie a knot with her, whereas my family denies, Recently after thiz marraige proposal i felt i am just being used when she has no one else , should i marry her by forcing my family to accept her, or go for some one who chooses me by the right of way not by being an rebound.....??? wat shall i do??? i am confused

2007-08-05 22:02:07 · 40 answers · asked by sheeru 1

My boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me over an online relationship with another woman while away in iraq, i found out and now we are starting to work things out. He tells me It will never happen again and it was the biggest mistake he has ever done in his life. He says he loves me and I know he does. He asked me to marry him and now we are engaged. Yes I'm hurt from of it all, but does he have the right to know that I also cheated on him with 3 other guys or should I just leave it as it is and just help each other make our relationship better because he is willing to do everything to fix things up?

2007-08-05 22:00:37 · 16 answers · asked by hokulani544 1

hi there and happy friendship day to all!
i have a friend whos's seeking to re-marry and looking for a foreign husband. where and whats the good if not best matrimonial sites i can tell her to go? is there really genuine relationships flourishing with this type of dating sites that ended into successful marriage?

thanks in advance and your answers will be greatly appreciated! :)

2007-08-05 21:20:27 · 4 answers · asked by candee 3

but she refused to do it the second time because she didn't want it to be just that. she was a virgin and personally didn't feel it was right. Nevertheless, she stood her ground regardless of how many mind games you play with her or how much you "punish" her for refusing to give in. And she eventually breaks it off.

2007-08-05 21:12:26 · 20 answers · asked by . 3

me and my ex-wife have been divorced for about three years and we have standard joint custody.the courts placed my son living with me(the father),me reciving child support from my ex-wife.my ex-wife works on the weekend and this past weekend it was her weekend to keep my son and in the past i never had to worry about if he was being taken care of while she was working.but i received a phone call from my mother telling me her grandson showed up at her doorstep with a stranger she or i had never met before.turns out the stanger is my ex-wifes new boyfriend and babysitter for my son while she is working on sunday.my son is 7 1/2 years old and requested they go to see his grandmother without any notice,without asking his mother or his father,without using any common sence his babysitter said sure,why not and proceeded to show up at her doorstep.so how should i handle this bewteen me and my ex-wife??.what else have my son requested that his babysitter fulfilled for my son??

2007-08-05 20:36:32 · 13 answers · asked by mnssmith2003 1

younger man?
Im talking about 20,25 or more og an age diffrence.I know people whould say its non of my buesness as long as there happy and love each other.Think about it this way e.g Imn 18 my dad is 47 and my mom is 43.If they both got divorced and my dad dates a women who is 20.@ years older then me ill be discusted and im sure if i was my dads age and my daughter was my age now ill be discusted with her dating a man close to my age.Im not the only one who feels this way even open mind people have this feeling alitelbet but wont admit it.Why cant people love some one there age?Women think older guys are more mature and older women feel younger men give beter sex.I think they all have personal problems and selfestym issues.

2007-08-05 20:30:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married for 10 years, my relatiosnhip with my husband is strained we have no sexual relationship for the past 5 years. no conversation, have one daughter

2007-08-05 20:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by KK 1

2007-08-05 20:13:49 · 14 answers · asked by riverrat115 1

i have been married 4 years, but i've noticed that i'm not as attracted to my wife as i used to be. i find myself fantasizing about other women. what do i do?

2007-08-05 20:12:09 · 35 answers · asked by cabodefogo 1

My husband makes enough money to pay ALL our bills, but due to we had to fix the a/c in the car we got behind. We have paid my mom off for the loan she loaned us. Now we just owe our monthly bills, rent, car payment, insurance, phone.

Okay he waits to pay car note with all the utitlites instead at first of the months check. So what if it will be sent in two weeks early. Because he does this we are still behind.

I told him that for now own I want him to turn his pay check over to me and after all the bills for that two weeks were paid I would give him the rest back. I told him I would cut out cash for his gas in car and cigs and gro too.

He got mad and raised hell. I am trying to help out. Since all he does is work and sleep. He tells me he doesn't have time to call and get put of budget bill. I told him he has to due to his name is on the account.
When I had the bills in my name before I left him last year all our bills were paid up to-date and on time and he still makes the same

2007-08-05 19:58:52 · 9 answers · asked by Msbearr 6

I found this past week that I CAN'T place trust in my wife no matter what I do!
She had a cyber affair, and it almost became physical if I had not gone with her to high school reunion!
She even lied to me when I became concerned about her involvement with the the guy who just so happen to be her 1st love but she said that is was innocent nothing to be affrad of!

I read the emails she left on and decided to nip it in the but with the guy and told his wife at the reunion, to say it was a disaster would be a kindness.
We separated for 3 months and got back together in part because of the children but because i thought I was ready.
She asked to go on a road trip and I almost flipped out in front of the kids!

I instead said I thought now was not a good time and said we could talk about it later on but I find myself not trusting her!

I honestly think our marriage of 16 years might be coming to an end what can I do to TRUST AGAIN, and save the marriage?

4 post in profile on subject!

2007-08-05 19:56:17 · 7 answers · asked by Free-Lance 5

I am about to get married to someone I have been seeing for a year. Most of the relationship has been over the internet and phone, although we have spent several weeks together. I really care about him but its not wild crazy love like my first relationship...... I am also scared about leaving home an going to a new country since it takes me a while to make friends..... w

Is it normal to have doubts just before you get married? I am feeling a bit overwhelmed by the whole thing. But I think its important to get married and its not like we fight or are completely mismatched..... just that sometimes the whole thing seems like too much of an effort...

2007-08-05 19:51:03 · 14 answers · asked by ls2c 1

My wife and I moved abroad 2 years ago, and we are a bit lonely away from home, in spite of our lovely daughter. A bit after we arrived, I met a woman, a good friend with whom all was clear, as I love my wife and daughter immensely. Once, unfortunately, we kissed, and everything spiralled. She fell in love with me, I felt horrible, tried to push her away repeatedly, but we ended up fooling around a few times. She is a decent and patient woman and believes it is our fate to be together. My wife found out 6 months ago and since then we have been trying to work things out. That could be it.... But 3 months ago, I found my wife's diary, which made it clear that she has been in love with someone since way before we moved here. I confronted her, she admitted. And now I am lost! I have since realized that I miss and most probably love this other woman. Something is broken in my couple. I am torn between my wows, the fear of lost happiness and the promise of something luminous. What to do?

2007-08-05 19:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by Abel Tiffauges 1

2007-08-05 19:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by hokulani544 1

Now be honest guys. What makes a guy do such a thing? What makes a man look for other women in the area? Specially when the are giving plenty of enjoyment ;p You can cook for them, clean basically make sure his life is good to go, and he just turns around and screws other women. Whats up with that? And if it true, once a cheater always a cheater?

2007-08-05 19:44:05 · 28 answers · asked by Squeakers 4

If you're a guy who's had his first kiss later in life (20's), will it be special to you? Will that GIRL always be special to you?

2007-08-05 19:32:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married with 5 children and two are mine and three are his... I haven't spoken with another adult that is not related to my husband in four monthes! Am I crazy or is this controlling or do alot of wifes do the same?

2007-08-05 19:23:55 · 15 answers · asked by Kathrine B 3

my dob is 4 july1983,my birth of time is 11-10min night

2007-08-05 19:16:35 · 11 answers · asked by SUMITI K 1

Hes older but with a little help things can be great. sexy night gowns mean nothing. i can be nude and cant get the attention i need from my own husband. my thoughts are to look elsewhere. i dont know how much of this i can stand. im so lonely for affection it burns my heart deeply.I really enjoy sex so much and i always have. Weve known each other for 17 yrs. i need attention and companionship is a divorce the best thing because i feel i must get on with my life. HELP

2007-08-05 19:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by mssilky03 1

he doesnt treat me the same,he loves me but not in love.He lies about things he does.I know he dont admit to wrong doing,but everyting is gone help

2007-08-05 19:13:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my husband have been dating for 2 years and we just got married last friday. since our baby has been born our relationship hasnt really been the same at home...but when we go out of town by ourselves or just are with eachother its different. how can we make our relationship the same as it is when we are alone as it is when we have our baby with us? i do appreciate your answers!

2007-08-05 19:06:41 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5

He call me and told me should he move out w/ his granny or not. I say do what ever u want to. we have and fight about that so after that day we broke up. i don't want to broke up so i come home that day b/c i thought we could fix things. but he told me to give him some space and 3 months to think. But i hurt me is that he trying to ask my best friend out. but it is true he told me he want something to happen between them two. but if she is a good friends she should not let him flirt with her. i ask him to do something with me he said he don't know. but when my friend ask him he say yes without thinking. what should i do about this?

2007-08-05 19:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by My Tien L 1

We have been married for 1 year, and it's almost a sexless marriage. I dont kno why we have this problem cos, we both love each other very much and really want to make each other happy.
My husband has a stressful job, and is tired all the time and does not seem to want sex at all and even if he is not tired he's not possible to get aroused.
And I cant seem to enjoy sex, because I keep thinking I HAVE to enjoy it. So we both have problems that we need to sort out.
My husband does not feel comfortable talking to a counsellor.
We decided to give it a try starting from today - how do I make this more enjoyable for both? and I want him to want sex and not just do it for the sake of it.
How do I excite him? any advice/tips?
I would like to try massage therapy...where can I find information on this ( on the net)
and how do I relax during sex?
Thank you sooo much

2007-08-05 18:50:52 · 14 answers · asked by sapphire_wisdom 1