but she refused to do it the second time because she didn't want it to be just that. she was a virgin and personally didn't feel it was right. Nevertheless, she stood her ground regardless of how many mind games you play with her or how much you "punish" her for refusing to give in. And she eventually breaks it off.
2007-08-05 21:12:26 · 20 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he punishes her for staying true to her own moral compass, he's a dog who ain't worth a second thought.
2007-08-05 21:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by ddd 874 587 545 543 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can you be a virgin if you had sex only once?Do you mean not the sexual way of having sex but just other ways then your a virgin if there was no penetration as for your question heres the thing which most of people tell me
Ive been a virgin all my life im almost in mid 20s it seems Men show their love express their love in physical way.Just as women bond emotionally men bond with their partner through physical intimacy.So thats a bond.Now if the man does not get the No or keeps punishing seems like all he wants is sex or feels the girl is a tease.Just going midway and after having sex once he might feel your holding out teasing being a tease and yes a man does like physical intimacy otherwise hes gay.
Apart from that personally i would respect a girl very much since personally im a virgin myself i know how hard and what it takes to stay true and not give into temptation.So if the guy truly loves you he will accept it and respect it.
2007-08-05 21:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No guys don't think like that. Even though I agree with what you did because I don't think anybody is a better judge of what is right for you than you are; guys don't really care about girls more or respect them more for not putting out.
Any guy that told you they did is one of those weak types that just tells you what you want to hear. People really need to stop bullsh!tting each other and get real.
If I was that guy, I would want to have a ton of sex with you, multiple times a day. I'd also want you to like it as much as I did if not more (or atleast did a good job of pretending that you do). That would be the sexiest thing a girl could do for her man.
Denying sex is the exact opposite of the sexiest thing. It is the most insulting and horrid thing. The fact that he was playing mind games and "punishing you" was kinda dumb on his part coz it didn't get you to give it up, but I guess that's all his feeble mind could come up with. I woulda taken you places and did other things that didn't involve sex, AND gotten your clothes off at the end of the day... then everyone is happy.
If you still didn't put out, then I'd just leave coz you certainly are going to put out for some other fool and if it isn't me then I'll gladly send you on your way to find him.
Does respect come into play in any of this? No. If you denied me sex then broke up with me I'd think you were a ho that is going to be a s!ut for some other chump.
I wouldn't respect you more, but maybe I'd respect myself less for not having the game to make sh!t work out.
2007-08-05 21:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She must have regretted doing it the first time. If you insist on having it a second time and even "punish" her for refusing to give in, you can't blame her to eventually break off. You should be proud of her and respect her decision.
2007-08-05 21:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by sosme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course, at least I would. A girl gave her virginity to me and then realized that maybe it wasn't the right thing to do, and feels that in a relationship there should be more than just sex, is one who is seeking true passion and love. If a man doesn't respect her for that or is stubborn to her opinion is one that is only seeking pleasure. Your virginity is a wonderful gift to that one true love and if you feel that it would've not been given it is your virginity not his remember that. As long as you maintain a relationship with the man I don't see why he should take it as an insult, don't let an action like this one affect the relationship understand.
Good luck and take care!
2007-08-05 21:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definitely
2007-08-05 21:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many girls have sex too soon when dating someone these days and then have regrets, so if a girl wanted to wait until she was sure the relationship was going somewhere I would think that was amazing. I don't like cheap easy girls if they are going to be that easy with you the smallest temptation is most likely going to make them cheat on you.
2007-08-05 21:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like someone was pressured into having sex. 1st time or 500,000th time, that's not right. And, if that's the case, respect has nothing to do with this question....report the abuser.
2007-08-05 21:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by imrt70 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's a lot more woman than most are and she's well deserving of respect. Hopefully, she'll find a guy who will appreciate her. If all you want is somebody to sleep with, find yourself another fool.
2007-08-06 01:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can either strengthen a good relationship or destroy a unstable relationship. If you guys had a strong relationship than you just lost a good guy and you lost your virginity to him. But if you guys had an unstable relationship you did a right thing.
2007-08-05 21:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Slavik 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋